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Took plan b 12 hours after anal and rubbing only. As safe measure. Fast forward 3 days later I have started bleeding. By day 4 after intake the blood looks like my period both in color and flow. My expected period is in 10 days, so it is too early for it to be a true period? And I have an upset stomach since this morning. I felt dizzy and then very tired and I threw up once, i’m getting a bit stressed with all of this happening to my body.

Is this a normal side effect? Please someone?

M30, F31, 4 years of relationship.

So she decided to end our relationship the weirdest way ever. Before june (about a week ago) she started replying to one or two text maximum, she traveled with her sister and told me they had an argument where her little sister told her : he made you wait for 4 years to propose but never did so blabla..

Now for the background story, I had a job where I was earning very good money, but was never financially ready to take the big step. I promised her that by the end of year 3 i would propose and marry but it didnt happen because financially it just didn’t add up. Then I lost my job, expecting her to be supportive two weeks later she told me we’re just going in circles, to which I said i’m sorry i made false promises but im still up to my word. Meaning I will do it just give me time. She told me she’s almost 31 and woul not be waiting for me forever.

Mind you that I was paying for her studies for two years, taking care of her buying clothes, occasional visits to the doctor, dentist, etc .. this was my way to tell her hey girl i’m with you and I am man enough to stick to my word.

After that period of dry texting she told me she was at the beach and I happened to be there also, my gut told me to go see where she was and there she was with 3 guys and her little sister, I felt my heart breaking in all ways.. the girl that was saying not being in a good mood is hving a very nice time with people, i confronted her about it there and she told me these are just her little sister’s friends and that they were young etc.. i didnt buy we had an argument on the spot and left super angry. She Blocked me on every platform

After that I tried to make it up because I told myself she was maybe overwhelmed and just did that as way for her to breather .. and told her older sister to arrange a meeting, I bought her flowers and even wrote her a letter where I said that i loved her and wanted her to come back as I was really planning to marry her and that she was the one for me. We met and had a long discussion in my car and then i drove her back home, said goodbye and in my mind it was kind of a situation where she was still unsure but i expected to be unblocked, she did not until the very next day and only on whatsapp, i texted her very openly « hey hope you doing great blabla » but still the pattern of answering 1 text out of 5 was there again, so I told her about how i felt to which she reacted by saying that i shiuldnt expect everything to go back to normal because she waited for a long time etc, we kind of got in an argument and told me im not getting back with you the day you’re ready i’ll be home come and propose. I was like okay everything is bad but at least she sound like she’ll be waiting. So again the next day was 2nd of june, her school had to be paid so I went there and did a deposit - usually she was the one doing that. But then all hell unleashed, she got furious told me no body asked me to do that, that i made a mess going to her school and that she hated me. Which i didnt understand and she blocked me again. Everywhere but on snapchat. No contact since then, few days later i got cheesy and sad enough and sent her a picture of Stitch being sad and wrote on it that i missed her, she saw it but no answer. she unblocked on whatsapp on 20th i sent her a hi how are you just checking up, she read it and blocked right away. Then snap is still not blocked which I do not understand why. It’s been 30 days now of no contact. Her birthday is on the 20th of july and im wondering if I should reach out?

I just want to have perspectives from you guys.. i’m all about her and want her as woman, but she’s doing this mess whereas things could be so much easier. I’m having a job now and saving as im still planning to propose and started a mini accessory brand for women to help with that, i’m really willing to walk the walk but with this situation and how it unfolded im thinking am I making a mistake ? Is she just super emotive ?

So she decided to end our relationship the weirdest way ever. Before june (about a week ago) she started replying to one or two text maximum, she traveled with her sister and told me they had an argument where her little sister told her : he made you wait for 4 years to propose but never did so blabla..

Now for the background story, I had a job where I was earning very good money, but was never financially ready to take the big step. I promised her that by the end of year 3 i would propose and marry but it didnt happen because financially it just didn’t add up. Then I lost my job, expecting her to be supportive two weeks later she told me we’re just going in circles, to which I said i’m sorry i made false promises but im still up to my word. Meaning I will do it just give me time. She told me she’s almost 31 and woul not be waiting for me forever.

