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Hey all. I'm looking for a possible new chosen (and eventually legal) name that is spanish and starts with J. Joaquin is off the table because my brother has that name, and I don't really feel like a Juan, Julian, Jesus, Jorge, or Javier (my dad's name, not totally off the table though). Lightly considering Jose as well. If you can think of any other spanish/basque J names for men that I haven't mentioned, please let me know! Thanks!

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I need to preface by saying I don't ask this with malice. I am genuinely curious. I have known a few people whose primary or secondary preferred pronoun was it/its and I try to use that pronoun for them (plural) when I can. But I don't really get it. I refer to my desk as 'it', or my car. Does it not feel objectifying to be referred to as 'it'? Could someone who uses it/its or someone close with someone that does explain it to me? I want to better understand where they (plural again) are coming from.

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