34[M4A] #Michigan #Online Nerdy, slightly shy, definitely kinky guy seeking connections!

Hello users of Reddit!!!

I find myself in need of some new people in my life, and figured I'd give it a shot here! Friends at the very base level, but ideally I'd love to find someone to build something amazing with. Hey, a guy can dream can't he?

Who am I? Well, on the surface, I seem like a normal, New England transplant in Michigan trying to make his way in the world. I won my own car and house, work full time, come home, take care of the kitty. I absolutely LOVE to cook, often times you'll find me tinkering with a new recipe. I love music and moves, bit of a gamer, and definitely a huge nerd. Want a surefire way to my heart? Pick a song out for me, and I'll gladly do the same. I'm also very witchy, have been pagan for a few years now, and would love to connect with someone on that page.

I am divorced from my ex wife of three years, and we have a daughter we share custody of. Currently, I am in a long distance relationship with my soon to be nesting partner.

Deep down however, I crave something more..deep..dark. Tagged NSFW for this reason. I'd love to meet someone in the kink lifestyle. I've been..into this scene for quite sometime, and would love to build upon that with someone. Petplay is a huge thing for me. I love that clingy, obsessive, needy aspect. I also tend to fall into a dd/LG, and caretaker side. I have a kink list a mile wide that I'm happy to discuss in messages, and am very open minded. There is nothing I won't try twice, and even then it's very hard to get me to say no. Again, we can discuss all this in our messages!

I am also open to joining another couple if it's romantic l, and not just sexual. I don't do casual hookups. I am also a switch, but it's very picky who I switch for. A lot of bad experiences.

Hopefully, someone out there feels like me. Don't be shy, reach out, say hi, and tell me your all time favorite movie. The one that no.matter what, you'll always sit and watch. I will not answer without it! Lets me know you read my post Read again!! Low effort messages, and messages without reading all the way through won't be answered!

P.S..tagged online, but I'm very open, and honestly hoping I find someone close. If this progresses into something, I'd like to be able to see the person.

P.PS. I hate that I have to include this, but if you're not feeling it, or something comes up, please communicate, don't just ghost. This also goes for when we swap pictures. Looks are the last thing I look for, but I understand that to some people, looks take first priority.

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u/Upbeat-Swordfish-456 — 9 hours ago

34[M4A] #Michigan #Online Nerdy, witchy and maybe slightly kinky guy seeking companion!

Hello users of Reddit!!!

​

I find myself in need of some new people in my life, and figured I'd give it a shot here! Friends at the very base level, but ideally I'd love to find someone to build something amazing with. Hey, a guy can dream can't he?

​

Who am I? Well, on the surface, I seem like a normal, New England transplant in Michigan trying to make his way in the world. I won my own car and house, work full time, come home, take care of the kitty. I absolutely LOVE to cook, often times you'll find me tinkering with a new recipe. I love music and moves, bit of a gamer, and definitely a huge nerd. Want a surefire way to my heart? Pick a song out for me, and I'll gladly do the same. I'm also very witchy, have been pagan for a few years now, and would love to connect with someone on that page.

​

I am divorced from my ex wife of three years, and we have a daughter we share custody of. Currently, I am in a long distance relationship with my soon to be nesting partner.

​

Deep down however, I crave something more..deep..dark. Tagged NSFW for this reason. I'd love to meet someone in the kink lifestyle. I've been..into this scene for quite sometime, and would love to build upon that with someone. Petplay is a huge thing for me. I love that clingy, obsessive, needy aspect. I also tend to fall into a dd/LG, and caretaker side. I have a kink list a mile wide that I'm happy to discuss in messages, and am very open minded. There is nothing I won't try twice, and even then it's very hard to get me to say no. Again, we can discuss all this in our messages!

I am also open to joining another couple if it's romantic l, and not just sexual. I don't do casual hookups. I am also a switch, but it's very picky who I switch for. A lot of bad experiences.

Hopefully, someone out there feels like me. Don't be shy, reach out, say hi, and tell me your all time favorite movie. The one that no.matter what, you'll always sit and watch. I will not answer without it! Lets me know you read my post Read again!! Low effort messages, and messages without reading all the way through won't be answered!

P.S..tagged online, but I'm very open, and honestly hoping I find someone close. If this progresses into something, I'd like to be able to see the person.

P.PS. I hate that I have to include this, but if you're not feeling it, or something comes up, please communicate, don't just ghost. This also goes for when we swap pictures. Looks are the last thing I look for, but I understand that to some people, looks take first priority. If theres no attraction, just be honest. We're all adults here.

