u/TieSouthern726

My bf (25m) and i (24f) have been together over a year now. He had a 3 year long relationship with his ex and ended on decent terms (still following eachother on social media). She got into a new relationship and recently posted bikini pictures on ig. I saw that my bf liked the post… i’ve mentioned to him before that I don’t really like him interacting with her posts (for other reasons) when we first got together & i also understand people are going to do what they want at the end of the day. however, him liking her bikini pictures felt disrespectful. how would you recommend going about this? bring it up or since i’ve mentioned it before in general, to just leave it alone?

My bf (25m) and i (24f) have been together over a year now. He had a 3 year long relationship with his ex and ended on decent terms (still following eachother on social media). She got into a new relationship and recently posted bikini pictures on ig. I saw that my bf liked the post… i’ve mentioned to him before that I don’t really like him interacting with her posts (for other reasons) when we first got together & i also understand people are going to do what they want at the end of the day. however, him liking her bikini pictures felt disrespectful. Should i bring it up or since i’ve mentioned it before in general, to just leave it alone?

My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year (in a week). We are long distance and see each other when we can. He was unemployed for some months and recently got a new job in a new city away from his family and friends. When I try to have conversations with his he seems annoyed or irritated easily, but when i hear him talking to other people he seems to be in a better mood, laughing etc. I’ve asked him various times if there’s anything upsetting him or if i did something and he says no and that he’s happy in the relationship. I don’t feel like his words are matching his actions. I feel like we don’t have conversations as much as we used to and that i’m usually the one initiating our calls/texts. I don’t believe he’s cheating or doing anything of that nature, but his new behavior is concerning to me. Is this normal? How would you recommend to go about this situation?

TL;DR bf acting distant after a year, what should i do?