u/Spiritual_Captain999

We did mediation in Aug and we both signed for asset division, spousal support ( 2yrs) and childsupport. He paid spousal support and child support on 9/1. Was supposed to move his asset by 9/30 which he has not done it, then he has not paid Supousal support and childsupport on 10/1.

I need to move out of the house by end of Nov but without his constant support I cannot qualify for an apartment with only my full time income. I talked to my lawyer and she said she will take him to court if she doesn’t hear from him by Monday.

He has been playing this game since the mediation like pushing the limit to see what he can get away with.
And I have a feeling he would pay maybe end of the month or something so that he can still claim he paid.

I am so sick of this, if you signed and agreed to it fucking just follow that. I don’t want to deal with him but he makes everything difficult when it doesn’t have to be.

He needs to get some consequences otherwise he will keep doing this shit, I’m so mentally tired and I don’t want to live in the same house but I can’t get out if he doesn’t pay those.

Anyone experienced similar situation?

We just had a mediation and the outcome was not I wanted, he got what he wanted for sure. I feel like I lost a lot. He got the house, he got a dog, he gained kids time( he has not been participating kids care at all, like 8-9% only now he has 40% ish). What he lost was money, but of course he’s still hiding money.

I need to move out by November and now he stating “ it’s my house, you can’t turn off the AC without my permission, if you want to do that just go upstairs” while filming my move in the house. I ignored the whole thing and left the house to a park with the kids.

Yes it is going to be your house but my name is till on the deed and I have right to live there until I move out. But he uses that as his power and will be testing my patient the rest of the time I live there.

I cannot qualify for the apartment yet that is why there is a timeline set up for me to get qualified for rental place but he just keeps pushing my limit.

It is so fucking annoying and nobody can do anything about it. Why is narc are so obsessed with power game?

My name and ex’a name was on policy and this check also has both name on it where it says pay to the order of: his name and my name.

I deposited it then he claims it is stealing and unlawful. ( we are going through divorce so he wants to claim anything to get me in trouble)
Is this really an issue?

I need to start thinking about parenting plan. Is there anything that was good to put on parenting plan? How do you guys decide holidays or any other important days? I want to be really well prepared so that he cannot fight it later to destroy the plan.

If this thread is not for this I’m sorry.

Thanks in advance!

Hello!
I had been using tilt pan camera and after my ex kicked out the camera from wifi it stopped working. He added back the camera to WiFi so I was trying to reconnect but it will not allow me to do. I added blink mini camera, that works just fine so it’s not WiFi is using only 5G.
The tilt pan camera has been disconnected and reset it multiple times but just won’t connect to WiFi.

Anybody had same issue??

Hi,
I am in process of divorcing w/ possible narcissist and this divorce is a high conflict. He thinks it’s his money and the house, not wanting to do spousal support and etc. Basically he will not agree on anything what I am going to propose.

He started more verbally insulting me every week ( lucky it’s not everyday) if I react then comes back all on me. If you hear his side of view, I am such an awful and mentally unstable person/ mother.

We have a mediation set up mid August and wanting to know what things you put on parenting plan or agreement that helped you to deal with Marc less afterwords?