u/Throwawaychkgo

Found in tri cities WA

First image is the guy who came by a few days ago. My other 2 cats were chilling in the morning on our patio and were very interested in him. He seemed cautious but not overly scared and didnt run away even when I was outside/my bf was. He didn't approach until I had the cats come in as my void seemed to want to intimidate him away and my concern was a cat fight. He stayed on the patio for a good hour, sitting on my chairs and even sitting inches from the door peering in. Finally I decided to get him in a carrier and get his chip checked. No chip, and unfixed.

My girl void (2nd pic) was found on the other side of the building almost exactly a year ago in the hood of my car. She was estimated about 3-4 months old and was also unfixed, no chip. Both have the same color, similar face, similar size, and same white spots on chest and low belly (bladder area). Similar temperament too, very sweet to people, good rule followers, very grateful.

Is it possible they are from the same litter? This would make them both about a year and a few months. They don't seem to be super close but it makes sense because they've been separated a year+ now, as well as he is unfixed and more untamed. I find it interesting he was so obsessed with my patio, almost like he smelled familiarity.

Unsure on keeping him as im in an apartment and have 2 cats, as well as a baby on the way but I certainly wont be letting him to roam and am going to try to get him fixed when I can. Good thing is even though we have a 2 cat limit, he looks so similar to our other void to an untrained eye it just looks like the same cat.

I ask him multiple times a day, every day to eat my butt and he refuses every single time. I'm so upset. Its been months and he hasn't eaten it from the back like groceries. I even tell him YES I showered last week and NO I don't think I have clingers but he still refuses. I stole his card and went on a little shopping spree today but I'm still thinking of cheating on him by screwing his brother.

Me (30f) and my bf (45m) have been together for 10 years and hes the best guy ever. Please, try not to be jealous. I understand not everyone can be as lucky as I am.

No, he has not proposed but hes taking his time!!! He had a very mean, crazy ex before we started dating and has been scared to propose ever since. I mean he didnt propose then either but I totally get it. He also has a great job right now and can sometimes afford us to eat out at a fancy place like Jollibees in the picture once a month or so. Hes been at his job for 2 years and thinks maybe he could make shift lead next year! I feel so spoiled. He has an awesome car too, and the car payment isnt even that much, its not even the same price as our rent (almost but not as much). He has cool hobbies like video games, weed, and even let's me watch porn with him sometimes. No, it doesnt bother me. He said the fact he exclusively watches big booty Latina porn is no reflection on how much he loves me (white girl with negative ass). He said its like when you like 1 ice cream alot and sometimes want a different kind. Again, totally reasonable and I get it. Hes so dreamy.

Lastly he never has a mess around our apartment which is such a high bar I know I can never leave him. His mom actually comes over twice a week to do it for him and do all of his laundry which is so sweet hes so close to his mom like that.

Pictured is our 10 year anniversary dinner. He made me give him the pie so I dont have too many calories but he paid for it all himself! It was such a treat.

He (fetus, 32 weeks gestation) has finally pushed me over the edge. Often he will move around alot, which is fine, but sometimes this reaches the level of abuse. Frequently he punches my pubic bone like hes Mike Tyson. No warning, no reason, just punches it. Today however was the last straw.

I was taking a quick 3 hour nap when I got woken up in the middle of it to my ribs being aggressively kicked. It hurt so bad I thought I was having a medical emergency for a second there. This, I believe, qualifies as abuse. I know hes a minor and not even born yet but surely theres some authority I can call to report this blatant abuse. It has to stop before it gets worse. Yes, he is only 4 pounds as well so I outweigh him by about 3900% but that shouldn't be a factor imo. Im wondering if his reasoning is because I didnt eat my fruit snack in the afternoon but thats not a good excuse.

Dinner is Minecraft frosted flakes.

I wish I was on circle jerk but sadly this is 100% true

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My mom and dad were divorced for almost a decade before he passed and she had tried dating for some years after the divorce. Nothing stuck, which if you know her you'd know why. So regardless flash forward to about 2 years ago I was out to lunch with my mom when she drops the ball on me.

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"Me and X are dating. We're a couple"

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Cue my instant laughter. X was her cousin, her FIRST cousin. My family was almost entirely made of California well-to-do liberals and she was no exception. I had simply never heard of such a thing.

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"You're serious?"

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Yes, she was serious. Oh, and hes perfect she says! He owns several franchises, he has a bit of money, he goes to Hawaii all the time, its like a fairy tale. I cringe internally and externally and have several doubts but say okay mom do what you want I guess. She was post menopausal, no kids coming atleast, but I didn't see it lasting. Not just because of the cousin thing, but I wouldn't wish a romantic relationship with my mom on my worst nightmare. The best way to describe her when even slightly annoyed is "shrieking harpy" level, and has been my entire life. Good luck, X!