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u/Upbeat-Swordfish-456 — 8 days ago

34[M4A] #Michigan # Online, Shy, nerdy, and kinda witchy guy seeking companionship!

Hello users of Reddit!!!

​

I find myself in need of some new people in my life, and figured I'd give it a shot here! Friends at the very base level, but ideally I'd love to find someone to build something amazing with. Hey, a guy can dream can't he?

​

Who am I? Well, on the surface, I seem like a normal, New England transplant in Michigan trying to make his way in the world. I won my own car and house, work full time, come home, take care of the kitty. I absolutely LOVE to cook, often times you'll find me tinkering with a new recipe. I love music and moves, bit of a gamer, and definitely a huge nerd. Want a surefire way to my heart? Pick a song out for me, and I'll gladly do the same. I'm also very witchy, have been pagan for a few years now, and would love to connect with someone on that page.

​

I am divorced from my ex wife of three years, and we have a daughter we share custody of. Currently, I am in a long distance relationship with my soon to be nesting partner.

​

Deep down however, I crave something more..deep..dark. Tagged NSFW for this reason. I'd love to meet someone in the kink lifestyle. I've been..into this scene for quite sometime, and would love to build upon that with someone. Petplay is a huge thing for me. I love that clingy, obsessive, needy aspect. I also tend to fall into a dd/LG, and caretaker side. I have a kink list a mile wide that I'm happy to discuss in messages, and am very open minded. There is nothing I won't try twice, and even then it's very hard to get me to say no. Again, we can discuss all this in private..hopefully.

​

I am also open to joining another couple if it's romantic l, and not just sexual. I don't do casual hookups. I am also a switch, but it's very picky who I switch for. A lot of bad experiences.

​

Hopefully, someone out there feels like me. Don't be shy, reach out, say hi, and tell me your all time favorite movie. The one that no.matter what, you'll always sit and watch. I will not answer without it! Lets me know you read my post Read again!! Low effort messages, and messages without reading all the way through won't be answered!

​

P.S..tagged online, but I'm very open, and honestly hoping I find someone close. If this progresses into something, I'd like to be able to see the person.

​

P.PS. I hate that I have to include this, but if you're not feeling it, or something comes up, please communicate, don't just ghost. This also goes for when we swap pictures. Looks are the last thing I look for, but I understand that to some people, looks take first priority. If theres no attraction, just be honest. We're all adults here.

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u/Upbeat-Swordfish-456 — 16 days ago

34[M4A] #Michigan #Online Shy, nerdy, witchy guy with a dark side seeking companionship

Hello users of Reddit!!!

​

I find myself in need of some new people in my life, and figured I'd give it a shot here! Friends at the very base level, but ideally I'd love to find someone to build something amazing with. Hey, a guy can dream can't he?

​

Who am I? Well, on the surface, I seem like a normal, New England transplant in Michigan trying to make his way in the world. I won my own car and house, work full time, come home, take care of the kitty. I absolutely LOVE to cook, often times you'll find me tinkering with a new recipe. I love music and moves, bit of a gamer, and definitely a huge nerd. Want a surefire way to my heart? Pick a song out for me, and I'll gladly do the same. I'm also very witchy, have been pagan for a few years now, and would love to connect with someone on that page.

​

Deep down however, I crave something more..deep..dark. Tagged NSFW for this reason. I'd love to meet someone in the kink lifestyle. I've been..into this scene for quite sometime, and would love to build upon that with someone. Petplay is a huge thing for me. I love that clingy, obsessive, needy aspect. I also tend to fall into a dd/LG, and caretaker side. I have a kink list a mile wide that I'm happy to discuss in messages, and am very open minded. There is nothing I won't try twice, and even then it's very hard to get me to say no. Again, we can discuss all this in private..hopefully.

​

I am also open to joining another couple if it's romantic, and not just sexual. I don't do casual hookups. I am also a switch, but it's very picky who I switch for. A lot of bad experiences. I do have one long distance partner, that will soon be my nesting partner.

​

Hopefully, someone out there feels like me. Don't be shy, reach out, say hi, and tell me your all time favorite movie. The one that no.matter what, you'll always sit and watch. I will not answer without it! Lets me know you read my post Read again!! Low effort messages, and messages without reading all the way through won't be answered!

​

P.S..tagged online, but I'm very open, and honestly hoping I find someone close. If this progresses into something, I'd like to be able to see the person.