Mind you that I was paying for her studies for two years, taking care of her buying clothes, occasional visits to the doctor, dentist, etc .. this was my way to tell her hey girl i’m with you and I am man enough to stick to my word.

After that period of dry texting she told me she was at the beach and I happened to be there also, my gut told me to go see where she was and there she was with 3 guys and her little sister, I felt my heart breaking in all ways.. the girl that was saying not being in a good mood is hving a very nice time with people, i confronted her about it there and she told me these are just her little sister’s friends and that they were young etc.. i didnt buy we had an argument on the spot and left super angry. She Blocked me on every platform

After that I tried to make it up because I told myself she was maybe overwhelmed and just did that as way for her to breather .. and told her older sister to arrange a meeting, I bought her flowers and even wrote her a letter where I said that i loved her and wanted her to come back as I was really planning to marry her and that she was the one for me. We met and had a long discussion in my car and then i drove her back home, said goodbye and in my mind it was kind of a situation where she was still unsure but i expected to be unblocked, she did not until the very next day and only on whatsapp, i texted her very openly « hey hope you doing great blabla » but still the pattern of answering 1 text out of 5 was there again, so I told her about how i felt to which she reacted by saying that i shiuldnt expect everything to go back to normal because she waited for a long time etc, we kind of got in an argument and told me im not getting back with you the day you’re ready i’ll be home come and propose. I was like okay everything is bad but at least she sound like she’ll be waiting. So again the next day was 2nd of june, her school had to be paid so I went there and did a deposit - usually she was the one doing that. But then all hell unleashed, she got furious told me no body asked me to do that, that i made a mess going to her school and that she hated me. Which i didnt understand and she blocked me again. Everywhere but on snapchat. No contact since then, few days later i got cheesy and sad enough and sent her a picture of Stitch being sad and wrote on it that i missed her, she saw it but no answer. she unblocked on whatsapp on 20th i sent her a hi how are you just checking up, she read it and blocked right away. Then snap is still not blocked which I do not understand why. It’s been 30 days now of no contact. Her birthday is on the 20th of july and im wondering if I should reach out?

I just want to have perspectives from you guys.. i’m all about her and want her as woman, but she’s doing this mess whereas things could be so much easier. I’m having a job now and saving as im still planning to propose and started a mini accessory brand for women to help with that, i’m really willing to walk the walk but with this situation and how it unfolded im thinking am I making a mistake ? Is she just super emotive ?

F 25 m29, on the 26th of june we had twice unprotected anal intercourse for a while and he had a massage/rubbing where our genitals were rubbing with no penetration whatsoever.Then he wore a condom and rubbed his tip at the entrance of my vagina. He DID not cum inside or near nor on my vagina. Thing is i have cycles of 30-35 days usually and this happened ON THE DAY (17 days after my last period) i was ovulating.. so I took levonorgestrel the day after about 10-14 h later and yeah i know it’s dumb … but we rubbed again right after that and that was I know I mistake and I shouldn’t have done that !!!! Now i’m freaking out and about to cry because I do not know if this would lead to a pregnancy, I’m totally freaking out!! Please someone answer this post i’m literally panicking…….

F 25 m29, on the 26th of june we had twice unprotected anal intercourse for a while and he had a massage/rubbing where our genitals were rubbing with no penetration whatsoever.Then he wore a condom and rubbed his tip at the entrance of my vagina. He DID not cum inside or near nor on my vagina. Thing is i have cycles of 30-35 days usually and this happened ON THE DAY (17 days after my last period) i was ovulating.. so I took levonorgestrel the day after about 10-14 h later and yeah i know it’s dumb … but we rubbed again right after that and that was I know I mistake and I shouldn’t have done that !!!! Now i’m freaking out and about to cry because I do not know if this would lead to a pregnancy, I’m totally freaking out!! Please someone answer this post i’m literally panicking…….