30M, Dar es Salaam - Looking for something serious

Hey people, I’ve finally come to terms with the fact that I’m into bi women with a high libido. A girl who likes girls too? Say less 😩

Quick heads up before you read further: my long term goal is a life with two wives, not one. If polygamy/plural partnership isn’t something you’re open to, this one’s not for you, however if it is then, keep reading.

A little about me: I hold a BSc in ITM and a Master’s in Psychology, both from Edinburgh Napier University. I’m an entrepreneur working on building a sustainable farming business here in Dar, been through a number of years doing research and prototyping and I’m now pushing to bring it fully to life.

I’m also big into DIY and building things with my hands, down the line I want to get vocational training in carpentry and fabrication, mechanical and electrical engineering, and eventually culinary education too.

Long-term, I’m working toward a homestead lifestyle growing my own food and raising a few livestock. I believe in creating something sustainable, both in business and in the life I’m building with the people I bring into it.

To be specific: I’m looking to first build something serious with a fellow Tanzanian (I like a bit of Swahiliness in the atmosphere 😁), with marriage as the goal down the line. Down the road I’d look to add a second partner, likely a foreigner (sio wazungu, probably Caribbean, Cuba maybe), but that’s a separate chapter.

Right now, if you’re Tanzanian, bi, 25–35, and based in Dar, slide into my inbox and let’s see if there’s something real here.

I’m drawn to women who are natural, nurturing, creative, open-minded, and thoughtful with the education and critical thinking to match.
Someone fun, exposed, freaky when it counts, with a high libido to match mine. Health and wellness matters to me, if you’re into taking care of your body and mind, and you genuinely enjoy cooking up healthy home cooked meals, that’s a huge plus.

Bonus points if you’ve got a creative hobby or passion project you’re pouring yourself into (painting, crocheting, drawing, designing etc).
Looks wise, I lean towards slim to slim-thick women. Someone I can put on my shoulders and carry out of a burning building to safety or pin to the wall when I’m burning with desire, if you know what I mean 🤣😌

Also, I like mine’s natural and with their feminine dial turned to the max. If you rock and style your natural hair be it an Afro, dreadlocks etc and keep your makeup very light, and love nature and plants, you might be the one.

I’m looking for a woman who doesn’t only look like an adult but behaves like one too, a woman who understands “what it takes to become,” a woman who knows herself and is clear on her goals and is already putting in the work to get there (I need to know my partner can hold things down when I’m out of town).

Kama wewe ni wa kuomba pesa for your basic needs and believe it is your man’s job to ensure your hair is done then you’re not ready for a serious relationship. I am a big believer that during the dating stage people should be their own adults and the dynamics should change as the relationship progresses.

My end goal is to build a life where my wives are stay at home wives, having the time and space to practice their passions and hobbies at home, and turn those into something profitable if they want to.

I also have goals of making an impact within my communities, like building parks, opening vocational training programs and camps for youth, and much more — so I’d very much prefer a woman with a strong interest in community development, not someone who’s only focused on spending on herself.

I’m not the partying and outgoing type, Im a strong and disciplined homebody, I don’t drink but I am 420 friendly, I enjoy watching anime as there is so much life lessons in them, I enjoy making music, i play the guitar, a bit of piano and bass guitar too. I enjoy learning things, Im currently learning how to weld.

Kiukweli, I’m craving something serious. Things are moving in the right direction and want to find someone to experience this flower blooming. If you know who you are and where you’re headed, let’s get acquainted. 😌

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u/SnooTangerines5568 — 8 days ago

[For Rent] 2 Master Bedrooms in Quiet Ununio Home — All Utilities Incl. | 300k & 350k TZS/month

Hi all,
I have two master bedrooms available in a 4-bedroom house in Ununio, Dar es Salaam, looking for quiet, clean, mature tenants who value peace over parties.