​

P.PS. I hate that I have to include this, but if you're not feeling it, or something comes up, please communicate, don't just ghost

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u/Upbeat-Swordfish-456 — 23 days ago
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34[M4A] #Michigan Shy, needy, witchy and kinky guy seeking companion

Hello users of Reddit!!!

I find myself in need of some new people in my life, and figured I'd give it a shot here! Friends at the very base level, but ideally I'd love to find someone to build something amazing with. Hey, a guy can dream can't he?

Who am I? Well, on the surface, I seem like a normal, New England transplant in Michigan trying to make his way in the world. I won my own car and house, work full time, come home, take care of the kitty. I absolutely LOVE to cook, often times you'll find me tinkering with a new recipe. I love music and moves, bit of a gamer, and definitely a huge nerd. Want a surefire way to my heart? Pick a song out for me, and I'll gladly do the same. I'm also very witchy, have been pagan for a few years now, and would love to connect with someone on that page.

Deep down however, I crave something more..deep..dark. Tagged NSFW for this reason. I'd love to meet someone in the kink lifestyle. I've been..into this scene for quite sometime, and would love to build upon that with someone. Petplay is a huge thing for me. I love that clingy, obsessive, needy aspect. I also tend to fall into a dd/LG, and caretaker side. I have a kink list a mile wide that I'm happy to discuss in messages, and am very open minded. There is nothing I won't try twice, and even then it's very hard to get me to say no. Again, we can discuss all this in private..hopefully.

I am also open to joining another couple if it's romantic l, and not just sexual. I don't do casual hookups. I am also a switch, but it's very picky who I switch for. A lot of bad experiences.

Hopefully, someone out there feels like me. Don't be shy, reach out, say hi, and tell me your all time favorite movie. The one that no.matter what, you'll always sit and watch. I will not answer without it! Lets me know you read my post Read again!! Low effort messages, and messages without reading all the way through won't be answered!

P.S..tagged online, but I'm very open, and honestly hoping I find someone close. If this progresses into something, I'd like to be able to see the person.

P.PS. I hate that I have to include this, but if you're not feeling it, or something comes up, please communicate, don't just ghost. This also goes for when we swap pictures. Looks are the last thing I look for, but I understand that to some people, looks take first priority. If theres no attraction, just be honest. We're all adults here.

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u/Upbeat-Swordfish-456 — 27 days ago

To the ones who stood by me...and who I'll never hurt again.

Hey everyone,

Ive added you to this group chat, because I have some things I need to say, and my goodbyes to make. You have all stood by my side, even when things got rough. You took a lot of my problems, and carried them like your own. I knew when I got my BPD diagnosis, my life was going to get harder, but it made a lot of sense. My anger, my heavy emotional breakdowns, all a cause of splitting. They say this is one of the most painful mental health disorders to live with..and I agree. But through all of that, you all stood by me and offered me more support than I could ever ask for.

That being said, I can't live with this pain anymore. You are the only three friends left, after everyone else left. I can't keep a relationship cause I'm still learning how to handle my traumas and triggers. It's affecting my personal life, my work life, and everyday I wait for a sign that it's my time. I'm sorry, for all the hurt and pain I caused when you didn't need to carry that burden. Dont worry about me, I've come to terms with the fact I'll never be normal, I'll never be myself again. This is what's best, for everyone involved. Remember the good memories of me, and just remember that, no matter what, you are not alone. I'll always be here.

Much love,

T

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u/Upbeat-Swordfish-456 — 30 days ago
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34[M4A] #Michigan #Online Shy, nerdy, kinky and witchy guy seeking companion!

Hello users of Reddit!!!

I find myself in need of some new people in my life, and figured I'd give it a shot here! Friends at the very base level, but ideally I'd love to find someone to build something amazing with. Hey, a guy can dream can't he?

Who am I? Well, on the surface, I seem like a normal, New England transplant in Michigan trying to make his way in the world. I won my own car and house, work full time, come home, take care of the kitty. I absolutely LOVE to cook, often times you'll find me tinkering with a new recipe. I love music and moves, bit of a gamer, and definitely a huge nerd. Want a surefire way to my heart? Pick a song out for me, and I'll gladly do the same. I'm also very witchy, have been pagan for a few years now, and would love to connect with someone on that page.

