u/Suspicious_Award_348

Ok guys, this might seem kinda sad but I swear it isn't that bad. So there's this girl at my school who I REALLY like. She's funny, smart, kind, and I'm very physically attracted to her. We only really started talking 6 months ago, but we became good friends really quickly. Anyways, I don't want to be too specific just incase some people i know see this, but about 2-3 months ago we were at a small party and she was kinda acting like I was her bf...she also put her hand on my upper thigh, said she specifically wanted me to sit next to her, calling me the huzz, etc. Another person at the party was like "Is this genuine chemistry" and we both didn't say anything.

So at this point I was kinda being delusional and spiralling, thinking that she liked me and getting my hopes up. This happened even more when we were hanging out one-on-one and we walked to this semi-romantic hiking spot and she was like "this would be the perfect makeout spot" and later touching my upper thigh again (although she is a pretty touchy person so I wouldn't take this too seriously). Anyways, some more similar stuff to this happened (I really don't wanna say cause it's so obvious and no one knows I'm bi and I wanna keep it that way) including us being in class and her pointing at me and saying I'm the most gay in our 8 person class friend group, which was so embarrassing and made me think that she was making fun of me, or maybe she thought I was acting really gay when we were together and she thinks it's weird. I started spiralling again like "how does she know i'm bi". And I feel like if she were gay she wouldn't just say that I'm gay like THAT.

So like, now I'm very sure that she doesn't like girls, let alone likes me. But I can't help it. I thought I was over her for a good week, but I had a dream about her, and since then I'm thinking about her like, a LOT. Whenever we spend time together I feel like I act kinda weird.

I'm just wondering, how can I stop liking her?

Ok guys, this might seem kinda sad but I swear it isn't that bad. So there's this girl at my school who I REALLY like. She's funny, smart, kind, and I'm very physically attracted to her. We only really started talking 6 months ago, but we became good friends really quickly. Anyways, I don't want to be too specific just incase some people i know see this, but about 2-3 months ago we were at a small party and she was kinda acting like I was her bf...she also put her hand on my upper thigh, said she specifically wanted me to sit next to her, calling me the huzz, etc. Another person at the party was like "Is this genuine chemistry" and we both didn't say anything.

So at this point I was kinda being delusional and spiralling, thinking that she liked me and getting my hopes up. This happened even more when we were hanging out one-on-one and we walked to this semi-romantic hiking spot and she was like "this would be the perfect makeout spot" and later touching my upper thigh again (although she is a pretty touchy person so I wouldn't take this too seriously). Anyways, some more similar stuff to this happened (I really don't wanna say cause it's so obvious and no one knows I'm bi and I wanna keep it that way) including us being in class and her pointing at me and saying I'm the most gay in our 8 person class friend group, which was so embarrassing and made me think that she was making fun of me, or maybe she thought I was acting really gay when we were together and she thinks it's weird. I started spiralling again like "how does she know i'm bi". And I feel like if she were gay she wouldn't just say that I'm gay like THAT.

So like, now I'm very sure that she doesn't like girls, let alone likes me. But I can't help it. I thought I was over her for a good week, but I had a dream about her, and since then I'm thinking about her like, a LOT. Whenever we spend time together I feel like I act kinda weird.

I'm just wondering, how can I stop liking her?

Ok guys, this might seem kinda sad but I swear it isn't that bad. So there's this girl at my school who I REALLY like. She's funny, smart, kind, and I'm very physically attracted to her. We only really started talking 6 months ago, but we became good friends really quickly. Anyways, I don't want to be too specific just incase some people i know see this, but about 2-3 months ago we were at a small party and she was kinda acting like I was her bf...she also put her hand on my upper thigh, said she specifically wanted me to sit next to her, calling me the huzz, etc. Another person at the party was like "Is this genuine chemistry" and we both didn't say anything.

So at this point I was kinda being delusional and spiralling, thinking that she liked me and getting my hopes up. This happened even more when we were hanging out one-on-one and we walked to this semi-romantic hiking spot and she was like "this would be the perfect makeout spot" and later touching my upper thigh again (although she is a pretty touchy person so I wouldn't take this too seriously). Anyways, some more similar stuff to this happened (I really don't wanna say cause it's so obvious and no one knows I'm bi and I wanna keep it that way) including us being in class and her pointing at me and saying I'm the most gay in our 8 person class friend group, which was so embarrassing and made me think that she was making fun of me, or maybe she thought I was acting really gay when we were together and she thinks it's weird. I started spiralling again like "how does she know i'm bi". And I feel like if she were gay she wouldn't just say that I'm gay like THAT.

So like, now I'm very sure that she doesn't like girls, let alone likes me. But I can't help it. I thought I was over her for a good week, but I had a dream about her, and since then I'm thinking about her like, a LOT. Whenever we spend time together I feel like I act kinda weird.

I'm just wondering, how can I stop liking her?