Room 2 — 300,000 TZS/month — Available immediately

Room 3 — 350,000 TZS/month (slightly bigger) — Available September

Both come with:
Private ensuite bathroom & toilet

Full access to shared kitchen (gas/electric cooker, fridge, freezer, microwave, blender, air fryer, and more)

Full access to shared living space

Waste sorting/management systems are in place and must be adhered to

Whats included in the rent?:

Security

Water

Electricity

Trash collection

5G wifi

Backup power for outages for small appliances only (battery + inverter setup)

Reliable water pressure/supply — actively maintained

Terms:
Minimum stay: 3 months

Payment: every 3 or 6 months (upfront)

No deposit required

No smoking indoors (fine outside)

Pets: open to discussion

Overnight guests: fine, but please discuss with me in advance

Who I’m looking for:
Employed persons preferred

Quiet, clean, mature, non-dramatic

Not into nightlife/late-night comings and goings

Respectful of shared spaces

Someone who’ll communicate directly if something’s wrong

No gender preference.

Compound has a garden too, so it’s a genuinely calm place to live — not just a room with four walls.

DM me with a bit about yourself, your work, and which room + move-in timing works for you. Happy to answer questions here too.

u/SnooTangerines5568 — 25 days ago

Looking for friends in ununio

Just recently moved into my new home in ununio, Im looking for some cool friends to be hanging out with, 420 friendly, anime watching, and peaceful boys or gals.

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u/SnooTangerines5568 — 1 month ago
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Mpaka na changanyikiwa

Earthy girls like such kweli wapo Tz/Dar or do I have to fly abroad jamani?

For as long as I can remember my type has always been, earthy, reggae and indie music listening, plant loving, natural hair having, waist beads and toe rings wearing, piercing and tattoo having, psychedelic energy, blunt rolling, weed smoking, vegetarian and Mediterranean cooking, pastry baking loving, anime watching, astrology studying, panting, drawing, crocheting, creatively artistic women.

Type of woman that’ll turn my house into jungle with well kept plants, type of woman that’ll have me coming home to a house smelling of healthy food and weed. Type of woman so immersed in her creativity to the point that every piece of waits she makes, makes me wanna frame it and hang it on the wall just so I can tell people “my girl made that” when they ask where I bought it.

Wapo jamani or am I dreaming of the impossible?

u/SnooTangerines5568 — 1 month ago

Self built hydroponic tower

A month ago I built my mom a semiautomatic hydroponic tower as well as custom made her nutrient solutions. She has even growing arugula and this is her second harvest. It’s been a week difference between her harvests. I am happy to say that I am very happy with how the tower and nutrient solution are both performing

P.S: ignore the rotting lid as - I have a solution in mind and will be upgrading to it soon

u/SnooTangerines5568 — 1 month ago

Available - 2 Self-Contained Bedrooms in Ununio (Near AFK School) – 500,000 TZS/mo (All Utilities Included!)

Hey everyone,

I have two self-contained bedrooms coming available in a relaxed, peaceful house located in Ununio, very close to the AFK school. The intake/move-in timeline starts this August, making it a perfect setup if you're looking to transition into a new space next month.

If you’re looking for a hassle-free living situation where you don't have to stress about split bills, electricity tokens, or buying major kitchen appliances, this is it.

The Financials & Flexibility

Rent: Starting at 500,000 TZS per month.

Payment Terms: Flexible options to fit your timeline. You can choose to pay either every 3 months or every 6 months.

Availability: Move-in/Intake begins August.

The Space & Amenities

The Bedrooms: Both rooms are unfurnished, giving you a clean slate to set up your space exactly how you like it. Each room has its own private, attached bathroom.

Fully Loaded Kitchen: You'll have full access to a kitchen that is completely set up. It comes equipped with an electric kettle, gas/oven cooker, fridge, freezer, microwave, air fryer, and a pressure cooker. You are completely free to use it however you like.

What’s Included (Zero Extra Bills)
I'm keeping things simple so you can just focus on living. Covered entirely on my end (groceries are NOT included but can be discussed):
High-speed Internet

Water & Electricity (no dealing with surprise utility bills or reloading tokens)

Trash collection 

The Ideal Housemate & House Vibe
The goal is to maintain a peaceful, productive, and comfortable sanctuary. This isn’t a party house; it’s a space designed for focus, relaxation, and good energy.
I’m looking for someone who aligns with this vibe:

Quiet & Focused: You respect personal boundaries and quiet hours. This setup is perfect for remote workers, professionals, creatives, or anyone who genuinely values their downtime and a calm environment after a long day.