Deep down however, I crave something more..deep..dark. Tagged NSFW for this reason. I'd love to meet someone in the kink lifestyle. I've been..into this scene for quite sometime, and would love to build upon that with someone. Petplay is a huge thing for me. I love that clingy, obsessive, needy aspect. I also tend to fall into a dd/LG, and caretaker side. I have a kink list a mile wide that I'm happy to discuss in messages, and am very open minded. There is nothing I won't try twice, and even then it's very hard to get me to say no. Again, we can discuss all this in private..hopefully.

I am also open to joining another couple if it's romantic l, and not just sexual. I don't do casual hookups. I am also a switch, but it's very picky who I switch for. A lot of bad experiences.

Hopefully, someone out there feels like me. Don't be shy, reach out, say hi, and tell me your all time favorite movie. The one that no.matter what, you'll always sit and watch. I will not answer without it! Lets me know you read my post Read again!! Low effort messages, and messages without reading all the way through won't be answered!

P.S..tagged online, but I'm very open, and honestly hoping I find someone close. If this progresses into something, I'd like to be able to see the person.

P.PS. I hate that I have to include this, but if you're not feeling it, or something comes up, please communicate, don't just ghost. This also goes for when we swap pictures. Looks are the last thing I look for, but I understand that to some people, looks take first priority. If theres no attraction, just be honest. We're all adults here.

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u/Upbeat-Swordfish-456 — 30 days ago
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34[M4A] #Michigan #Online Shy, nerdy, slightly witchy kinky guy seeking companion

Hello users of Reddit!!!

I find myself in need of some new people in my life, and figured I'd give it a shot here! Friends at the very base level, but ideally I'd love to find someone to build something amazing with. Hey, a guy can dream can't he?

Who am I? Well, on the surface, I seem like a normal, New England transplant in Michigan trying to make his way in the world. I won my own car and house, work full time, come home, take care of the kitty. I absolutely LOVE to cook, often times you'll find me tinkering with a new recipe. I love music and moves, bit of a gamer, and definitely a huge nerd. Want a surefire way to my heart? Pick a song out for me, and I'll gladly do the same. I'm also very witchy, have been pagan for a few years now, and would love to connect with someone on that page.

Deep down however, I crave something more..deep..dark. Tagged NSFW for this reason. I'd love to meet someone in the kink lifestyle. I've been..into this scene for quite sometime, and would love to build upon that with someone. Petplay is a huge thing for me. I love that clingy, obsessive, needy aspect. I also tend to fall into a dd/LG, and caretaker side. I have a kink list a mile wide that I'm happy to discuss in messages, and am very open minded. There is nothing I won't try twice, and even then it's very hard to get me to say no. Again, we can discuss all this in private..hopefully.

I am also open to joining another couple if it's romantic l, and not just sexual. I don't do casual hookups. I am also a switch, but it's very picky who I switch for. A lot of bad experiences.

Hopefully, someone out there feels like me. Don't be shy, reach out, say hi, and tell me your all time favorite movie. The one that no.matter what, you'll always sit and watch. I will not answer without it! Lets me know you read my post Read again!! Low effort messages, and messages without reading all the way through won't be answered!

P.S..tagged online, but I'm very open, and honestly hoping I find someone close. If this progresses into something, I'd like to be able to see the person.

P.PS. I hate that I have to include this, but if you're not feeling it, or something comes up, please communicate, don't just ghost. This also goes for when we swap pictures. Looks are the last thing I look for, but I understand that to some people, looks take first priority. If theres no attraction, just be honest. We're all adults here.

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u/Upbeat-Swordfish-456 — 1 month ago

34[M4A] #Michigan #Online Shy, nerdy, witchy guy with hidden secrets seeking companion

Hello users of Reddit!!!

I find myself in need of some new people in my life, and figured I'd give it a shot here! Friends at the very base level, but ideally I'd love to find someone to build something amazing with. Hey, a guy can dream can't he?

Who am I? Well, on the surface, I seem like a normal, New England transplant in Michigan trying to make his way in the world. I won my own car and house, work full time, come home, take care of the kitty. I absolutely LOVE to cook, often times you'll find me tinkering with a new recipe. I love music and moves, bit of a gamer, and definitely a huge nerd. Want a surefire way to my heart? Pick a song out for me, and I'll gladly do the same. I'm also very witchy, have been pagan for a few years now, and would love to connect with someone on that page.

Deep down however, I crave something more..deep..dark. Tagged NSFW for this reason. I'd love to meet someone in the kink lifestyle. I've been..into this scene for quite sometime, and would love to build upon that with someone. Petplay is a huge thing for me. I love that clingy, obsessive, needy aspect. I also tend to fall into a dd/LG, and caretaker side. I have a kink list a mile wide that I'm happy to discuss in messages, and am very open minded. There is nothing I won't try twice, and even then it's very hard to get me to say no. Again, we can discuss all this in private..hopefully.

