u/TheWitchChildSCP

It’s not showing up on my communities and my invite link doesn’t work. Did they censor us?

my boyfriend (ftm 18) and me (male 19) thinks he’s pregnant. idk what to do. if it turns out he’s pregnant i don’t know what to do at all. ive never wanted kids, but i don’t want to leave him. he’s hurting and his ex was extremely abusive ((the dad of the child if he turns out to be pregnant)). a child interferes with so much and i struggle so much mentally i can barley keep up with my own life. we’ve known each other since we were 14-15 and dated for about a year back then. we have been on and off heavily in communication over the years. then finally we get back together and i had such high hopes. im just so scared, this isn’t wanted i wanted or envisioned for my life personally, but at the same time it isn’t about me at all. i’ve always loved him so much and i just wanna be there for him. none of its processing atm idk how to feel. it’s been so many years of an attachment to him i want to be there for him always. if it turns out to be true ill never be able to be there in the way he needs and truly deserves

this is all over the place im so sorry. i’m just so lost

God I hope not, because she’s going to embarrass herself.

Edit: 2028

Okay, so I kind of have this problem with my friend. She’s like my best friend. The entire time I’ve known her she hasn’t cared what anyone calls her (meaning he/she/them/etc) but I’ve always known she was a girl and has always gone by her birth name.

Then soph/junior year she joins D&D club and they apparently come up with all their personas and shit and my other friends in the club started calling her “Walter” super confused, I was like “who’s Walter?” Only to find out if was my best friend.

It didn’t bother me but it caught me off guard. Then one day our friend group is at the park and she casually mentions she’s been thinking about transitioning to being a boy and going by “Michael” that caught my attention but none of my friends seem to bat and eye and almost just glossed over it.

I’m like, what do you mean? But we got caught on another topic.

I don’t want to have really serious conversations with because serious conversations feel weird. We are best friends though and have been all through high school and crash at each other’s places regularly.

I don’t mind LGBTQ, and it doesn’t affect my friendship with her, but I don’t know how serious she is about this. She also isn’t thinking about doing hormones, or at least I don’t think so.

We don’t talk about those things because we’re on opposite sides of the political spectrum. I’m more moderate, but she’s more in the middle of blue.

She knows she will always be biologically a girl, and she doesn’t think anyone should be allowed to do hormones until they’re 18, so obviously she’s logical, which is why I’m friends with her in the first place.

This wouldn’t break us up, but I’m a creature of habit. I don’t think she’d get mad at me, it’s just, I feel like she’s just more of a tomboy, not like trans, but I guess I’m not her. But yeah. I needed to rant. Please tell me how I should feel in the comments.

I’m like actually gonna lose my mind at how self important these people are.