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▲ 8 r/AloeVera+1 crossposts

Do you think my aloes need to be watered?

New to plants and specifically aloes and am wondering if I should water these guys?

These are rehomed aloes that I got a week ago, I do not know how long they had no water because the owner passed away and had been gone for close to two months before I got them. Rest her soul.

I watered them a bit a week ago on Sunday and repotted them. I only watered them a wee bit, really. And they have no roots, basically. They are just sitting there.

The browning leaves and those "pinched" leaves are a sign that they need a good rinse?

What would you say?

Thanks!!!

u/Spirited-Hat-1827 — 9 days ago
▲ 3 r/plantclinic

Do my African Violets look healthy? Is losing flowers in 1 week from getting it normal?

I'm a newbie to plants and got this beautiful lady a week ago. Since I got her she lost some flowers, probably 35%-45% of the flowers. I bottom water it for 10-15 minutes and let it drain for another 10 and then pot it, the soil is moist but not soggy, or dry. It may have gotten some direct sunlight at some points (i'm still trying to figure out where she is happy and how much sun each plant location gets).

Is this the normal cycle of the flowers or am I doing something wrong? Does it look healthy by the leaves?

The flowers that I plucked were curling at the edges and blackening at the edge and wilted.

If you have any other questions, let me know. Thank you!

u/Spirited-Hat-1827 — 10 days ago
▲ 3 r/plantclinic

I just got gifted this Pansy plant and repotted it (it was in a tiny rectangle plastic container), and watered it with water with some fertiliser mixed in. I put her close to my window facing east, not on the window sill, in a dresser about a meter across. She gets indirect sun light and clarity the whole day. Direct sun light maybe in the very very early hours of the morning. Does this all sounds good? Can you see that she is already experiencing some issue like overwatering, under-watering or too much sun?
I used a pre done store bought soil mix that has dirt, some white things and some bark. More dirt than anything.

Thank you guys!

u/Spirited-Hat-1827 — 16 days ago
▲ 15 r/plantclinic

Got them Sunday, let them bottom water for 15 minutes, then put it in its decorative pot, close to the window facing east, but not right on the window ledge. About a meter away from it in a dresser.
Haven't watered since, noticed some flowers not doing too well. I cut them off.
Help? Thanks! 🩷

u/Spirited-Hat-1827 — 16 days ago
▲ 0 r/survivinginfidelity

Tl;dr - my bf was chatting with online prostitutes during our entire relationship. I was otherwise incredibly happy in the relationship. I'm thinking of giving him a second chance, I know I shouldn't. People that forgave cheating, any insights? Thank you.

I love him and our relationship was otherwise so happy. I was the happiest I had ever been, no issues, nor arguments, all great.

Until he started being too secretive with his phone, and I knew something was off. On Thursday I asked for the phone. He had deleted telegram of the phone but I knew he had used it in the past for porn. I told him to redownload it. He did.

Pages upon pages of pornographic messages, pictures, and videos with "only fans models", "cam girls", aka, glorified online prostitutes. He was paying for content and for the whole experience of texting them. For the entirety of our relationship. He lied, deceived me and hid the truth. What did he lack in our relationship? Nothing.

I'm dead inside, he killed my soul. I think I'm going to give him a second chance, and I know I shouldn't, but if he truly can stop this, we could be so happy. He stopped all adult content consumption and we are going to do couples therapy.

Anyone ever forgave cheating and can give some insights? This is not a decision set in stone.

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u/Spirited-Hat-1827 — 20 days ago