I am also open to joining another couple if it's romantic, and not just sexual. I don't do casual hookups. I am also a switch, but it's very picky who I switch for. A lot of bad experiences. I do have one long distance partner, that will soon be my nesting partner.

Hopefully, someone out there feels like me. Don't be shy, reach out, say hi, and tell me your all time favorite movie. The one that no.matter what, you'll always sit and watch. I will not answer without it! Lets me know you read my post Read again!! Low effort messages, and messages without reading all the way through won't be answered!

P.S..tagged online, but I'm very open, and honestly hoping I find someone close. If this progresses into something, I'd like to be able to see the person.

P.PS. I hate that I have to include this, but if you're not feeling it, or something comes up, please communicate, don't just ghost

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u/Upbeat-Swordfish-456 — 1 month ago
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34[M4A] #Michigan #Online Shy, nerdy, kinda witchy and definitely kinky guy seeking companion

Hello users of Reddit!!!

I find myself in need of some new people in my life, and figured I'd give it a shot here! Friends at the very base level, but ideally I'd love to find someone to build something amazing with. Hey, a guy can dream can't he?

Who am I? Well, on the surface, I seem like a normal, New England transplant in Michigan trying to make his way in the world. I won my own car and house, work full time, come home, take care of the kitty. I absolutely LOVE to cook, often times you'll find me tinkering with a new recipe. I love music and moves, bit of a gamer, and definitely a huge nerd. Want a surefire way to my heart? Pick a song out for me, and I'll gladly do the same. I'm also very witchy, have been pagan for a few years now, and would love to connect with someone on that page.

Deep down however, I crave something more..deep..dark. Tagged NSFW for this reason. I'd love to meet someone in the kink lifestyle. I've been..into this scene for quite sometime, and would love to build upon that with someone. Petplay is a huge thing for me. I love that clingy, obsessive, needy aspect. I also tend to fall into a dd/LG, and caretaker side. I have a kink list a mile wide that I'm happy to discuss in messages, and am very open minded. There is nothing I won't try twice, and even then it's very hard to get me to say no. Again, we can discuss all this in private..hopefully.

I am also open to joining another couple if it's romantic l, and not just sexual. I don't do casual hookups. I am also a switch, but it's very picky who I switch for. A lot of bad experiences.

Hopefully, someone out there feels like me. Don't be shy, reach out, say hi, and tell me your all time favorite movie. The one that no.matter what, you'll always sit and watch. I will not answer without it! Lets me know you read my post Read again!! Low effort messages, and messages without reading all the way through won't be answered!

P.S..tagged online, but I'm very open, and honestly hoping I find someone close. If this progresses into something, I'd like to be able to see the person.

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u/Upbeat-Swordfish-456 — 1 month ago
▲ 1 r/r4r

34[M4A] #Michigan #Online Shy, nerdy, witchy, kinky guy seeking companion

Hello users of Reddit!!!

I find myself in need of some new people in my life, and figured I'd give it a shot here! Friends at the very base level, but ideally I'd love to find someone to build something amazing with. Hey, a guy can dream can't he?

Who am I? Well, on the surface, I seem like a normal, New England transplant in Michigan trying to make his way in the world. I won my own car and house, work full time, come home, take care of the kitty. I absolutely LOVE to cook, often times you'll find me tinkering with a new recipe. I love music and moves, bit of a gamer, and definitely a huge nerd. Want a surefire way to my heart? Pick a song out for me, and I'll gladly do the same. I'm also very witchy, have been pagan for a few years now, and would love to connect with someone on that page.

Deep down however, I crave something more..deep..dark. Tagged NSFW for this reason. I'd love to meet someone in the kink lifestyle. I've been..into this scene for quite sometime, and would love to build upon that with someone. Petplay is a huge thing for me. I love that clingy, obsessive, needy aspect. I also tend to fall into a dd/LG, and caretaker side. I have a kink list a mile wide that I'm happy to discuss in messages, and am very open minded. There is nothing I won't try twice, and even then it's very hard to get me to say no. Again, we can discuss all this in private..hopefully.

Hopefully, someone out there feels like me. Don't be shy, reach out, say hi, and tell me your all time favorite movie. The one that no.matter what, you'll always sit and watch. I will not answer without it! Lets me know you read my post

P.S..tagged online, but I'm very open, and honestly hoping I find someone close. If this progresses into something, I'd like to be able to see the person.

