u/Technical_Sand8581

Man, I hate to admit it, but I really wish I hadn’t chosen to study abroad. Seeing how good the college life my friends back home have makes me wish I could go back and study there instead.

It’s been 3 years already, and I’m almost done with my bachelor’s degree here. I’m a total introvert, and I still have no friends, even though I genuinely want a social life and to enjoy life at least a little bit.

My university doesn’t have any events or entertainment at all. Life just feels like a constant loop between my part-time job and studies. There’s literally nothing interesting happening in my life that motivates me anymore. Life is boring :(

Yeah, i probably sounds like a really terrible person who’s not even able to move on from their ex. I still can’t accept or see her as an ex even tho it has been more than 4 months and 1 month of no contract since our break up. I still believe she will comeback. I don’t know how but I’m very sure that we can work it out and have a really beautiful life together. It is my first and only love and we have been together for more than 6 years (LDR). Man, i really love and adore her more than anything. She was the sweetest girl I have ever seen.

But the chances of her coming back is very low. I know it’s probably my mind playing with me because of how much I love her. We used to talk and plan a lot about a future together and how i much wanted a daughter like her. I can’t help but only think about marrying her, being a good husband and a dad. I don’t find anyone else attractive.

Am i alright? I would rather die alone than marrying someone other than her and ruin their life because of how terrible of a person i have become. Is it true that girls who lost their feelings will never come back? Is there any hope for me?

Yeah, i (22M) probably sounds like a really terrible person who’s not even able to move on from their ex. I still can’t accept or see her as an ex even tho it has been more than 4 months and 1 month of no contract since our break up. I still believe she will comeback. I don’t know how but I’m very sure that we can work it out and have a really beautiful life together. It is my first and only love and we have been together for more than 6 years (LDR). Man, i really love and adore her more than anything. She was the sweetest girl I have ever seen.

But the chances of her coming back is very low. I know it’s probably my mind playing with me because of how much I love her. We used to talk and plan a lot about a future together and how i much wanted a daughter like her. I can’t help but only think about marrying her, being a good husband and a dad. I don’t find anyone else attractive.

Am i alright? I would rather die alone than marrying someone other than her and ruin their life because of how terrible of a person i have become. Is it true that girls who lost their feelings will never come back? Is there any hope for me?

Me and my gf of 7 years broke up. Most of our relationship was long distance. I’m currently abroad doing my bachelor’s and no, we didn’t cheat on each other, both of our families knew about us and we both were our best friends. Other than her, i was an introverted and shy guy who barely had friends. All i had was her. She was a sweet and kind girl. I don’t smoke, drink or had any bad habits. Even tho there were many miscommunications and misunderstandings, we managed to get through it. Yet in the end, we broke up.

Yes. It was all my fault. She couldn’t forget the pain and trauma i gave her throughout our togetherness. I was a complete j3rk at the beginning of this relationship. All she did and tried was to love me and bring the best out of me. Mind you we both were only 16 when we met. Yeah i know it can never be an excuse for the actions and immature behaviour i did even tho i never meant to hurt her. I accept that I am wrong. I have been heartless and cruel. Yet, she stayed and believed in me. But, by the time I became the man she wished for, she was no longer interested or was in love with me. Even tho she was able to forgive me, she never had a reason to forget those memories. All she had left in her was the pain. I couldn’t agree more with her on that.

She met a guy in her work place who likes her. She tells everything to me. She didn’t like him before but she couldn’t help but think how worse of a guy i was. He did everything for her even without her asking. “He was everything she wanted me to be. He is simply that.” She said. It’s not like she left me for a better guy but she couldn’t help herself to stop comparing me to him. I wouldn’t blame her either.

It’s been 3 months and 4 days since our breakup and 1 month 3 days of no contact. I still can’t see her as my ex. I haven’t even got the courage to bring our breakup to my family nor friends. Not even to ChatGPT. I still love and adore her so much. Do you guys also see me as a pathetic loser who can’t even move on from their ex as i do? They said it will get better with time but here i am grieving and crying every single day because of the pain and regret. I don’t think I’ll ever move on from this. This was the best time of my life and letting it go is so painful.

Me and my gf of 7 years broke up. Most of our relationship was long distance. I’m currently abroad doing my bachelor’s and no, we didn’t cheat on each other, both of our families knew about us and we both were our best friends. Other than her, i was an introverted and shy guy who barely had friends. All i had was her. She was a sweet and kind girl. I don’t smoke, drink or had any bad habits. Even tho there were many miscommunications and misunderstandings, we managed to get through it. Yet in the end, we broke up.

Yes. It was all my fault. She couldn’t forget the pain and trauma i gave her throughout our togetherness. I was a complete j3rk at the beginning of this relationship. All she did and tried was to love me and bring the best out of me. Mind you we both were only 16 when we met. Yeah i know it can never be an excuse for the actions and immature behaviour i did even tho i never meant to hurt her. I accept that I am wrong. I have been heartless and cruel. Yet, she stayed and believed in me. But, by the time I became the man she wished for, she was no longer interested or was in love with me. Even tho she was able to forgive me, she never had a reason to forget those memories. All she had left in her was the pain. I couldn’t agree more with her on that.

She met a guy in her work place who likes her. She tells everything to me. She didn’t like him before but she couldn’t help but think how worse of a guy i was. He did everything for her even without her asking. “He was everything she wanted me to be. He is simply that.” She said. It’s not like she left me for a better guy but she couldn’t help herself to stop comparing me to him. I wouldn’t blame her either.

It’s been 3 months and 4 days since our breakup and 1 month 3 days of no contact. I still can’t see her as my ex. I haven’t even got the courage to bring our breakup to my family nor friends. Not even to ChatGPT. I still love and adore her so much. Do you guys also see me as a pathetic loser who can’t even move on from their ex as i do? They said it will get better with time but here i am grieving and crying every single day because of the pain and regret. I don’t think I’ll ever move on from this. This was the best time of my life and letting it go is so painful.