u/StripePunk

AIO Context: I (30F) met (45F) at work.
We used to be my co-worker but after she was fired we became friends outside of work..
Sadly she is an alcoholic. She drinks it every night. She has told me this and even drunk called some co workers and me as well.. (A reason she got fired) she’s on medication for her alcoholism. Her family doesn’t talk to her and after getting fired I really felt awful for her. She would bring me lunches sometimes and work. I’ve helped her with a temp job and tried my best to be a good friend. It sucks because I love her, and I don’t want her to be alone. But I also feel exhausted with all of it. I know everyone has baggage, I definitely do as well. But I’m losing faith I can find a genuine friend that can respect my boundaries and just vent with.

Context: She used to be my co-worker but after she became fired we became friends. Sadly she is an alcoholic. She drinks it every night. She has told me this and even drunk called some co workers and me as well.. she’s on medication for her alcoholism. Her family doesn’t talk to her and after getting fired I really felt awful for her. She would bring me lunches sometimes and work. I’ve helped her with a temp job and tried my best to be a good friend. It sucks because I love her, and I don’t want her to be alone. But I also feel exhausted with all of it. I know everyone has baggage, I definitely do as well. But I’m losing faith I can find a genuine friend that can respect my boundaries and just vent with.

AIO?
Background, I met this girl and we became flirty friends about 3 days ago.
There was early flirting but I told her I wanted to get to know her and take things slow.
She keeps saying she’s confused if I was interested in her in that way.
I tell her I am attracted to her in that way but I just got out of a terrible relationship and need to take it slow.
She asked me if I could driver her to a few places because she doesn’t have a car. I told her that was fine.
Today we texted briefly and than I went to work (I drive for a living so I don’t text while driving) but I also have been juggling losing a loved one, taking care of my animals and now this strange.. idk?
This was the texts tonight. It feels childish what do you guys think? Idk am I overthinking it? It just feels high school in a lot of ways.

Edit: she just sent back a text, “huh”

Edit #2 she tried to gas light me and tell me I was at fault when I confronted her, needless to say, she is no more

Background, I met this girl and we became flirty friends about 3 days ago.
There was early flirting but I told her I wanted to get to know her and take things slow.
She keeps saying she’s confused if I was interested in her in that way.
I tell her I am attracted to her in that way but I just got out of a terrible relationship and need to take it slow.
She asked me if I could driver her to a few places because she doesn’t have a car. I told her that was fine.
Today we texted briefly and than I went to work (I drive for a living so I don’t text while driving) but I also have been juggling losing a loved one, taking care of my animals and now this strange.. idk?
This was the texts tonight. As of me texting this she has not responded to my last message while responding within minutes before.. It feels childish what do you guys think? Idk am I overthinking it? It just feels high school in a lot of ways.

Edit: just texted back. huh..

Edit #2 She tried to gas light me and tell me I was at fault when I confronted her, needless to say, she is no more

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I got this vape from my local shop and wasn’t paying attention. I assumed it was a regular disposable. But it’s magnetically charged, does anyone know if it was suppose to come with a battery? I paid $15 for it and I’m starting to wonder if I only got a pod. There is a constant green light.