Assalamoalaikum everyone!

Its time to repost my ISO here after days😅. Lets see if me naseeb finds me now or still wants to play hide and seek🥲.

Bismillah!

27F | 160cm | Pakistani ethnicity | live/raised in Italy | Open to proposals from Europe residents and relocate | age range 25-31 | open to reverts

Never married, no past relationships, medium brown skin, physically fit

TIMELINE FOR MARRIAGE: max 1 year or when we are sure there is compatibility

PERSONALITY: I’m gentle by nature, but not weak; calm, but not passive. I process things deeply. I speak with intention. I try to choose kindness even when life feels heavy. Emotionally, I’m stable and grounded. I don’t break over small things, but I feel deeply. I don’t pretend to be strong every moment; I just know how to stand back up. My deen keeps me balanced; my heart keeps me human.

And yes… I love to laugh, the kind of laughter that suddenly turns a heavy day into something bearable again. The kind that reminds you life can still be light.

I’m a warm and confident person, naturally sociable and easy to talk to maybe thanks to my Italian upbringing 💅🏽. I also tend to laugh easily, even with people I’ve just met… let’s just say I’m a bit of a small talk ninja.

I AM LOOKING FOR:

a man who puts Allah first, has good akhlaq, and speaks with gentleness. Emotionally mature and responsible and is ready to be a qawwam with mercy, not control. A calm communicator who doesn’t shut down, expresses emotions and understands his duties as a husband. Someone supportive of my career, balanced, stable, and ready to build a family, a partner who stands by me in dunya and akhirah.

I deeply admire men with strength + softness. Someone who is strong in character but gentle with his wife.

WHAT I OFFER AS YOUR FUTURE WIFE

InshaAllah, I will give:

• ⁠LOYALTY: you’ll never doubt where my heart is • ⁠Kindness and gentleness
• ⁠EMOTIONAL SUPPORT: I will stand by you in good and hard days
• ⁠RESPECT: for your role, your efforts, your responsibilities
• ⁠PEACE I avoid drama and unnecessary arguments
• ⁠ENCOURAGEMENT: I’ll support your goals, career and growth
• ⁠A WARM HOME: filled with love, laughter and stability
• ⁠DU’AS for you every day
• ⁠PARTNERSHIP: I want to build together, not against each other

I believe marriage is teamwork. Two people helping each other reach Jannah. If Allah gives me a husband who leads with kindness, I will follow with trust and love.

LEVEL OF RELIGION: I pray 5 times, avoid haram, and try my best to stay close to Qur’an and authentic Sunnah. I’m not perfect, but I’m always trying to improve my relationship with Allah. I don’t watch movies or listen to music. I prefer beneficial knowledge and peaceful environments. I wear hijab

EDUCATION: doing Masters in Economics and Management. I prefer someone educated.

CAREER: working in Financial Controlling . Looking for someone financially stable and ready to take financial responsabilty.

I want to have kids preferibly 2 but not in the first years of marriage and Allah is the best of planners

HOBBIES:

• ⁠staying active (running, workouts, clean eating) • ⁠wandering in nature (mountains, lakes, quiet scenery that calms the heart) • ⁠travelling • ⁠enjoying light-hearted, silly moments, laughter that makes your stomach hurt 😂
• ⁠one day, camping and many other fun activities with my husband in sha Allah✌🏽

SAFETY & TRANSPARENCY

MY WALI WILL BE INVOLVED THROUGHOUT!!

I hope to find someone with whom I can grow spiritually and emotionally, build a loving and respectful marriage and work together to please Allah in this life and the next.

NOTE:

1. not open to people that live in Asia, divorced/separated, indians (sorry our countries have many serious issues. Better to avoid), students (not financially stable)

2. If you have intentions to do hijrah in future in arab countries or ASIA then dont reachout to me plz

3. Introduce yourself properly with an ISO. I will not reply to just Hi, hello…

4. i love deep talks so if you are bad in communication with low efforts then dont reachout🙈

If this aligns with you, feel free to reach out respectfully🙂

Jazakallah khair🤗

Assalamoalaikum everyone!

Its time to repost my ISO here after nearly 200 days of the last post😅. Lets see if me naseeb finds me now or still wants to play hide and seek🥲.

Bismillah!

27F | 160cm | Pakistani ethnicity | live/raised in Italy | Open to proposals from Europe residents and relocate | age range 25-31 | open to reverts

Never married, no past relationships, medium brown skin, physically fit

TIMELINE FOR MARRIAGE: max 1 year or when we are sure there is compatibility

PERSONALITY: I’m gentle by nature, but not weak; calm, but not passive. I process things deeply. I speak with intention. I try to choose kindness even when life feels heavy. Emotionally, I’m stable and grounded. I don’t break over small things, but I feel deeply. I don’t pretend to be strong every moment; I just know how to stand back up. My deen keeps me balanced; my heart keeps me human.

