u/ThrowAway_Ty02

Hi, last year I met this girl ( I'll call her V) at my job I was working at during the that time. Im (19M) and she was (19F). It started as casual conversations during work and turned into her flirting with me like touching my shoulder when talking to me or giving me free food etc. For context, we used to work at a restaurant. We shortly after expressed our feelings for each other and started talking from there. A couple months pass and we are doing great! Going out on dates, she met my parents, I met hers, and we enjoyed spending time together. As the weeks and months went on, I started seeing her red flags and turns offs. She spent the night for the first time about 4 months in and we were baking cinnamon rolls. As they were in the oven, I ended up falling asleep in my bed since that day we had been out all day, she came into my room saying if I didn't get up, she was going to leave. Shortly after that, I woke up and she was about to walk off the door. I stopped her and we continued as normal. I thought It was weird but put a blind eye to it since it was our first night together. After that, it went down hill, I'm very family oriented and she would constantly call her mom a bitch and when her mom would call her or text her, she would never let me read or listen to conversation. Which i didn't mind cause thats her business but it would be weird that she kept that part private even though I had met her parents before. Another tough part would be that she didnt like any of my hobbies. I would mention that I liked to play pool or play darts, and she agreed to play them with me. She acted like she hated being there or that she wasn't even interested in playing the game. My last straw was when I told her that I think we should take a couple weeks to get our lifes straightened up and be apart since I was still going to school and she had a bunch of stuff going on in her life as well. Both of our schedules didnt line up with each other's since we worked different schedules most of the time and my college was strict on deadlines. She reacted as I thought and we fought for a couple hours but ended up agreeing with each other at the end. The same week, her mom calls me asking if I had heard from V and I said no. She had me on life 360 so I looked and told her mom the last known location since her phone had died and been missing for 9 hours. Long story short, she was at another mans house hooking up and was drinking. She hated me for telling her mom where she was. She could of been kidnapped and if I didnt help, I would of felt terrible. Fast forward to last week, we had been no contact for 5 months and she was enjoying life with her new bf which I later found out was hooking up with her while we were together. She called me asking to go to target with her since she had no one to go to. I was hesitant but figured this would be a good time to let her express her anger at me or we could work things out where we dont have to speak but we have finally come to peace. She told me to drive 45 minutes away to a target even though I was already 5 minutes away from our original target meeting place. I was agitated but did it anyway. As I pull up, i see MY friend walk out of target and get in V car. Thats why she changed the location. I was basically a 3rd wheel to their friendship, and they thought it would be funny for me to walk with them and be uncomfortable. I was in the car with them. I told them to drop me off at my car since they wanted to go to the beach at 1130 at night. I got in my car and went home. I blocked both of them because I dont need friends like that in my life. Her mom would always text her to be home at a certain time and she never was home by that time. She once told me she didnt have a curfew as she was at my house till 3am but later found out her mom wanted her home at 11. AITAH?

Hi, last year I met this girl ( I'll call her V) at my job I was working at during the that time. Im (19M) and she was (19F). It started as casual conversations during work and turned into her flirting with me like touching my shoulder when talking to me or giving me free food etc. For context, we used to work at a restaurant. We shortly after expressed our feelings for each other and started talking from there. A couple months pass and we are doing great! Going out on dates, she met my parents, I met hers, and we enjoyed spending time together.

As the weeks and months went on, I started seeing her red flags and turns offs. She spent the night for the first time about 4 months in and we were baking cinnamon rolls. As they were in the oven, I ended up falling asleep in my bed since that day we had been out all day, she came into my room saying if I didn't get up, she was going to leave. Shortly after that, I woke up and she was about to walk off the door. I stopped her and we continued as normal. I thought It was weird but put a blind eye to it since it was our first night together.

After that, it went down hill, I'm very family oriented and she would constantly call her mom a bitch and when her mom would call her or text her, she would never let me read or listen to conversation. Which i didn't mind cause thats her business but it would be weird that she kept that part private even though I had met her parents before. Another tough part would be that she didnt like any of my hobbies. I would mention that I liked to play pool or play darts, and she agreed to play them with me. She acted like she hated being there or that she wasn't even interested in playing the game.

