u/Solar_foxxx2

Do yall have any comfort creators that are trans i need new people to watch lol. :3

I’m looking for bands similar to McCafferty specifically with songs similar to Trees II and If I Saw Him I’d Still Kiss Him. Any recs are appreciated:)

So my ex and me ended badly. She said she always saw me as a woman. One of her friends saw a picture of us and knows i’m trans and she said something about me and called me “that thing”. So my ex stopped being friends with her. But then me and her ended and they became friends again because the girl apologized to my ex and not me. and every time i brought up the fact that she didn’t apologize to me but my ex, my ex would say she still apologized so it’s ok and im making a big deal out of nothing. am i just stupid or is that actually messed up?

So basically in the end we fought alot and i would bring up stuff from the past that she’s done that has hurt me and i was raised in a bad environment so for me stuff like that sticks. And i would also get extremely clingy because i have BPD and developed favorite person disorder and she was my FP. I’m trans and she has a friend that called me a “thing” and never apologized to ME but apologized to her and she said it’s fine and would get mad if i got upset about it. She says i was emotionally abusive and i think i agree but im getting so many differing opinions and i want one that’s completely disassociated from both of us because everyone that’s calling me abusive (besides me) are her friends and everyone disagreeing with her are my friends. So was I? and if i was what can i do to improve? i would always ask her and she wouldn’t really tell me she would just say “im not your mom you should know”.

I wanna make new friends and i’ve had a really really really bad week and i wanna meet new people cuz tbh most of the old people i know suck lmao