Advice wanted
▲ 8 r/icbc

Advice wanted

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Hey all,

Got into an accident at my employee parking lot near YVR. Blue circle is where I was parked (underneath the Canada Line, there are angled spots. You can kinda see a few cars peeking out at the bottom) and the pathway I took towards the exit gate.

Red line is the path the other driver took which caused the collision. My path out of the parking lot is a one way which curves to the left then just straight out the gate. The other motorist parked on that eastern section and turned right towards the exit gate. The driver made no attempt to yield to me when I was already moving towards the gate. Gunned the right turn and without any time to react, my car's passenger side front bumper collided with their driver side front bumper.

I could tell the driver was recording audio because he kept asking me if I think I was at fault while "sneakily" pointing his phone in my direction. Obviously I knew better and just said we'll let ICBC decide that. Since a lot of other people were exiting while we were exchanging info and taking pictures, one of my coworkers saw it happen and volunteered to act as a witness. Unfortunately neither me or my coworker has a dashcam.

The other driver also claimed that he doesn't have a stop sign, which is true but because I was traveling straight, my logic was he would have to yield as he was the one turning. How would you distribute the fault in this?

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u/Super_Xube — 10 days ago
▲ 7 r/helpme

GF just up and left without a word

Guys I’m panicking and don’t know what to do

My girlfriend of 3 years stayed at my place for 4 nights because she has a lot of days off from work and we live about an hour away from each other.

I’d wake up at 3:30am to go to work and come back at 12pm when im off. She’s always been there when I woke up and came home.

When I woke up today at 3am, she wasn’t next to me in bed and all her stuff was gone. I ran around the house and no sign of her. I called her and no answer, messaged her and no answer. I check my security cam footage and saw she left around 1:30am but didn’t seem to be in any urgent rush. The feed unfortunately cuts off as shes walking away towards the front door so I couldn’t see if her mom got her, took an uber or just walked off into the night.

We haven’t fought since she stayed and our last fight/argument was probably a year ago so safe to assume (for me at least) that our relationship was in good standing.

I’m frantincally messaging her and calling her now with still no replies. At this point, I feel like its an emergency and called out for my 4am shift to drive over to her place. Lights are all off and no one is answering my knocks or doorbell spams. She lives with her mom and aunt and none of them opened the door.

Now i’m sitting in my car outside her house panicking and not knowing what I should do.

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u/Super_Xube — 23 days ago
▲ 5 r/ft86

Best way to get this portion of my spoiler fixed/replaced?

As seen above, I tore off a piece of the spoiler on accident a year back on my 2019 series.grey and am having a difficult time looking for a replacement piece.

What would be the best way to get this specific piece of the spoiler? Or should I buy any 2017+ spoiler from another BRZ and repaint it?

u/Super_Xube — 3 months ago
▲ 5 r/sex

How do I control when to cum (30M)

I've (30M) been with my gf (28F) for 3 years now and we have sex pretty much every time she's able to visit me for the week.

The first time we did it was my first time, so I wasn't surprised that I came in under a minute. But now, even after 3 years of sex, I find that a majority of the time we have sex, I'm still cumming way too fast; maybe not a under minute but definitely under 2-3. And there are some days when I can't cum at all, which is usually when we do it without a long enough break in between.

I've read some comments saying I could actually control when I do cum, and the one I've tried so far is thinking about something not sex-related during if I feel like I'm about to cum. I mean, it definitely worked that I didn't cum but my penis went flaccid almost instantly. I tried focusing back on the moment to get it up but I got so frustrated that I couldn't. I tried using the strategy a few more times after thinking I shifted my thoughts too early, but still yielded the same result.

Another tip I've seen is having her grab the head before I feel like I'm gonna cum to try to deflate it but it just made me cum even faster with her hand on it.

I'm leaning towards that I just don't know how to properly control when I can/can't ejaculate. I wanna be able to last long enough that she cums from PIV since I always end up finishing her with my fingers or oral. I know she definitely can cum from PIV because one time I ended up not being able to cum after maybe 5 minutes she had reached climax but I couldn't. Could this also be a sign that I have premature ejaculation issues?

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u/Super_Xube — 4 months ago
▲ 0 r/askvan

Any suggestions for a weekend getaway to surprise my GF for her birthday?

Last year, I (29M) surprised my GF (27F) with an overnight outing to Victoria where we visited the Butchart Gardens and Malahat Skywalk.

This year, we both went on separate overseas trips (me to Japan for 2 weeks, her to Hawaii for 5 days). She couldn’t get her vacation approved for 2 weeks and I had already purchased the non refundable tickets. In a turn of events, her sister had won a contest for her trip that included paid flights and accommodation for 5 days in Hawaii, so she went and did that with her.

Anyways back on topic, I’m looking to kind of do the same this year where we stay at a hotel, relax and explore the local area. Her birthday is next month and we both came back from our respective vacations pretty recently (me May 8 and her May 12)

Any hotel suggestions within BC that won’t break the bank as we both have spent quite a bit already overseas would be appreciated! She enjoys urban settings more than nature (shopping, night life, bar hopping, marketplaces) Maybe a place that’s known for spa/massages would be great too. Thanks!

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u/Super_Xube — 5 months ago

Looking for a decent pair of wired earbuds

Hey all,

Got my helix pierced recently and wearing over ear headphones is irritating the hell out of it. Any good pair of wired earbuds that won't break the bank (only using temporarily til it heals) ?

Can't do wireless because my PC's mobo doesn't have that capability, nor do I want a dongle as all my USB ports are being used.

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u/Super_Xube — 5 months ago