Proactively Clean: You instinctively clean up after yourself. If you use the kitchen, you leave it tidy for the next person. We share the common areas, so keeping things neat without needing a reminder is a must.

Grounded & Mature: Low-drama, emotionally mature, and easygoing. Communication is key—if something comes up, we handle it like adults with a quick, chill conversation.

Independent yet Friendly: You’re entirely self-sufficient and enjoy your own space, but you’re also down for a pleasant, casual chat in passing while making coffee.

Bonus Points: If you appreciate a minimalist, earthy aesthetic, enjoy good music, or are deeply focused on your own personal crafts and projects, you’ll fit right in.

How to Apply:
If this sounds like the kind of environment you’d thrive in, shoot me a PM! Please include:
A little bit about yourself and what you do.

Your preferred payment timeline (3 or 6 months).

Your target move-in date in August. Let's chat! I

Ask for pictures in the DM’s
You may even come over for a viewing. I won’t charge anything

Allow me to clarify that I live in that house as well, I have 4 bedrooms, 2 are for myself and I want to rent out the remaining two. I hope this is understood.

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u/SnooTangerines5568 — 2 months ago

[Trade] Wanting to exchange a Kenwood Microwave for a 7L+ Manual Stainless Steel Pressure Cooker (Dar es salaam)

Hey guys,

I’ve got two Kenwood 20L Microwave (manual knobs, highly durable model, retail value around 160K TSH). Both in mint condition, but I obviously do not actually need two.

Hence, I’m looking to trade it for a large manual stovetop pressure cooker. Or sell it for 130,000

What I'm looking for in the cooker:

Material: Must be Stainless Steel. aluminum models can be discussed but I will prioritize stainless steel.

Size: 7 Liters or larger (need it for high-volume batch prepping).

Location: I am based in Dar es Salaam and prefer a direct, face-to-face swap so we can both inspect the items before trading.

Drop a comment or send me a DM if you have a large stovetop cooker sitting around and want to swap it for a reliable microwave!

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u/SnooTangerines5568 — 2 months ago

Dar es Salaam - Looking for 1 Mature, Quiet Housemate – 3BR House in Bahari Beach (Unfinished / Work-in-Progress)

Hey everyone,

I’m looking for one housemate to share a spacious 3-bedroom house in the peaceful, coastal neighborhood of Bahari Beach.

If you value your peace, love a quiet environment, and want a sanctuary away from the noise, this might be a great fit for you.

The Space
Location: Bahari Beach. It's breezy, coastal, and generally a very calm, quiet residential area.

The House: A large 3-bedroom layout. You will have your own private room with a private bathroom and plenty of breathing room.

The Condition (Full Disclosure):The house is currently unfinished. It is fully functional and livable, but some parts are still a work-in-progress cosmetically. If you don't mind a rustic, evolving space or a bit of a blank canvas, you'll do just fine here.

The Vibe & About Me:
I am a quiet person who thoroughly enjoys a calm, noise-free home environment. This is absolutely not a party house. No loud music, late-night ragers, or constant revolving doors of guests.

I highly respect personal space and boundaries, and I appreciate a mature, live-and-let-live dynamic.

Ideal Housemate
Clean & Considerate: Keeping shared spaces (kitchen, living area) clean and organized is a non-negotiable requirement.

Mature: Someone grounded, responsible, and independent.

Quiet: Someone who genuinely appreciates tranquility and doesn't bring the noise home with them.

Logistics & Rent
Rent: 200,000 TZS per month - this includes the following utilities electricity, water, internet and security.

Availability: available from next month

If this sounds like a living situation that aligns with your lifestyle, or you just have questions then shoot me a DM!

Please include a little bit about yourself, what you do, and what your ideal routine looks like.

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u/SnooTangerines5568 — 2 months ago