



October Wedding - Formal Attire
Do either of these work for a Saturday night wedding? It’s formal but not black tie. It’s in Lancaster PA. I purchased both dresses recently and spent more than I wanted to, but I absolutely can afford what I spent (and to be realistic, I think spending more than $40 on a single item of clothing is extravagant). I am also heavier than normal right now.
I don’t love either. I am concerned that the ruching on the first one may make me look pregnant in certain angles. The second one is super tight around the neck but I do like the attached fabric flaps in the back.
If I return them, then I need to either order something from Amazon or keep shopping and I dislike shopping.
Thanks in advance!