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u/Upbeat-Swordfish-456 — 1 month ago
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34[M4A] #Michigan #Online Shy, nerdy, witchy, kinky guy seeking companion

Hello users of Reddit!!!

I find myself in need of some new people in my life, and figured I'd give it a shot here! Friends at the very base level, but ideally I'd love to find someone to build something amazing with. Hey, a guy can dream can't he?

Who am I? Well, on the surface, I seem like a normal, New England transplant in Michigan trying to make his way in the world. I won my own car and house, work full time, come home, take care of the kitty. I absolutely LOVE to cook, often times you'll find me tinkering with a new recipe. I love music and moves, bit of a gamer, and definitely a huge nerd. Want a surefire way to my heart? Pick a song out for me, and I'll gladly do the same. I'm also very witchy, have been pagan for a few years now, and would love to connect with someone on that page.

Deep down however, I crave something more..deep..dark. Tagged NSFW for this reason. I'd love to meet someone in the kink lifestyle. I've been..into this scene for quite sometime, and would love to build upon that with someone. Petplay is a huge thing for me. I love that clingy, obsessive, needy aspect. I also tend to fall into a dd/LG, and caretaker side. I have a kink list a mile wide that I'm happy to discuss in messages, and am very open minded. There is nothing I won't try twice, and even then it's very hard to get me to say no. Again, we can discuss all this in private..hopefully.

Hopefully, someone out there feels like me. Don't be shy, reach out, say hi, and tell me your all time favorite movie. The one that no.matter what, you'll always sit and watch. I will not answer without it! Lets me know you read my post

P.S..tagged online, but I'm very open, and honestly hoping I find someone close. If this progresses into something, I'd like to be able to see the person.

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u/Upbeat-Swordfish-456 — 1 month ago

I'm sorry, but I need to prioritize me

Hey there My Love,

I'm not going to sit here and pretend I didnt bring my own issues to the table. In fact. We've had many conversations about it, and I know I have a lot to work on. I never said I didnt, and I know you know that.

However, when we sat and laid out what we both felt was missing from the relationship, my answer has, and always has been time. I dont feel we spend enough quality time together. I know distance makes it..harder. But when I feel like I'm constantly being expected compromise, and be okay with certain things, thats not okay or healthy, for both of us.

At this point, you don't feel like a home. So, for once in my life, I need to prioritize my feelings instead of giving in. I'm sorry. I love you. But I think you like the idea of me, and not as an actual partner.

From soul bond, to being ripped apart. I love you. Goodbye L.

T

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u/Upbeat-Swordfish-456 — 1 month ago
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34[M4A] #Michigan #Online Shy, nerdy, witchy guy seeking companion

Hello users of Reddit!!!

I find myself in need of some new people in my life, and figured I'd give it a shot here! Friends at the very base level, but ideally I'd love to find someone to build something amazing with. Hey, a guy can dream can't he?

Who am I? Well, on the surface, I seem like a normal, New England transplant in Michigan trying to make his way in the world. I won my own car and house, work full time, come home, take care of the kitty. I absolutely LOVE to cook, often times you'll find me tinkering with a new recipe. I love music and moves, bit of a gamer, and definitely a huge nerd. Want a surefire way to my heart? Pick a song out for me, and I'll gladly do the same. I'm also very witchy, have been pagan for a few years now, and would love to connect with someone on that page.

Deep down however, I crave something more..deep..dark. Tagged NSFW for this reason. I'd love to meet someone in the kink lifestyle. I've been..into this scene for quite sometime, and would love to build upon that with someone. Petplay is a huge thing for me. I love that clingy, obsessive, needy aspect. I also tend to fall into a dd/LG, and caretaker side. I have a kink list a mile wide that I'm happy to discuss in messages, and am very open minded. There is nothing I won't try twice, and even then it's very hard to get me to say no. Again, we can discuss all this in private..hopefully.

Hopefully, someone out there feels like me. Don't be shy, reach out, say hi, and tell me your all time favorite movie. The one that no.matter what, you'll always sit and watch.

P.S..tagged online, but I'm very open, and honestly hoping I find someone close. If this progresses into something, I'd like to be able to see the person.

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u/Upbeat-Swordfish-456 — 2 months ago
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34[M4A] #Michigan #Online Shy nerdy, witchy guy seeking companion

Hello users of Reddit!!!

