u/SongbirdOfDeath — reddlx

BFP 13DPO

In January we had a TFMR when I was 24 weeks pregnant from severe scoliosis and kyphosis with a possibility of VACTRL. I was naive and thought we’d conceive again on the first try like how it originally happened. But 6 cycles trying later, here we are. I know it’s early - 3 weeks and 5 days and I waited until today to test because we’re leaving for vacation to Mallorca today and I wanted to know if it would be a mocktail or cocktail trip.

Wishing you all your rainbow babies, and the families you have dreamed of. ❤️

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u/SongbirdOfDeath — 5 days ago

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BPF 13 DPO

I know I always liked to see what people’s chart looked like - so here is mine. I never tested post ovulation confirm because it made me more anxious and felt like a waste of tests.

In January we had a TFMR when I was 24 weeks pregnant. I was naive and thought we’d convince again on the first try like how it originally happened. But 6 cycles trying later, here we are. I know it’s early 3 weeks and 5 days and I waited until today to test because we’re leaving for vacation to Mallorca and I wanted to know if it would be a mocktail or cocktail trip.

Wishing you all your babies, rainbow babies, and the families you have dreamed of. ❤️

u/SongbirdOfDeath — 5 days ago

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How do you stay hopeful?

We had a TFMR for our first pregnancy which was truly the first time we tried at the end of January from severe congenital scoliosis and kyphosis and they couldn’t rule out VACTRYL.

We got right back on the horse trying again once my period came back 30 days later. I’ve just gotten another negative pregnancy test and I just don’t know how to continue to endure the heartache of each negative month. I know how lucky we were to conceive on the first try and how uncommon it was.

My MFM and OB say that even with my age (36), that we really have until the start of fall before we need to go down the REI route. I’m just so scared that this is some kind of cosmic punishment and that I’m never going to get pregnant again and he was our only chance.

I’m in EDMR and talk therapy, I get fertility acupuncture, I’m doing everything I can to help my body. I live a low stress life, I love my job and my husband but this week I felt all the symptoms I did before I got pregnant the first time and had such insane hope that this was finally the month. And my heart is broken.

How do you all stay strong? I just want a child so much.

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u/SongbirdOfDeath — 1 month ago

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Hack of a small desk + linen cupboards

Hi all!

Never done any kind of ikea hacks before but I live in a NYC 2 bedroom. We have about 76ft of width and 9 ft tall ceilings that I’m trying to fit a small desk with linen cupboards of some kind for storage in our very large foyer. I haven’t been able to find anything like it, but wondering if anyone might have an idea of where to start. I initially wanted a vintage English linen cupboard, but $8k and up is a little bit much for something I can’t find the right dimensions for. Photo of space attached! Thank you!

u/SongbirdOfDeath — 3 months ago

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Hi all!

This is my second cycle tracking with inito after losing my son at 24 weeks pregnant January 30th. We truly did conceive him on our first time using premom LH strips. I was naive and ignorant to think it would happen that way again.

Post loss I had 2 30 day cycles and insanely heavy periods. This one I just had was the most normal my period had been since before conceiving 27 day long cycle and longer but lighter period. This time last month I was already high fertility and not at all this month so I’m really scratching my head and wondering if anyone might have any insights? Maybe a later ovulation is coming since my LH is rising? I just want to be a mom 😔

u/SongbirdOfDeath — 4 months ago