My last straw was when I told her that I think we should take a couple weeks to get our lifes straightened up and be apart since I was still going to school and she had a bunch of stuff going on in her life as well. Both of our schedules didnt line up with each other's since we worked different schedules most of the time and my college was strict on deadlines. She reacted as I thought and we fought for a couple hours but ended up agreeing with each other at the end. The same week, her mom calls me asking if I had heard from V and I said no. She had me on life 360 so I looked and told her mom the last known location since her phone had died and been missing for 9 hours. Long story short, she was at another mans house hooking up and was drinking. She hated me for telling her mom where she was. She could of been kidnapped and if I didnt help, I would of felt terrible. Fast forward to last week, we had been no contact for 5 months and she was enjoying life with her new bf which I later found out was hooking up with her while we were together. She called me asking to go to target with her since she had no one to go to. I was hesitant but figured this would be a good time to let her express her anger at me or we could work things out where we dont have to speak but we have finally come to peace.

She told me to drive 45 minutes away to a target even though I was already 5 minutes away from our original target meeting place. I was agitated but did it anyway. As I pull up, i see MY friend walk out of target and get in V car. Thats why she changed the location. I was basically a 3rd wheel to their friendship, and they thought it would be funny for me to walk with them and be uncomfortable. I was in the car with them. I told them to drop me off at my car since they wanted to go to the beach at 1130 at night. I got in my car and went home. I blocked both of them because I dont need friends like that in my life. Her mom would always text her to be home at a certain time and she never was home by that time. She once told me she didnt have a curfew as she was at my house till 3am but later found out her mom wanted her home at 11. And she lied about having a miscarriage.

EDIT: She invited me to target with me not knowing that my friend who had became friends with her was going to be there. She gave me the impression that it was just gonna be us. As we drove around, I sat in the back seat just not talking because it was so awkward and she kept making comments about me like I wasn't even in the back seat.

Hi, last year I met this girl ( I'll call her V) at my job I was working at during the that time. Im (19M) and she was (19F). It started as casual conversations during work and turned into her flirting with me like touching my shoulder when talking to me or giving me free food etc. For context, we used to work at a restaurant. We shortly after expressed our feelings for each other and started talking from there. A couple months pass and we are doing great! Going out on dates, she met my parents, I met hers, and we enjoyed spending time together. As the weeks and months went on, I started seeing her red flags and turns offs. She spent the night for the first time about 4 months in and we were baking cinnamon rolls.

As they were in the oven, I ended up falling asleep in my bed since that day we had been out all day, she came into my room saying if I didn't get up, she was going to leave. Shortly after that, I woke up and she was about to walk off the door. I stopped her and we continued as normal. I thought It was weird but put a blind eye to it since it was our first night together. After that, it went down hill, I'm very family oriented and she would constantly call her mom a bitch and when her mom would call her or text her, she would never let me read or listen to conversation. Which i didn't mind cause thats her business but it would be weird that she kept that part private even though I had met her parents before. Another tough part would be that she didnt like any of my hobbies. I would mention that I liked to play pool or play darts, and she agreed to play them with me. She acted like she hated being there or that she wasn't even interested in playing the game.

My last straw was when I told her that I think we should take a couple weeks to get our lifes straightened up and be apart since I was still going to school and she had a bunch of stuff going on in her life as well. Both of our schedules didnt line up with each other's since we worked different schedules most of the time and my college was strict on deadlines. She reacted as I thought and we fought for a couple hours but ended up agreeing with each other at the end. The same week, her mom calls me asking if I had heard from V and I said no. She had me on life 360 so I looked and told her mom the last known location since her phone had died and been missing for 9 hours. Long story short, she was at another mans house hooking up and was drinking. She hated me for telling her mom where she was. She could of been kidnapped and if I didnt help, I would of felt terrible.