I find myself in need of some new people in my life, and figured I'd give it a shot here! Friends at the very base level, but ideally I'd love to find someone to build something amazing with. Hey, a guy can dream can't he?

Who am I? Well, on the surface, I seem like a normal, New England transplant in Michigan trying to make his way in the world. I won my own car and house, work full time, come home, take care of the kitty. I absolutely LOVE to cook, often times you'll find me tinkering with a new recipe. I love music and moves, bit of a gamer, and definitely a huge nerd. Want a surefire way to my heart? Pick a song out for me, and I'll gladly do the same. I'm also very witchy, have been pagan for a few years now, and would love to connect with someone on that page.

Deep down however, I crave something more..deep..dark. Tagged NSFW for this reason. I'd love to meet someone in the kink lifestyle. I've been..into this scene for quite sometime, and would love to build upon that with someone. Petplay is a huge thing for me. I love that clingy, obsessive, needy aspect. I also tend to fall into a dd/LG, and caretaker side. I have a kink list a mile wide that I'm happy to discuss in messages, and am very open minded. There is nothing I won't try twice, and even then it's very hard to get me to say no. Again, we can discuss all this in private..hopefully.

Hopefully, someone out there feels like me. Don't be shy, reach out, say hi, and tell me your all time favorite movie. The one that no.matter what, you'll always sit and watch.

P.S..tagged online, but I'm very open, and honestly hoping I find someone close. If this progresses into something, I'd like to be able to see the person.

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u/Upbeat-Swordfish-456 — 2 months ago
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34[M4A] #Online Shy, nerdy, witchy guy seeking something real

Hello users of Reddit!!!

I find myself in need of some new people in my life, and figured I'd give it a shot here! Friends at the very base level, but ideally I'd love to find someone to build something amazing with. Hey, a guy can dream can't he?

Who am I? Well, on the surface, I seem like a normal, New England transplant in Michigan trying to make his way in the world. I won my own car and house, work full time, come home, take care of the kitty. I absolutely LOVE to cook, often times you'll find me tinkering with a new recipe. I love music and moves, bit of a gamer, and definitely a huge nerd. Want a surefire way to my heart? Pick a song out for me, and I'll gladly do the same. I'm also very witchy, have been pagan for a few years now, and would love to connect with someone on that page.

Deep down however, I crave something more..deep..dark. Tagged NSFW for this reason. I'd love to meet someone in the kink lifestyle. I've been..into this scene for quite sometime, and would love to build upon that with someone. Petplay is a huge thing for me. I love that clingy, obsessive, needy aspect. I also tend to fall into a dd/LG, and caretaker side. I have a kink list a mile wide that I'm happy to discuss in messages, and am very open minded. There is nothing I won't try twice, and even then it's very hard to get me to say no. Again, we can discuss all this in private..hopefully.

Hopefully, someone out there feels like me. Don't be shy, reach out, say hi, and tell me your all time favorite movie. The one that no.matter what, you'll always sit and watch.

P.S..tagged online, but I'm very open, and honestly hoping I find someone close. If this progresses into something, I'd like to be able to see the person.

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u/Upbeat-Swordfish-456 — 2 months ago
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34[M4A] #Online Come flirt, have fun, and build something real

Hello users of Reddit!!!

I find myself in need of some new people in my life, and figured I'd give it a shot here! Friends at the very base level, but ideally I'd love to find someone to build something amazing with. Hey, a guy can dream can't he?

Who am I? Well, on the surface, I seem like a normal, New England transplant in Michigan trying to make his way in the world. I won my own car and house, work full time, come home, take care of the kitty. I absolutely LOVE to cook, often times you'll find me tinkering with a new recipe. I love music and moves, bit of a gamer, and definitely a huge nerd. Want a surefire way to my heart? Pick a song out for me, and I'll gladly do the same. I'm also very witchy, have been pagan for a few years now, and would love to connect with someone on that page.

Deep down however, I crave something more..deep..dark. Tagged NSFW for this reason. I'd love to meet someone in the kink lifestyle. I've been..into this scene for quite sometime, and would love to build upon that with someone. Petplay is a huge thing for me. I love that clingy, obsessive, needy aspect. I also tend to fall into a dd/LG, and caretaker side. I have a kink list a mile wide that I'm happy to discuss in messages, and am very open minded. There is nothing I won't try twice, and even then it's very hard to get me to say no. Again, we can discuss all this in private..hopefully.

Hopefully, someone out there feels like me. Don't be shy, reach out, say hi, and tell me your all time favorite movie. The one that no.matter what, you'll always sit and watch.

