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Context: guy here, meet up with fellow Reddit users... 3 kami, 1 guy and 1 girl yung ka meet ko... So the other day, nag meet kami tatlo, by midnight gusto na umuwi ng kasama namin but since girl insists na gusto na kausapin ako... So yun, uminom ng kunti, yung sakin coffee lang kasi mag motor pa ako pa uwi... But she got a bit clingy after a few drinks. Gusto holding hands at ano pa. Then after an hour or two uwi na kami, booked a grab for her and she kissed me bago pumasok sa car. Na-shock ang katawang lupa ko.

Problem is, magkasama kami ngayon, hinihintay pa namin ang yung isa namin kasama. Awkward, yes...

Should I confront her or hayaan na lang dahil baka dala lang yun ng nainom at hindi na nya nareremember? Hindi din nya na open up kasi...

Not looking din for relationship kaming dalawa...

Will delete this post din after. Nka block muna sya. Hahaha..

Need talaga mag VC or send ng pics? Hindi ba sapat na mag describe lang ng sarili?.. Not comfortable sa VC... Hindi din for romantic purpose yung meet up...

Yes, ano ba meaning if tinawag kang poser?

A 5-year relationship isn't really easy to drop. I held on to it for years, making constant adjustments, compromises, and whatnot. Kahit sya na mali, ok lang. Ayaw ko talaga ng away. She was my only person in my life... But it was toxic, from being an emotional punching bag to a literal punching bag; hindi ko rin alam if deserve ko ba mga yun... I never cheated, halos wala na din akong friends kasi ayaw ko na awayin ako nya.. Kasi lagi syang may issue sa friends ko...

Recently, she has gone cold, resulting in more than a week of almost no communication. Tried everything to fix it.., msgs, calls and even puntahan sa place nya, pero ayaw nya ako kausapin. All because hindi ako pumayag sumama sa kasal ng friend nya kasi wala akong kaibigan doon...

Yesterday, I texted her to ask if she was okay because I still care, but all I received was a 'K' reply...

By evening, I finally snapped. I messaged her that I was done and that she was free... Lo and behold, she replied with a very long messages.. Na parang mga enchantment scrolls... Many missed call na hindi ko sinagot. Ayaw ko na talaga...

And today, I woke up early, walked my dogs, and enjoyed breakfast somewhere. I talked to random people. It was nice...

Mas gustohin ko na lang talaga maging patatas sa ref...

Context: engaged for almost a year, planning na magpakasal by September...

So, months ago, iniwan ni partner yung engagement ring nya sa bahay kasi daw baka mawla sa outing nila since mag swimming daw sila. Valid naman... but, already months na naka lipas, hindi na nya sinusuot... I reminded her cguro 3 times na in a subtle way like "baka mawla yang ring mo ha?", since sa cabinet lang nka patong, always sagot nya, "safe yan dyan"...

Maybe, ayaw nya sa ring?

Lagi din sila magka chat ng ka workmates nya. Nag aasaran. Baka isa din yun sa rason? Hindi kasi ako yung type ng tao na nagbabasa ng chats o kaya manghimasok kung ano ba ginagawa or pinaguusapan nila... strangely enough, hindi din ako nag seselos...