u/TheKindlyPoltergeist

Most Men & Women are more attractive than they think and most dating issues come from lacking true self confidence.

Most Men & Women are more attractive than they think and most dating issues come from lacking true self confidence. Your average man is 5'9" and 200 pounds. Your average woman is 5'4" and 170 pounds. Most women prefer a guy that is a little skinny or a little chubby as long as they have some muscle, over someone totally jacked. Lots of guys prefer a variety of body shapes in women Everything from chubby to pencil thin is someone's type. 87% of women say they would date a man who was bald. Studies have found men on average prefer an average face with equal amounts siding more towards angular and soft features. This means that even if you're a 5"5' 200 pound bald man you are still probably attractive to a lot of women.

The issue is that self confidence is too low. We see a lot of very conventionally attractive people on TV and so we think conventionally attractive is the only kind of attractive. I think if most women had to rate most men their own age they would rate them a 6 and the same for most men rating most women.

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u/TheKindlyPoltergeist — 2 days ago

How do you use a overlay on your phone for mobile streams ( twitch)?

I'm very new to streaming and I want to use my phone on the street livestreams. Now do I make a screen overlay and how do I attach it to my twitch stream?

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u/TheKindlyPoltergeist — 3 days ago

I get it work can be really stressful and your team always needs something. You get annoyed just like everyone else. BUT.... You are not a general leading the Normandy invasion, no one is going to die because some light bulbs didn't get put away by the end of shift or because an employee, contractor, or customer asks you a question. No one needs to be afraid of an actual physical confrontation over asking if a rule can be bent or because they need help getting a sign made. Your job doesn't take cursing, it doesn't take demeaning, and it doesn't take yelling at full volume. As a contractor who has worked at several retail stores I have seen multiple times behavior I would find inappropriate for drill sergeants. For companies wondering why your turn over rates are so high no matter what you do... this is the reason. So while I get that retail management is a thankless job, take 3 breaths.

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u/TheKindlyPoltergeist — 20 days ago