And yes… I love to laugh, the kind of laughter that suddenly turns a heavy day into something bearable again. The kind that reminds you life can still be light.

I’m a warm and confident person, naturally sociable and easy to talk to maybe thanks to my Italian upbringing 💅🏽. I also tend to laugh easily, even with people I’ve just met… let’s just say I’m a bit of a small talk ninja.

I AM LOOKING FOR:

a man who puts Allah first, has good akhlaq, and speaks with gentleness. Emotionally mature and responsible and is ready to be a qawwam with mercy, not control. A calm communicator who doesn’t shut down, expresses emotions and understands his duties as a husband. Someone supportive of my career, balanced, stable, and ready to build a family, a partner who stands by me in dunya and akhirah.

I deeply admire men with strength + softness. Someone who is strong in character but gentle with his wife.

WHAT I OFFER AS YOUR FUTURE WIFE

InshaAllah, I will give:

• ⁠LOYALTY: you’ll never doubt where my heart is • ⁠Kindness and gentleness
• ⁠EMOTIONAL SUPPORT: I will stand by you in good and hard days
• ⁠RESPECT: for your role, your efforts, your responsibilities
• ⁠PEACE I avoid drama and unnecessary arguments
• ⁠ENCOURAGEMENT: I’ll support your goals, career and growth
• ⁠A WARM HOME: filled with love, laughter and stability
• ⁠DU’AS for you every day
• ⁠PARTNERSHIP: I want to build together, not against each other

I believe marriage is teamwork. Two people helping each other reach Jannah. If Allah gives me a husband who leads with kindness, I will follow with trust and love.

LEVEL OF RELIGION: I pray 5 times, avoid haram, and try my best to stay close to Qur’an and authentic Sunnah. I’m not perfect, but I’m always trying to improve my relationship with Allah. I don’t watch movies or listen to music. I prefer beneficial knowledge and peaceful environments. I wear hijab

EDUCATION: doing Masters in Economics and Management. I prefer someone educated.

CAREER: working in Financial Controlling . Looking for someone financially stable and ready to take financial responsabilty.

I want to have kids preferibly 2 but not in the first years of marriage and Allah is the best of planners

HOBBIES:

• ⁠staying active (running, workouts, clean eating) • ⁠wandering in nature (mountains, lakes, quiet scenery that calms the heart) • ⁠travelling • ⁠enjoying light-hearted, silly moments, laughter that makes your stomach hurt 😂
• ⁠one day, camping and many other fun activities with my husband in sha Allah✌🏽

SAFETY & TRANSPARENCY\

MY WALI WILL BE INVOLVED THROUGHOUT!!

I hope to find someone with whom I can grow spiritually and emotionally, build a loving and respectful marriage and work together to please Allah in this life and the next.

# NOTE:

1. not open to people that live in Asia, divorced/separated, indians (sorry our countries have many serious issues. Better to avoid), students (not financially stable)

2. If you have intentions to do hijrah in future in arab countries or ASIA then dont reachout to me plz

3. Introduce yourself properly with an ISO. I will not reply to just Hi, hello…

4. i love deep talks so if you are bad in communication with low efforts then dont reachout to me🙈

If this aligns with you, feel free to reach out respectfully🙂

Jazakallah khair🤗

I (27F) getting to know from some days (33M). So i have some concerns from the conversation we had so far.

Here are the concerns:

Physical attraction: i think he is handsome but i am not crazily attracted the way i was with the last potencial. He was 101% my type super handsome so i think thats what has messed up my standards for attraction. I cant say i am not attracted at all but i am not that super attracted the way i was with the last one😖. I am like yeah he is handsome but i am not having butterflies of happiness when talk to him.

Type of model in marriage: he wants that wife should take care of house and kids first then if she can manage to do fulltime job too she can otherwise part time. Wife’s career comes at the end. Wife can not work with a lot of men.
House chores are wife’s responsability and husband can help when he can.

Me: i want that both partners have careers and work outside then both manage together house and kids and split the chores together while wife also contributes financially.
I already work (my team is only womens) in a corporate and want to continue corporate job after marriage too until i become an entrepreneur.

Interests: he is more religious than me and becoming a hafiz (but watches movies too and i dont). I fear that he is maybe a rigid person.

For ex: I have shared 3 times with him my love for travelling with husband and creating beautiful memories together and every time he ignored it and never expressed his interest for travelling (maybe hopefully for language problem as he said he has a little problem with it)

I fear that he will maybe stress me out on haram and halal like haram police and will command/lecture me on anything i will do as i will not be on his level on deen and wont be a wonderful muslima. I will certainly suffocate in this way.

I want a relaxed partner that is flexible and easygoing on deen and understands everyone has a different journey on islam and doesnt make a big deal if i do something wrong and doesnt lecture me everytime on Sharia like i am doomed for not being a best muslima.