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Well, my mom makes plans to sell her home and move with him to Hawaii. He takes her on all sorts of vacations, they're going to buy a condo in Hawaii and she will retire on the beach. Oh finally, shes just like Cinderella or something. Amazing. Well, unfortunately that didn't work out. They vacation there for a few months and decide they hate eachother it seems. My mom moves back, moves in with my grandma who lives in a senior apartment and is extremely depressed. That was last July, its now been almost a year and she is still depressed. Try to call her on her birthday or mother's day and you get no answer. The best I can get is a text once a month. Her first grandchild is coming, from me, by August and she shows very little care towards it. She has moved out to a furnished apartment separate from my grandma but according to herself can still "only do the basics". She is 66.

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The COPE:

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The funny thing is I tried to tell her I didn't see it working out, and they were acting like teenagers, were treating me wrong (for several reasons) and I got told its just me who says this! Nobody else apparently has a problem with dating your first cousin supposedly. Or, well actually, some do, but they're just old and conservative. They don't "get" dating your cousin like *she* does. Also, did you know Einstein was dating his 1st cousin? Shes just like Einstein actually. Oh, and quite a few countries have alot of 1st cousin marriages! Which countries are these? Yeah theyre the same ones with dubious AOC laws and FGM and other things but let's not look at that...

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Also guess which state allows 1st cousin marriages? Not ours. But Hawaii does!

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So today my 1 year old cat decided to stand up on her hind legs, just like a human, look me straight in the eyes and proclaim "Try as you will, no one will ever believe you". Then she said some weird phrase about the "old gods" or something and went perfectly back to normal a second later. I had no time to grab my phone to record this but im wondering if this is normal cat behavior? She said it in perfect English, in an adult woman's voice. Normally she just meows.

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Pictured here shortly after, acting like nothing happened?? If it helps she is fixed and eats 50/50 wet food and kibble.

Hi all,

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So we (29f and 37m) have been dating for 3 years and have known eachother for 5 almost. I have began to suspect he might be gay, and not bisexual but legitimately gay. Yes, he did get me pregnant and we have a normal sex life where he has explicity told me how attracted to me he is but I just can't get past these things. Here's why:

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Plays video games occasionally using a male character. Every straight man plays as women because if you play as a man, you have to look at man ass constantly. Why does he want to stare at man ass all the time?

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He has exclusively male friends. Why do you want to spend all free time around men? Something smells off.

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His coworkers are 60/40 male. Again, choosing to spend more time with men. Hmmm

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He drinks iced coffee

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He drinks martinis

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He cares about how he dresses and smells. I believe he even showers once a day. Very very not straight behavior here.

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He likes cats

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Ok tell me im not crazy, this guy is definitely gay. I don't know why he doesn't just come out and tell me already. Pictured is half eaten fish and chips with potato salad because im eating my feelings.

Hi all, I recently started having a crisis because ive gotten some comments from friends about this relationship im in. Hes 40 and im 32. Basically they say im grooming him, I shouldn't be dating him, ect and judge me harshly.

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Let me start with how we met. We met at an after a school event (pta meeting) and he just seemed so mature for his age, I was super impressed! He told me he does his w2 every year all on his own, can drive, and even has a job already. His mind really blew me away. Meanwhile im 32 and can barely do my taxes. I think because im so immature, and hes mature, its basically like im not grooming him at all right? Plus, hes just very smart and mature in his interests. Hes only 40 but likes stuff like fishing and cooking. Also, he listens to stuff thats way advanced for his age like Nickelback. I think I just met the most mature 40 year old man ever honestly, and due to that we get along so well.

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My friends say because of our age gap its problematic, even when I show them he can even hang up his own clothes sometimes. They even suggested calling the cops on me for this but this isnt illegal, is it? For reference we both live in Texas. I don't know, I just feel really judged by my friends and dont want to be arrested for my age gap relationship. What do you ladies think??

Im just so tired of being a wo female. Men get to all age extremely well and even get better with age! They never lose fertility, never get fat, never become bitter or jaded and just all become more handsome rich studs every single year they continue to breathe. Wtf!!

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We as women hit the wall at 30 25 20. We get fat, ugly, bitter, jaded and all our eggs are basically gone by 25, or only the reject eggs are left. Past 20, no woman has ever become hotter. Its just never happened. Plus, we all have impossible standards that raise when we age for some strange reason, so we become bitter. Men, even though constantly improving and basically infallible, can never meet them. Wtf ladies?!?!? I feel so bad for men :(

Hi reddit. Literally shaking as I type this but it still bothers me and I can't sleep. Atleast 1-2 times a month my(29) bf (37) will go out and either get drinks at a bar or come home with some beer, but refuses to let me drink some. I have told him multiple times my pregnancy craving is a nice cold beer and he never listens or cares. I even told him my hyperfixation is alcohol and still NOTHING. He always uses some lame excuse about my temporary health condition (pregnancy or whatever) but refuses to elaborate exactly why. Plus, what if the baby wants some too? Last time, he said something about it giving our kid "problems" but that sounded really ableist to me and so I sobbed for about 6 hours due to his lack of empathy. Tell me im right

Found this pyramid in my car last July. She started really taking to this pose a few months ago. Estimated to be about a year old now, roughly. Belly is slightly hairless due to spay surgery which has taken forever to grow back for some reason