u/SnooPandas4155

Hi everyone, l I live in Türkiye and I don't have anyone around me to practice speaking with.I really need someone to help me with this. I'm at B1 level. Feel free to message me.

Hi everyone, l I live in Türkiye and I don't have anyone around me to practice speaking with.I really need someone to help me with this. I'm at B1 level. Feel free to message me.

Salam.May Allah's protection and love be upon you.

My brothers and sisters who are married or about to be married I know that for many of us, the reason we want to marry is to fulfill our emotional and physical needs. And before that, there's the nice excitement of the wedding itself the dress, the honeymoon, the food and wonderful dreams .

But I find myself wondering: how should a person actually prepare for marriage? What are your expectations from marriage, and how should we be preparing ourselves for this life? I'm hoping to hear honest, heartfelt answers from both brothers and sisters.

Salam alaikum ,my sisters and brothers. Have you ever felt like everyone else's life is moving forward while you're stuck in place? Imagine hiding in a closet for hours, inside a house in some abandoned, besieged village. You can't come out because armed soldiers might be outside, but staying in feels suffocating too. Lonely in the middle of a crowd. Even with a friend you share coffee with, you reach a point where you don't want to share anything afraid your words will just become something to be judged. I find myself wondering how you all kept your motivation through this worldly life, through the troubles swept under the rug, through the wait for a day you'll truly feel happy. I feel like I'm in a deep well, or like prophet Musa leaving all of Egypt behind, stripped of every rank and title. I wanted to share what I feel more than what I've lived through. I want Allah to be my closest friend, and I'm asking for your prayers.

Salam alaikum ,my sisters and brothers. Have you ever felt like everyone else's life is moving forward while you're stuck in place? Imagine hiding in a closet for hours, inside a house in some abandoned, besieged village. You can't come out because armed soldiers might be outside, but staying in feels suffocating too. Lonely in the middle of a crowd. Even with a friend you share coffee with, you reach a point where you don't want to share anything afraid your words will just become something to be judged. I find myself wondering how you all kept your motivation through this worldly life, through the troubles swept under the rug, through the wait for a day you'll truly feel happy. I feel like I'm in a deep well, or like prophet Musa leaving all of Egypt behind, stripped of every rank and title. I wanted to share what I feel more than what I've lived through. I want Allah to be my closest friend, and I'm asking for your prayers.

I met someone here last year , we both had respectable professions. To be honest, I wanted to get to know him.we have a lot of common hobbies, we talked about Islam, science, Ai .I supported him; he kept saying he didn't feel well, so I found him a therapist. He said he wanted to meet my family and marry me. We were both suitable for it. My family respects him, and he would have a large family. I also told him from the beginning that I have trust issues. Trust is the most important thing for me.

We talked for a long time and even had serious intentions, until I found out he was married.(Not kidding )The story ended there. He has distant marriage, and it was truly impossible for me to understand this.Because he is living his mother ,also he is convert,l really respect him.And in the end, tears and disappointment. Don't trust anyone pls if u want to be sad

Isn't this really a Muslim sub? Don't you fear Allah I truly do fear Him, and I think we should too. I trust Allah justice.

jazakallah khair everyone.

May Allah's mercy be upon you. I am speaking especially to you, my dear sisters. Please do not rush into marriage develop yourselves, have a profession, and please love yourselves first.

I have made friends here, but I also encountered predatory men who, I later found out, were married. I have read many posts and seen so many women who were deceived, so many women left heartbroken.

Our Prophet, peace be upon him, said before he passed away that women are a trust placed in your care. Men, please value your wives stop lying to them and giving them false hope.

My sisters, so many homes have been destroyed because of social media, and more will be. Please love yourselves first. Sometimes being alone is better than living among lies.

I am very sad and tired of this life and of people.

May Allah's mercy be upon you. I am speaking especially to you, my dear sisters. Please do not rush into marriage develop yourselves, have a profession, and please love yourselves first.

I have made friends here, but I also encountered predatory men who, I later found out, were married. I have read many posts and seen so many women who were deceived, so many women left heartbroken.

Our Prophet, peace be upon him, said before he passed away that women are a trust placed in your care. Men, please value your wives stop lying to them and giving them false hope.

My sisters, so many homes have been destroyed because of social media, and more will be. Please love yourselves first. Sometimes being alone is better than living among lies.

I am very sad and tired of this life and of people.