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Hey guys! I’m trying to take a friend clubbing in either Durham or Chapel in a week or two. What are the best clubs to go to during the summer? Since it’s not college season and less ppl are going out. We like it best when it’s crowded and are both gay (but not limited to gay clubs just wherever is the most fun). Does anyone have any recommendations? I’m from the Charlotte area so I’m also not the most familiar w the clubs in this area but it’s where we will be.

Thanks in advance!!

So I’m a lesbian I’ve figured that much out. BUT I’ve hooked up w a guy before and he tried to finger me and I hated it. I thought I’d was just cuz he was a guy (and it partly was) but I just hooked up w a girl for the first time and she fingered me and I wanted to like it but it hurt… is that normal? I don’t finger myself so idk how it’s supposed to feel honestly… but u hooked up w a girl and other than that it was great so yay 😎

So I’m (21F) gonna be traveling around a lot this summer because of my job. Like for 3 months straight I’m basically gonna be in a different town/city every day. At the end of those three months I’m going to go back to my small town. (this is my summer job since I’m abt to be a senior in college, also for context I’m a lesbian but that doesn’t rly change the situation) One of my goals for this year was to put myself out there and date more bc I’ve never been in a real relationship. I’ve been on a couple first dates and have had one real talking stage. I don’t know if I should just turn my hinge off for the summer since things will be so inconsistent, if I should just keep changing it to my current location OR if I should leave it in my college town with the knowledge I won’t be back for months?

Let me know your thoughts! Thanks so much!

For a long time I’ve had a hard time figuring out if I’m bi or a lesbian. Either way I definitely have a preference for women. I’m considering just trying out the lesbian label for myself to see how it fits but if I turn out to be bi I don’t want to overstep. Should I go ahead and try out the label or is this something I should keep to myself?