Fast forward to last week, we had been no contact for 5 months and she was enjoying life with her new bf which I later found out was hooking up with her while we were together. She called me asking to go to target with her since she had no one to go to. I was hesitant but figured this would be a good time to let her express her anger at me or we could work things out where we dont have to speak but we have finally come to peace. She told me to drive 45 minutes away to a target even though I was already 5 minutes away from our original target meeting place. I was agitated but did it anyway. As I pull up, i see MY friend walk out of target and get in V car. Thats why she changed the location. I was basically a 3rd wheel to their friendship, and they thought it would be funny for me to walk with them and be uncomfortable. I was in the car with them. I told them to drop me off at my car since they wanted to go to the beach at 1130 at night. I got in my car and went home. I blocked both of them because I dont need friends like that in my life. Her mom would always text her to be home at a certain time and she never was home by that time. She once told me she didnt have a curfew as she was at my house till 3am but later found out her mom wanted her home at 11. AITAH? She also lied about having a miscarriage

EDIT:She invited me to target with me not knowing that my friend who had became friends with her was going to be there. She gave me the impression that it was just gonna be us. As we drove around, I sat in the back seat just not talking because it was so awkward and she kept making comments about me like I wasn't even in the back seat.

Hi, last year I met this girl ( I'll call her V) at my job I was working at during the that time. Im (19M) and she was (19F). It started as casual conversations during work and turned into her flirting with me like touching my shoulder when talking to me or giving me free food etc. For context, we used to work at a restaurant. We shortly after expressed our feelings for each other and started talking from there. A couple months pass and we are doing great! Going out on dates, she met my parents, I met hers, and we enjoyed spending time together. As the weeks and months went on, I started seeing her red flags and turns offs. She spent the night for the first time about 4 months in and we were baking cinnamon rolls.

As they were in the oven, I ended up falling asleep in my bed since that day we had been out all day, she came into my room saying if I didn't get up, she was going to leave. Shortly after that, I woke up and she was about to walk off the door. I stopped her and we continued as normal. I thought It was weird but put a blind eye to it since it was our first night together. After that, it went down hill, I'm very family oriented and she would constantly call her mom a bitch and when her mom would call her or text her, she would never let me read or listen to conversation. Which i didn't mind cause thats her business but it would be weird that she kept that part private even though I had met her parents before. Another tough part would be that she didnt like any of my hobbies. I would mention that I liked to play pool or play darts, and she agreed to play them with me. She acted like she hated being there or that she wasn't even interested in playing the game.

My last straw was when I told her that I think we should take a couple weeks to get our lifes straightened up and be apart since I was still going to school and she had a bunch of stuff going on in her life as well. Both of our schedules didnt line up with each other's since we worked different schedules most of the time and my college was strict on deadlines. She reacted as I thought and we fought for a couple hours but ended up agreeing with each other at the end. The same week, her mom calls me asking if I had heard from V and I said no. She had me on life 360 so I looked and told her mom the last known location since her phone had died and been missing for 9 hours. Long story short, she was at another mans house hooking up and was drinking. She hated me for telling her mom where she was. She could of been kidnapped and if I didnt help, I would of felt terrible.

Fast forward to last week, we had been no contact for 5 months and she was enjoying life with her new bf which I later found out was hooking up with her while we were together. She called me asking to go to target with her since she had no one to go to. I was hesitant but figured this would be a good time to let her express her anger at me or we could work things out where we dont have to speak but we have finally come to peace. She told me to drive 45 minutes away to a target even though I was already 5 minutes away from our original target meeting place. I was agitated but did it anyway. As I pull up, i see MY friend walk out of target and get in V car. Thats why she changed the location. I was basically a 3rd wheel to their friendship, and they thought it would be funny for me to walk with them and be uncomfortable. I was in the car with them. I told them to drop me off at my car since they wanted to go to the beach at 1130 at night. I got in my car and went home. I blocked both of them because I dont need friends like that in my life. Her mom would always text her to be home at a certain time and she never was home by that time. She once told me she didnt have a curfew as she was at my house till 3am but later found out her mom wanted her home at 11. AITAH? She also lied about having a miscarriage

EDIT: She invited me to target with me not knowing that my friend who had became friends with her was going to be there. She gave me the impression that it was just gonna be us. As we drove around, I sat in the back seat just not talking because it was so awkward and she kept making comments about me like I wasn't even in the back seat.