u/Top-Ladder-7259

Hey im from NZ, 19f bassist, forming an All women online rockband. Here's the og post: https://www.reddit.com/r/FindABand/s/YHyBqQhVVD

I like green day and maneskin btw hehe

looking for drummer Age limit: 16+

Aim for the band: no pressure, just hv fun, do covers post online first, then if everything is smooth, we can start writing music, and highkey chase the big music dream, be the rock star.

Experience requirements: doesn't hv to be super skilled/ experienced, as long as u know how to play ur instrument well, and can read tabs.

DM if u r interested, ty!

Hey im from NZ, 19f bassist, forming an All women online rockband. Here's the og post: https://www.reddit.com/r/FindABand/s/YHyBqQhVVD (M musicians r also welcome to join, as long as u don't mind and respect the f musicians)

I like green day and maneskin btw hehe

looking for guitarist and drummer Age limit: 16+

Aim for the band: no pressure, just hv fun, do covers post online first, then if everything is smooth, we can start writing music, and highkey chase the big music dream, be the rock star.

Experience requirements: doesn't hv to be super skilled/ experienced, as long as u know how to play ur instrument well, and can read tabs.

DM if u r interested, ty!

Hey im from NZ, 19f bassist, forming an All women online rockband. Here's the og post: https://www.reddit.com/r/FindABand/s/YHyBqQhVVD

I like green day and maneskin btw hehe

looking for guitarist and drummer Age limit: 16+

Aim for the band: no pressure, just hv fun, do covers post online first, then if everything is smooth, we can start writing music, and highkey chase the big music dream, be the rock star.

Experience requirements: doesn't hv to be super skilled/ experienced, as long as u know how to play ur instrument well, and can read tabs.

DM if u r interested, ty!

Hi im 19f bassist here! I'm from New Zealand Always had this idea of online, all women rock band (for a while actually). Being a rockstar is my biggest dream ngl, but yeah I can't find anyone local to form a band unfortunately, so yeah im here looking for people.

I mainly listen to Maneskin and Green day

so my goals for the band r like start with doing some covers and post online! then we start creating our own music. AND HV FUN!

im looking for: Guitar Drum

age: 16+

dont worry, u don't hv to be super experienced! and this band won't be like supper pressed bcs im a full-time college student, kinda busy as well. if u r interested, pls lmk!

Hi, 19f bassist! Trying to form like a casual, all women rock band at East Auckland (like howick, pakuranga, botany, highland park area) (😭really can't be bothered do 3-4hrs commute in total just for an hour practice at somewhere else)

Just wanna start doing some covers and post online stuff. Not looking for like practice every week stuff like that, just casual and enjoy rock.🍀

dm if u r interested.

hi, just wondering is there any female, beginner friendly group, like just a casual football group at east? (like the football field at Highland park?) Or general any like relaxed, chill groups? not professional, just wanna get back to the hobby.

I was looking at some social teams, but it seems like there are fees involved, so I thought I'd see if anyone just wants to play casually.

Finals are coming up, so I'm not expecting anything immediately.

I'm thinking maybe once a week/ once every 2 weeks next semester (like Friday afternoon maybe?), probably at Albert Park or somewhere near campus (I'm still debating whether to buy a Hiwa membership XD)

A bit about my skills:

I played for a club when I was around 8–10 (overseas), picked it up again in high school, then stopped in year 11 (because my school didn't value the girls' team).

My skills are definitely not amazing, very rusty, but I'd love to get back into this hobby and just enjoy playing with people again.

Not looking for anything super competitive, just some people who want to kick a ball around, have fun, and maybe get a regular group going.

If you're interested, here's the discord server: https://discord.gg/pGquajf6K

（prefer F? but if u don't mind playing with women, then no problem, feel free to join)

Some context: I didn't get myself involved in any kind of romance for 3-4 yrs. Last year I finally started developing feelings for someone, but it didn't work out, so I shut myself down again.

So I recently met a guy; I think he is cool. I decided to just start talking and see where this takes me (a bit scared, honestly). I'll go with the flow. But ngl, I feel like I'm the one doing more talking here (he is not a big social media guy). He was kind of talkative in the first few days, but now he isn't. Like, I can see he is literally online; he just doesn't respond to my messages. I'm not sure if he is busy or avoiding me.

My friend told me if he is not texting you back, then he is not interested. Which I kind of agree with? Like if I had feelings for someone, I would text them back ASAP.

Also, I'm unsure about if I actually have a crush on this guy; like, in the first few days, I want to talk to him, hang out with him, and I won't stop thinking about him. However, now I'm losing a bit of interest... Not sure if I just like him as a friend or I actually have a crush on him.

I finally meet someone that I find interesting; it is so rare in my life because I find it really hard to develop feelings for someone for a long time. I just really want to have something real, romantic, like love, for once.

SHOULD I JUST GIVE UP, OR KEEP TEXTING?