u/Standard-Computer-11

i can’t drive, but this isn’t exactly about that. i don’t know where else to post and i’m anxious about posting in unfamiliar subreddits i just need one person to tell me they are also an adult who can’t even ride a bike. no one believes me, everyone thinks they can teach me, it always goes the same way. they say i’m not trying, i just need to believe in myself, i’m convincing myself i can’t do it.
the truth is, my whole nervous system ignites the second both my feet are off the ground. bike, scooter, longboard, skates, anything with wheels leaves me feeling completely out of control. i try so hard to explain what’s happening in my body that is preventing me from doing something everyone else apparently can do, and it just won’t register. i don’t want advice, i don’t need more people trying to fix this part of me. i just need someone to tell me i’m not the only one. if you know someone who can relate, hell if you’re willing to just lie and say you get it, please. i’m desperate for understanding, i have never met someone else with this problem.