Are you alone and no one checks on you?
Many of us are left alone, not by choice I'm sure, at least shortly after our spouse passes. Doesn't matter our age, but it is a major concern nonetheless. Neighbors oftentimes don't care or aren't nearby. Acquaintances you deal with are just acquaintances no matter how long you've known them. Families aren't always understanding. While many have grown children, they may be far away and have their own lives or don't feel the need to check on you. Some are too embarrassed to mention their kids don't bother with them. Even if you try your best to reach out for any help in society, sometimes it's a lost cause. Our world today is full of uncaring folks, let alone any small act of kindness. Yet one day, everyone will be in our shoes during their life.
Are you troubled you may die alone and not be found until sometime later? Do you know that it would be a hazmat team that would collect your remains?
Not everyone is able to get or has a medical alert system. Many communities don't have a wellness check system that contacts you. How many of you have reached out to your community officials to inquire if any program exists for those alone? I encourage you to do so for your own peace of mind.
It was mentioned in another Reddit post recently, that those alone may start our own well checks on each other, even if by text. I found someone had done such years ago on Reddit, but no longer exists. If I'm wrong, someone please correct me. Granted one could create a new community for this very cause if they're able to. One could also start a website, blog, or other means of public awareness for those alone.
Although elderly, I've been active in my community this past year trying to bring forth humanity. The progress is slow, but I keep going and hopeful. There are many software programs public officials can use, but the hindrance is always about the cost. Seems everything is always about money whether it's good for the community or not.
I want to share the one free program I found, that's better than nothing, for anyone alone. It's basic. I'm not promoting it understand. Simply sharing. It's called "SNUG". You download the app, pick the time for a daily well check text, and provide an emergency contact. Simple. I believe only available in the US. Like I said, better than nothing. Hope this helps others here. Please share any other free resources or information that would be helpful for any of us. Thanks in advance.
NOTE - Always be respectful and kind to those in need. No ugly replies. We are all hurting in our grief.