Where are all the gay men in Pak?? 21F need nikkah w a gay man (not bisexual)

Posting again bcz I didn't get a single DM from a gay man last time. I'm 21F from Karachi, facing abuse and intense marriage pressure. I only have a few months until they find someone themselves. I don't want to marry anyone genuinely and I don't want a relationship either, so I couldn't find any straight man who can help me without any such expectations.

I'm looking for a gay man(not bisexual) who can do nikkah with me in a masjid. There will be no functions or photos, he just has to act islamic and look committed.

Not much family involvement needed, as after nikah I'll tell my family not to visit your parents, and you don't have to give their phone numbers to them either. Also great if you're from another city so they won't visit your parents, and you can make your parents talk from your phone.

I really don't have any other option. My family won't let me go without marriage. They will cause a huge scene wherever I go and blame my mother. Her life is already hell, if I run away she will face issues.

But if I'm married and my husband allows it, they won't be able to do anything. I can live in a hostel after nikkah.

I'm very anxious, and they're making it really hard for me to live in peace. I face physical abuse too.

If you know anyone who can help me, please connect me with him.

Any age, even 40.

I'll not be a financial burden on him; I'm trying to manage money for this. And I'll work after marriage.

Divorce in a few years.

I can explain everything to you step by step, how this is gonna work easily, and dw you won't have to pressure my family.

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u/ThrowRA_os — 5 days ago

Need someone to host me for sometime in Karachi

Hi guys. I’m 21F, facing abuse and marriage pressure. I have to move out asap but don’t have a job or a degree. My family is very toxic, they put many restrictions on jobs too.

I need a temporary marriage of convenience, preferably with a gay man facing the same pressure. There will be no photos or functions. Just a quiet nikkah.

Looking for someone wealthy so he can easily host me for roughly a year, until I save enough money to move out. I will repay the living expenses later and can also handle cooking and chores. Also, I am an introvert and live very simply.

I don't want to marry anyone genuinely, so I'm looking for a temporary marriage.

If you know anyone who can help, please let me know.

DM me with your intro. I will ignore 'hi' or 'hello'. Conservative and religious people, please stay away from my DMs.

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u/ThrowRA_os — 15 days ago

Need someone to host me for sometime in Karachi

Hi guys. I’m 21F, facing abuse and marriage pressure. I have to move out asap but don’t have a job or a degree. My family is very toxic, they put many restrictions on jobs too.

I need a temporary marriage of convenience, preferably with a gay man facing the same pressure. There will be no photos or functions. Just a quiet nikkah.

Looking for someone wealthy so he can easily host me for roughly a year, until I save enough money to move out. I will repay the living expenses later and can also handle cooking and chores. Also, I am an introvert and live very simply.

I don't want to marry anyone genuinely, so I'm looking for a temporary marriage.

If you know anyone who can help, please let me know.

DM me with your intro. I will ignore 'hi' or 'hello'. Conservative and religious people, please stay away from my DMs.

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u/ThrowRA_os — 23 days ago
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21F need someone to host me for about a year in Karachi

Hi guys. I’m 21F, facing abuse and marriage pressure. I have to move out asap but don’t have a job or a degree. My family is very toxic, they put many restrictions on jobs too.

I need a temporary marriage of convenience, preferably with a gay man facing the same pressure. There will be no photos or functions. Just a quiet nikkah.

Looking for someone wealthy so he can easily host me for roughly a year, until I save enough money to move out. I will repay the living expenses later and can also handle cooking and chores. Also, I am an introvert and live very simply.

I don't want to marry anyone genuinely, so I'm looking for a temporary marriage.

If you know anyone who can help, please let me know.

DM me with your intro. I will ignore 'hi' or 'hello'. Conservative and religious people, please stay away from my DMs.

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u/ThrowRA_os — 24 days ago

I get folliculitis every time I remove body hair

Since my teens, I have always had body acne; I have never had clear skin. A few years ago, I got a full-body wax bcuz I have hair all over my body. It left my skin filled with horrible acne. I tried body waxing a second time, but the exact same thing happened. I have been to dermatologists before, but it never made much of a difference.

Shaving makes the hair look coarse, so I recently tried EU hair removal cream for sensitive skin. I still got folliculitis from it, though it wasn't as horrible as waxing. Maybe if my skin gets used to hair removal creams, the folliculitis will stop?

Right now, my whole body is covered in acne. My back, arms, chest, and stomach are full of breakouts, though they aren't painful. For context, I am slim, I sleep well, and I don't eat excessive sugar.

My skin is not overly sensitive. It isn't very oily either, though my back switches between oily and dry.

I am on a very tight budget. Please tell me affordable, highly effective ways to clear this stubborn body acne. I have been using 5% benzoyl peroxide soap, Jenpharm anti-acne soap, and other medicated soaps for months. I lather them well and let them sit before rinsing, but they do absolutely nothing.

If you have dealt with the exact same issue, please share how you finally fixed it. I would really appreciate fast, effective, and affordable pharmacy product recommendations.

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u/ThrowRA_os — 1 month ago
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21F need to move out

I am dealing with an extremely abusive family forcing me into marriage. I need a temporary marriage of convenience within the next few months with a gay man facing the same pressure.

There will be no photos or functions. Just a simple, quiet Nikkah.

He needs to be financially stable (to convince my family easily) and able to host me for roughly a year, until I save enough money to move out. I am an introvert and live very simply. I will repay the living expenses later and can also handle cooking and chores.

I have no other option and they are pressuring me. I don't want to marry anyone genuinely. My family will also give me some cash if I marry, which can help me gain my independence.

Putting this out here to cross paths with someone in the same situation.

Conservative and religious people, please stay away.

EDIT: Stop DMing me asking if there is another way. Yes, there is, if someone gives me a ton of money to live independently I can run away from my house lol

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u/ThrowRA_os — 1 month ago

21F need to move out

I am dealing with an extremely abusive family forcing me into marriage. I need a temporary marriage of convenience within the next few months with a gay man facing the same pressure.

There will be no photos or functions. Just a simple, quiet Nikkah.

He needs to be financially stable (to convince my family easily) and able to host me for roughly a year, until I save enough money to move out. I am an introvert and live very simply. I will repay the living expenses later and can also handle cooking and chores.

I have no other option and they are pressuring me. I don't want to marry anyone genuinely. My family will also give me some cash if I marry, which can help me gain my independence.

Putting this out here to cross paths with someone in the same situation.

Conservative and religious people, please stay away.

EDIT: Stop DMing me asking if there is another way. Yes, there is, if someone gives me a ton of money to live independently I can run away from my house lol

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u/ThrowRA_os — 1 month ago

21F Seeking Marriage of Convenience ASAP

Guys I'm seeking an MoC ASAP. I don't want to go into details here but my family has been very physically abusive. And they are pressuring me for marriage.

I didn't want this, but it is getting more serious day by day. And I really don't have any other option. I am looking for a paper marriage only, there will be no photos or celebrations, and you do not have to involve your family either.

If you or anyone you know can help, please DM me

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u/ThrowRA_os — 2 months ago

Any guy who lives alone?

Any guys living alone in a flat in a secure area of Karachi, Lahore, or Islamabad, please DM me.

Don't worry I'm keeping this post vague intentionally for safety and privacy reasons. Nothing alarming going on

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u/ThrowRA_os — 2 months ago