u/Stunning_Apple8136

realistically monogamy a form of female control to ensure the survival of her and her spawn and for most men it does not benefit them. dont put your eggs in 1 basket, as the old proverb goes.

polyarmory is not the answer either, as most ninjas cannot attract a singular female, let alone women.

therefore, realistically speaking, the only solution is to lock down one woman, and get your nuts off at massage parlors or with escorts. this is no different from your girl going to the gym, getting her nails done, getting her p sleeve waxed, posting on IG and farming likes, going to a bar and sitting alone and letting the bartender and other guys hit on her for attention, having a work husband, taking girls trips to miami and not posting anything until it's over, having a private story on Ig that u not a part of so she can share things with other people that u might get mad at, joining running or rollerskating clubs to be social.

at the end of the day, it's self care. for men. all some of us got video games, youtube, maybe the gym, and getting our rocks off so im not finna let no woman limit these.

edp did nothing wrong

To give some context, this is a show where couples go on and one wants to get married and the others dont. Then they all go and pretend they're single and date around to get validation they actually want to get married or dont. a new reason just dropped. This season is probably the most brutal and reaffirming of so many RP teachings.

There is an indian guy on the show (every other guy is a white giga chad from money) and he is constantly edited to appear as goofy and silly. The girls regularly clown on him and the other dudes are laughing AT him the entire time. While other "Singles" are mingling, he's always alone and sitting out while his girl is flirting with other dudes. This guy did not get with ANY of the females on the show meanwihle his chick was flirting and getting oggled and touched. Theyve been together 6 years btw.

Eventually - his girl comes back and tells him he she caught feelings for another man there. He ends up giving her a letter basically saying to read it after they film alone. She chooses to read this letter in front of all the other contestants. Basically he crashes out in the letter that she had the balls to say she caught feelings and essentially saying he felt disrespected.

Then - one of the white giga chads puts on his captain saveahoe uniform and stands up and gives some long monologue about how he would not feel comfortable with his own girl being on a show where she has to interact with a toxic, emotionally abusive and dangerous person like the indian dude. This then turns into all the girls agreeing with his simp sentiment and also agreeing they dont think he should be there. So, they get him kicked off the show and he has to leave.

THEN, the hosts and everyone reminaing attempt to convince his girlfriend of 6 years that wanted to marry him that hes a POS and she should leave him.

Keep in mind, these people are all technically cheating on their partner on a Netflix show and are purposely entangling themselves with other men/women to figure out if they actually like their partner. Yet here they sit tryna convince this guys chick to leave him cuz he crashed out over her having feelnigs for another man.

anyway - his girl after was in tears because everyone was tryna break them up and i think depe down she knew how weird that sh was. not sure if tehy are together but this really serve as a warning. other people do not want to see you happy and other men will be the first to tear you down. there is no brotherhood of men. there is no comraderie. 304s are gonna be 304s but its simp ass men that u have to watch out for. they will be the ones to DM ur girl on IG and try to tell her some sh you did or leak ur secrets cuz they envy you.

tl;dr - indian dude comes on a dating show with his gf, she catches feelings for another man, admits it to her guy cuz she felt bad about it, he crashes out, everyone dogpiles on him and forces him off the show, and tries to break them up.

Look guys. He's a friend of the show. He's never said anything about us, we'll never say anything bad about them. And honestly? Those Palestinians had it coming.