r/Dating_Decoded

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Dressing compliment

Wanted to know from girls, do you like to get a compliment on your dressing sense? .. from someone whom you don't know or don't have friendship with but do notice or see each other regularly like nearby your stay or work place.

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u/Repulsive-Ad-4340 — 2 days ago
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Anxious he's seeing other women after 2 great dates.

Hello guys, i've been seeing this man for 2 dates (met on a dating app), great chemistry, we had a lot of fun and kissed multiple times, he also said he was looking for a serious relationship, and i asked him on our second date if he's keeping his options open he said that he's been answering these women obviously but he has great chemistry with me and he appreciates it. he again asked me out this weekend because i'm super busy this week. We've been constantly texting before meeting in person and afterwards, tonight he didn't text me at all as usual so i'm assuming he's seeing other women and maybe even spent the night together, i can't help but feel hurt and anxious... any advice please

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u/OkPossession7012 — 4 days ago
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20M Guys need help

Am an Engineering student pursuing CS in banglore

So am thinking everyone is in relationship everyone is enjoying life with their girlfriend and my in friend group am the one who is single I feel like am gonna end up single

BTW am a kissless Virgin

Here everyone is sharing their s*x life with me

Wtf I feel jealous and frustrated man

Am not gonna say am handsome still not getting anyone but am 7 out of 10 with brilliant personality

I have got complimented for my personality

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u/AppropriateNet2667 — 10 days ago
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My [24M] Boyfriend [22F] Loves me but isn’t truly attracted to me what should I do?

Hello Reddit :) Me and my boyfriend have been together for roughly around 2 years. For context I am a really slim built black female and he is a black man. My boyfriend is my perfect idea of a man down to personality, looks, everything. However, the problem is I don't think he feels the same about me.
He typically goes for thicker shaped women and I can't help but to feel like I'm not necessarily his dream girl as far as looks goes. Don't get me wrong my boyfriend always tells me that he thinks I'm beautiful the way I am and I don't need to change but I don't get the feeling that he is infatuated with me. I had my suspicions that he would prefer if I had a different body type from little comments he would say here and there and I tried to forget about it but it honestly really bothers me. He never grabs my waist or rub on me and it's just strange because I know if I was thicker he would want to do those things yk? As a smaller black women I always have this issue with dating black men as they typically prefer thicker women. I've tried to gain weight and it never sticks so I honestly gave up. He fell in love with my personality and I truly think he cares for me deeply but can a relationship survive without sexual attraction? Or should I leave the relationship and find someone who is attracted to my body type?

TLDR: I'm not my boyfriend's type should I stay in the relationship?

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u/Sufficient_Way666 — 12 days ago