u/Soratherandomgirl

When I was first yumeshipping w/ Hunter, I first thought it was weird and didn't make any sense, especially sense Hunter never showed any tendencies. But over the past couple years, I've grown fond of it. The idea just gives me more fantasies, and hey, I'm all here for it.

So I've been online friends with this girl for almost two years, and months ago when we had reconnected after she had accidentally reported my old discord account, which caused me to make a new one, everything was going good, we'd chat about shows and games, she would even sometimes text first, which doesn't seem important to tell, but it becomes relevant. But since a few months ago, she seemed distant, I would always be the one to text first but would almost always leave me to be the last one who messaged, but I never pushed her into telling me why, since whenever I would bring it up, she told me she was going through things, so I trusted her. But I recently started noticing things, whenever she would be online and I would message her about something, either if it was funny or I was talking about something we used to talk about, I would get nothing, nada. But the same day when she would still be online, I would text her something that would concern her, like me talking about our friendship or if she thought I was upset at her, she would immediately text back, which makes me think "oh, she only text back when it's important" and I forgot to mention that recently, she said she was feeling better, so I started to feel bad, and (after months of constant ignoring) she had finally started accepting my invite requests on vrchat... But of course, it immediately went back to the usual ignoring. Everytime I'm on vrchat, I always send an invite request, and I always get nothing. And it's not like she plays games that have her not see it, because most of the time, shes always in hang out worlds with our other friend. So I don't know what to do, I don't want to end our friendship because she's my best friend and everything time I want to send her a paragraph of why I want our friendship to end, I just end up not doing it. So what should I do? Should I try to talk with her about it, should I end the friendship, or should I keep being friends with her?

I'll go first. During my oc and Hunters wedding, before the ceremony, Willow goes into like the grooms suite where Hunter is getting ready. And thats when she decides it's a good time to confess her feelings to him, she tries to convince him to run away with her and even tries to kiss him. Sense Hunter is extremely confused and upset by this, he throws her out of the grooms suite and tells her that she should leave. So basically I would be making Willow (a very loved character in the toh community) a home wrecker.

I don't understand how fandom shippers say stuff like "if you don't like my ship then just don't interact with me" which is valid. But then they go on to bully people who yumeship with their favorite characters or a character that they ship with another character. Like for example, I yumeship with Hunter from The owl house. And ofc because a popular ship from that fandom is huntlow, some people in the fandom don't really like me (which is could care less) but whenever I say that I don't like huntlow, some of the huntlow shippers act like I just called them a slur 😐 and in my opinion... Seems very hypocritical, because isn't fandom shipping and yumeshipping kinda the same thing? But hey, tell me what y'all think.