u/SubstantialTrip410

ive been playing mop classic for a bit and with the idea floating around that they might abandon it ive got back to retail just to keep up to date whil;e i still p;lay classic.
im playing brewmaster and leveling using the timewalking in dragonflight this week.
bare in mind i already have a level 90 and ive dont 90% of all the quests in midnight so im not that far out of the loop.
every single time i go into a dungeon the dps are pinging and spamming gogogo meanwhile me and the healer and trying our hardest not to wipe. im not going slow either im just not a level 10 enchanted micro tank thing.
i got pretty used to ignoring the pings and the chat spam telling me to ''gogogogo'' because i like that dragonflight has 50% exp boost and mentor buff gives me 25% and then timeways gives me 30% so im leveling super fast.
what kinda annoyed me was just now i was doing the dungeon as i normally do. bare in mind i was in retail during dragonflight so i know what im doing sometimes i over pull but most of the time its pretty solid and we are all good.
i have a demon hunter spamming and pulling the whole dungeon and running back to me. so i say ''if you want to tank then switch to tank spec..''
i mean the tank queue is literally 5 seconds at the minute. anyway i continue pulling through the dungeon and then just as we get to the 3rd boss i get kicked and now i have to wait 30 minutes before i can do another dungeon because aparently that makes me a deserter?
why cant i just tank the dungeon? why is everyone in such a damn rush to have nothing to do? like i said im not exactly going slow im going as fast as my current level can handle and most of the time my group are all leveling as well. id understand if i was in a dungeon with 4 level 90s and they wanted to go faster but these dps that are rushing me are doing so little damage that everything is living for so long and i have to make sure i dont wipe else its going to be 3 times as long.
anyway if someone could explain why 4 people agreed to kick me on the 3rd boss that would be great thank you.

As title says this will be on a fresh level 90 i just got the quest for the strength and the wisdom tokens. and i have to rep grind to honored. google says there is catch up mechanics but i dont understand it. what am i supposed to do to fast track getting the cape before the expansion ends?

I'm watching mind hunters and im at the end of episode 7 season 1. there is a moment where this fbi agent is stressed beyond anything hes been before and he snaps and starts reeling off his cases to his wife about all the brutal murders and whatnot because she said he doesnt share anything with her and she doesnt need protecting. holy moly she just looked at him with care and then hugged him when he was done. i have never seen that in my LIFE. in my experience releasing your stress like that has always ended in the women in my life raging at me or becoming the victim. not this woman. she walked up behind him and just hugged him and it sorted the whole situation. i love this tv show so much.