u/Traditional_Wolf_853

My younger cousin (18) brother who always keeps his phone with him Yesterday my friend called me on his phone. And he left after giving me the phone, but the phone was unlocked. He did not pay attention even though he is very possessive about his phone. And he fell asleep because it was very hot day.

When I started swiping and sliding on his phone, I saw porn.I deleted that But later I thought of checking his entire phone and saw that he and his friends mostly talk on these.

Why are these boys so obsessed with porn?

How can I confront him?

What negative impact can this have on him in the future?

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I’m a girl with a serious disability caused by an accident, but the thing is… it’s mostly invisible. I can still walk and function normally in public, so people usually assume I’m completely healthy.

Because of that, guys approach me pretty often, and every time I end up stuck in the same situation:

If I tell them early, it feels like I have to give a “disclaimer” about my disability every single time someone shows interest in me. This feels quite awkward.

If I wait until later, I start feeling guilty & fraud.

And honestly, I also understand that for some people, dating a disabled person may simply not match their preferences, and I think that’s okay too. I don’t want anyone to force themselves into something they aren’t comfortable with.

I genuinely don’t know what the “right” thing is anymore. I don’t want pity,

For people with disabilities or chronic conditions: How do you handle dating and disclosure without feeling ashamed or dishonest?

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There’s this guy I know as a friend. He’s respectful, mature, understanding, practical — honestly a really good person overall.

But he’s also extremely calm and reserved. He barely talks much and never really expresses emotions openly. I’ve never seen him emotionally attached or vulnerable with anyone.

That’s what confuses me. I feel like even if he cares deeply, he may not emotionally connect or express warmth in a relationship, and I’m scared I could end up feeling emotionally lonely.

So I’m stuck between:

“Good, stable guy with green flags”

vs

“Lack of emotional expression and warmth.”

Girls who’ve dated men like this — did it work out for you?

so toh mere dadaji ne phone le liya mera aur chale gaye 1 week ke liye bua ke yahan kyuki unuhone khud ki laparwahi ki wajah se khud ka phone kho diya (chori ho gaya)
and now mujhe bina phone ke time bitana hai, aaj toh bhaiya ke PC se time pass kar liya lekin sham ko woh aa jayenge toh uske baad isko bhi touch nahi kar sakte

kaise kaise time pass kar sakte hai? kuchh ideas do

I’ve been seeing a lot of “lesbian protector” type memes on social media, and it made me notice something — lesbians seem to receive less direct hate compared to gay men. That got me thinking

Women experience toxicity in many heterosexual relationships, yet the number of those relationships is higher.

There is so much hate around gay relationships, yet they are still more in number.

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So he said that he is from village.

And whenever he gets a chance to go to his village, he will go and stay there.

And he told me that I will not be able to adjust for him and neither should I. And politely rejected me