so I found two pairs of underwear in my bfs side bed drawer in a gift bag and then within gift bag it was in a smaller black net gift bag. They didn't seem new as it had no tags and had lint on them so probably used/a bit old. The brands were from a different country. He moved countries a year ago and places a month ago so there is no way he forgot them , he actively bought it. Ofc amongst that was a sex toy and condoms but other than that nothing else... I am going to ask him about it in person next time. We also haven't been as intimate past month or so as I had an hsv diagnosis which for reference he was super supportive about. When I confronted about not having sex for a month and few weeks he said he loves me but was unsure if it hurts me so soon after diagnosis. For reference we have been dating for 6 months

EDIT: they are female and small pretty undies. Not my size so definitely not a gift for me.

Edit: he said it’s from a girl he was seeing last year and forgot to throw them out

Am I overreacting I found two pairs of old underwear in my bfs side bed drawer

so I found two pairs of underwear in my bfs side bed drawer in a gift bag and then within gift bag it was in a smaller black net gift bag. They didn't seem new as it had no tags and had lint on them so probably used/a bit old. The brands were from a different country. He moved countries a year ago and places a month ago so there is no way he forgot them , he actively bought it. Ofc amongst that was a sex toy and condoms but other than that nothing else... I am going to ask him about it in person next time. We also haven't been as intimate past month or so as I had an hsv diagnosis which for reference he was super supportive about. When I confronted about not having sex for a month and few weeks he said he loves me but was unsure if it hurts me so soon after diagnosis. For reference we have been dating for 6 months

EDIT: they are female and small pretty undies. Not my size so definitely not a gift for me.

tldr found old female lingere/underwear (nothing too fancy) in a gift bag in my bfs drawer.

so I am female 27 and he is male 33 I found two pairs of underwear in my bfs side bed drawer in a gift bag and then within gift bag it was in a smaller black net gift bag. They didn't seem new as it had no tags and had lint on them so probably used/a bit old. The brands were from a different country. He moved countries a year ago and places a month ago so there is no way he forgot them , he actively bought it. Ofc amongst that was a sex toy and condoms but other than that nothing else... I am going to ask him about it in person next time. We also haven't been as intimate past month or so as I had an hsv diagnosis which for reference he was super supportive about. When I confronted about not having sex for a month and few weeks he said he loves me but was unsure if it hurts me so soon after diagnosis. For reference we have been dating for 6 months

Also - I feel bad for snooping, bad habit.