P.S..tagged online, but I'm very open, and honestly hoping I find someone close. If this progresses into something, I'd like to be able to see the person.

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u/Upbeat-Swordfish-456 — 2 months ago

I'm sorry, but I can't plan anymore.

Hey you,

We need to have a talk. Or rather, another talk. Because this isn't the first time I've brought this up, but this will be the last. Not because I don't want to fight for us, but because I'm tired of being the only one fighting for us.

When we entered into this, we told each other we wouldn't let distance become an issue. For awhile, it wasn't. But, something changed. Phone calls help, sure, but I've suggested video chats while we smoke and fool around. I've mentioned watching stuff together on a video call so we can chat and gush about our favorite movies. Hell, even tonight I mentioned watching wrestling cause you told me that was something you loved to do.

But once again, my time, my effort, and my attention isn't being acknowledged or listened to. A simple "Hey, I've had a lot of stuff come up, can we shift our call to a bit later" goes a longer way than leaving me hanging in anticipation.

I can't plan anymore. Not cause I don't want to, but I'm tired of waiting and waiting and getting disappointed over and over again. If I even told you this, would you listen? Or would you find a way to spin it around on me.

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u/Upbeat-Swordfish-456 — 2 months ago
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34[M4A] #Online Come flirt, have fun, and build something real

Hello users of Reddit!!!

I find myself in need of some new people in my life, and figured I'd give it a shot here! Friends at the very base level, but ideally I'd love to find someone to build something amazing with. Hey, a guy can dream can't he?

Who am I? Well, on the surface, I seem like a normal, New England transplant in Michigan trying to make his way in the world. I won my own car and house, work full time, come home, take care of the kitty. I absolutely LOVE to cook, often times you'll find me tinkering with a new recipe. I love music and moves, bit of a gamer, and definitely a huge nerd. Want a surefire way to my heart? Pick a song out for me, and I'll gladly do the same. I'm also very witchy, have been pagan for a few years now, and would love to connect with someone on that page.

Deep down however, I crave something more..deep..dark. Tagged NSFW for this reason. I'd love to meet someone in the kink lifestyle. I've been..into this scene for quite sometime, and would love to build upon that with someone. Petplay is a huge thing for me. I love that clingy, obsessive, needy aspect. I also tend to fall into a dd/LG, and caretaker side. I have a kink list a mile wide that I'm happy to discuss in messages, and am very open minded. There is nothing I won't try twice, and even then it's very hard to get me to say no. Again, we can discuss all this in private..hopefully.

Hopefully, someone out there feels like me. Don't be shy, reach out, say hi, and tell me your all time favorite movie. The one that no.matter what, you'll always sit and watch.

P.S..tagged online, but I'm very open, and honestly hoping I find someone close. If this progresses into something, I'd like to be able to see the person.

reddit.com
u/Upbeat-Swordfish-456 — 2 months ago
▲ 1 r/r4r

Hello users of Reddit!!!

I find myself in need of some new people in my life, and figured I'd give it a shot here! Friends at the very base level, but ideally I'd love to find someone to build something amazing with. Hey, a guy can dream can't he?

Who am I? Well, on the surface, I seem like a normal, New England transplant in Michigan trying to make his way in the world. I won my own car and house, work full time, come home, take care of the kitty. I absolutely LOVE to cook, often times you'll find me tinkering with a new recipe. I love music and moves, bit of a gamer, and definitely a huge nerd. Want a surefire way to my heart? Pick a song out for me, and I'll gladly do the same. I'm also very witchy, have been pagan for a few years now, and would love to connect with someone on that page.

Deep down however, I crave something more..deep..dark. Tagged NSFW for this reason. I'd love to meet someone in the kink lifestyle. I've been..into this scene for quite sometime, and would love to build upon that with someone. Petplay is a huge thing for me. I love that clingy, obsessive, needy aspect. I also tend to fall into a dd/LG, and caretaker side. I have a kink list a mile wide that I'm happy to discuss in messages, and am very open minded. There is nothing I won't try twice, and even then it's very hard to get me to say no. Again, we can discuss all this in private..hopefully.

Hopefully, someone out there feels like me. Don't be shy, reach out, say hi, and tell me your all time favorite movie. The one that no.matter what, you'll always sit and watch.

P.S..tagged online, but I'm very open, and honestly hoping I find someone close. If this progresses into something, I'd like to be able to see the person.

reddit.com
u/Upbeat-Swordfish-456 — 2 months ago