# NOTE

1. He has been kind until now with me but firm on what he didnt find compatible with him.
2. I havent shared openly my vision on type of model i want in marriage. But he knows i am career oriented women and want to work after marriage.
3. He asked my ambitions (becoming entrepreneur, do a project for humanity, travelling…) and said he will fully support me but on my corporate job he is meh🫤

Is it normal or a problem about attraction?

Do you think we have big incompatibilities?

Can these incompatibilities worked out and how?

Should i talk to him about my concerns except the attraction one with him??

Plzz give me your sincere advices, perspectives💖

I (27F) getting to know from some days (33M). So i have some concerns from the conversation we had so far.

Here are the concerns:

Physical attraction: i think he is handsome but i am not crazily attracted the way i was with the last potencial. He was 101% my type super handsome so i think thats what has messed up my standards for attraction. I cant say i am not attracted at all but i am not that super attracted the way i was with the last one😖. I am like yeah he is handsome but i am not having butterflies of happiness when talk to him.

Type of model in marriage: he wants that wife should take care of house and kids first then if she can manage to do fulltime job too she can otherwise part time. Wife’s career comes at the end. Wife can not work with a lot of men.
House chores are wife’s responsability and husband can help when he can.

Me: i want that both partners have careers and work outside then both manage together house and kids and split the chores together while wife also contributes financially.
I already work (my team is only womens) in a corporate and want to continue corporate job after marriage too until i become an entrepreneur.

Interests: he is more religious than me and becoming a hafiz (but watches movies too and i dont). I fear that he is maybe a rigid person.

For ex: I have shared 3 times with him my love for travelling with husband and creating beautiful memories together and every time he ignored it and never expressed his interest for travelling (maybe hopefully for language problem as he said he has a little problem with it)

I fear that he will maybe stress me out on haram and halal like haram police and will command/lecture me on anything i will do as i will not be on his level on deen and wont be a wonderful muslima. I will certainly suffocate in this way.

I want a relaxed partner that is flexible and easygoing on deen and understands everyone has a different journey on islam and doesnt make a big deal if i do something wrong and doesnt lecture me everytime on Sharia like i am doomed for not being a best muslima.

# NOTE:

1. He has been kind until now with me but firm on what he didnt find compatible with him.
2. I havent shared openly my vision on type of model i want in marriage. But he knows i am career oriented women and want to work after marriage.
3. He asked my ambitions (becoming entrepreneur, do a project for humanity, travelling…) and said he will fully support me but on my corporate job he is meh 🫤

Is it normal or a problem about attraction?

Do you think we have big incompatibilities?

Can these incompatibilities worked out and how?

Should i talk to him about my concerns except the attraction one with him??

Plzz give me your sincere advices, perspectives💖

I want to ask to men here why do you feel the need to use chatgpt to do a normal conversation?

Do you prefer to give perfect AI reply rather then imperfect one with mistakes because you want to make good impression?

Bro its probably 4th potencial that uses chatgpt to reply. I mean literally copy paste. Wth?

If you try to say kindly that you prefer authentic replies even with 1000 grammer mistakes rather than AI perfect (super fake) ones. They get offended and start avoiding you. Its like you hurt their ego.

Now this recent potencial does the same thing (his mother tongue is French and English 2nd language)
and i am now getting annoyed that i asked you something and you replied with something else that doesnt even make much sense to what i mainly asked. (You are not even clever to remove dashes from the message let alone personalising it).

I dont know how to ask him to stop using chatgpt. I dont wanna embarass him but i can’t also accept this. (Some men i have noticed cant handle this situation with maturity and become defensive and avoidant).

Have we really lost the ability to have basic conversation with others in the era of AI?
It feels like we are going backwards, becoming dumb and losing basic human skills with time😾

I would love to have your perspectives, opinions and advices🫶🏽

Jazakallah khair

I want to ask to men here why do you feel the need to use chatgpt to do a normal conversation?

Do you prefer to give perfect AI reply rather then imperfect one with mistakes because you want to make good impression?

Bro its probably 4th potencial that uses chatgpt to reply. I mean literally copy paste. Wth?

If you try to say kindly that you prefer authentic replies even with 1000 grammer mistakes rather than AI perfect (super fake) ones. They get offended and start avoiding you. Its like you hurt their ego.

Now this recent potencial does the same thing (his mother tongue is French and English 2nd language)
and i am now getting annoyed that i asked you something and you replied with something else that doesnt even make much sense to what i mainly asked. (You are not even clever to remove dashes from the message let alone personalising it).

I dont know how to ask him to stop using chatgpt. I dont wanna embarass him but i can’t also accept this. (Some men i have noticed cant handle this situation with maturity and become defensive and avoidant).

Have we really lost the ability to have basic conversation with others in the era of AI?
It feels like we are going backwards and losing basic human skills to communicate with time😾

I would love to have your perspectives, opinions and advices🫶🏽

Jazakallah khair