30M, Dar es Salaam - Looking for something serious
Hey people, I’ve finally come to terms with the fact that I’m into bi women with a high libido. A girl who likes girls too? Say less 😩
Quick heads up before you read further: my long term goal is a life with two wives, not one. If polygamy/plural partnership isn’t something you’re open to, this one’s not for you, however if it is then, keep reading.
A little about me: I hold a BSc in ITM and a Master’s in Psychology, both from Edinburgh Napier University. I’m an entrepreneur working on building a sustainable farming business here in Dar, been through a number of years doing research and prototyping and I’m now pushing to bring it fully to life.
I’m also big into DIY and building things with my hands, down the line I want to get vocational training in carpentry and fabrication, mechanical and electrical engineering, and eventually culinary education too.
Long-term, I’m working toward a homestead lifestyle growing my own food and raising a few livestock. I believe in creating something sustainable, both in business and in the life I’m building with the people I bring into it.
To be specific: I’m looking to first build something serious with a fellow Tanzanian (I like a bit of Swahiliness in the atmosphere 😁), with marriage as the goal down the line. Down the road I’d look to add a second partner, likely a foreigner (sio wazungu, probably Caribbean, Cuba maybe), but that’s a separate chapter.
Right now, if you’re Tanzanian, bi, 25–35, and based in Dar, slide into my inbox and let’s see if there’s something real here.
I’m drawn to women who are natural, nurturing, creative, open-minded, and thoughtful with the education and critical thinking to match.
Someone fun, exposed, freaky when it counts, with a high libido to match mine. Health and wellness matters to me, if you’re into taking care of your body and mind, and you genuinely enjoy cooking up healthy home cooked meals, that’s a huge plus.
Bonus points if you’ve got a creative hobby or passion project you’re pouring yourself into (painting, crocheting, drawing, designing etc).
Looks wise, I lean towards slim to slim-thick women. Someone I can put on my shoulders and carry out of a burning building to safety or pin to the wall when I’m burning with desire, if you know what I mean 🤣😌
Also, I like mine’s natural and with their feminine dial turned to the max. If you rock and style your natural hair be it an Afro, dreadlocks etc and keep your makeup very light, and love nature and plants, you might be the one.
I’m looking for a woman who doesn’t only look like an adult but behaves like one too, a woman who understands “what it takes to become,” a woman who knows herself and is clear on her goals and is already putting in the work to get there (I need to know my partner can hold things down when I’m out of town).
Kama wewe ni wa kuomba pesa for your basic needs and believe it is your man’s job to ensure your hair is done then you’re not ready for a serious relationship. I am a big believer that during the dating stage people should be their own adults and the dynamics should change as the relationship progresses.
My end goal is to build a life where my wives are stay at home wives, having the time and space to practice their passions and hobbies at home, and turn those into something profitable if they want to.
I also have goals of making an impact within my communities, like building parks, opening vocational training programs and camps for youth, and much more — so I’d very much prefer a woman with a strong interest in community development, not someone who’s only focused on spending on herself.
I’m not the partying and outgoing type, Im a strong and disciplined homebody, I don’t drink but I am 420 friendly, I enjoy watching anime as there is so much life lessons in them, I enjoy making music, i play the guitar, a bit of piano and bass guitar too. I enjoy learning things, Im currently learning how to weld.
Kiukweli, I’m craving something serious. Things are moving in the right direction and want to find someone to experience this flower blooming. If you know who you are and where you’re headed, let’s get acquainted. 😌