u/UnexpectedTex

Nagsisisi ako na di ko binigyan ng pansin hairline ko nung early 20s ko. Baka siguro di ko siya iniisip as major problem before. And I was too focused building my career. Kaya napabayaan ko.

Pero ngayong 30 nako, naaapektuhan na rin mental health ko dahil naging passive ako sa physical health issue kong ito.

Kaya kung may kapatid, pinsan, kamag-anak o kaibigan kayong nasa 20s palang or even teenager palang at nahahalata niyo na napapanot na or numinipis na ang buhok, bigyan niyo na sila ng advice kahit di sila humihingi—*na alagaan nila buhok nila nang mas maaga*. One day, they realized and thank you for the advice once they grow old for sure.

I wish I gave my younger self an early advice back then.

Hi guys. Can you recommend a doctor or clinic for initial consultation re hair thinning and receding hairline?
Within NCR sana. Yung nasubukan niyo na. And yung okay ang service. And how much nagastos niyo? Thank you.

Sino mag Hoesik tonight? Pasabit po. Nag aambag ako dont worry. HAHAHA. Di malakas uminom pero kaya magbayad. Hahaha. DM pls.

Di naman kayo minanyak or binosohan or binastos. Talagang tinago lang sa inyo tapos kayo naman di talaga din nahalata. Magagalit ba kayo sa kanya or magtatampo? Or ano reaction or feeling niyo?

Yung seryosong sagot sana. Salamat.

Have you ever dated a cute guy and you’re just “sakto” guy? Not confident, have insecurities and 5 years older than him?

Well, maybe it’s not a validation that you’re above average when someone too cute ay pumatol sayo. Kasi what if naawa lang sya sayo or triny nya lang talaga to date you, but in the end, cute guys are for cute guys talaga?

I matched with this cute guy in Bumble last April 2 and we decided to meet on April 5. He’s gonna take a major exam this May while me, I’m just a busy corporate employee.

Everything went well on our first date. We went to a cafe in Pasig and got to know each other’s interests and lives.

We dated again on Apil 11. This time, I gave him a rose and watched a movie in Mandaluyong. We also did the thing in my apartment thereafter.

I really like him. He’s a cutie softboi, very understanding, likeable and adorable. Sa tingin ko nga na-fall nako sa kanya eh.

Pero you know what went wrong?

May communication issue lang talaga na di kami both makapag compromise. Delayed sya mag reply because of his review technique. Pero ako naman gusto ko sana usap kami ng at least 10 mins then bahala na sya mag review. Di ko kasi mafeel yung convo pag putol putol.

Not mentioning all details and to cut this story short, he called sa IG and ended this dating phase few days before his exam. Which I’m ready naman na. Kasi na-feel ko na rin na parang di na sya ganun kainterested kausap ako or pressured lang sya sa exam? I dunno. Sabi nya nga “it’s not you, it’s me.” Pero i dunno maybe I’m too demanding sa kanya.

Maybe there are persons who were really meant only to meet each other, but not end up together;
or if he returns, I’m ready to try it all over again.

PS: Rant lang ito. Gusto ko lang ishare at ipag sigawan na ready nako mag hard launch at mag out sana in public eh. Kaso di natuloy. 🥹