How do you deal with the overwhelming process of searching?

My parents are searching for a rishta for me, and I've also considered joining Muzz. But the idea of going through so many profiles feels really overwhelming.

Sometimes I feel like giving up before I've even properly started.

I've never dated, so this whole process feels unfamiliar, and I don't really know how people navigate it without becoming emotionally exhausted at this point.

I'd really appreciate hearing your experiences or any advice that made the process easier for you.

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u/VanillaMascara — 3 days ago

How do you deal with the overwhelming process of finding a spouse?

My parents are searching for a rishta for me, and I've also considered joining Muzz. But the idea of going through so many profiles feels really overwhelming.

Sometimes I feel like giving up before I've even properly started.

I've never dated, so this whole process feels unfamiliar, and I don't really know how people navigate it without becoming emotionally exhausted at this point.

I'd really appreciate hearing your experiences or any advice that made the process easier for you.

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u/VanillaMascara — 4 days ago

How do you approach someone on Reddit with the anonymity?

Hey guys. I hope you're all doing well.

So I've been seeing a lot of profiles being posted on the Rishta and Marriage subrreddits. And one thing I've been thinking is to post my own profile here as well.

But with all the anonymity around here I am not sure how do you guys vet people and their profiles?

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u/VanillaMascara — 6 days ago

How well do you think social media apps work for finding a potential spouse?

Have any of you actually had success finding a spouse through apps like Muzz or even social media? Like the Facebook Rishton groups?

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I'm considering giving them a try, but I honestly can't tell if people are genuinely looking for marriage or just wasting time.

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I hear mixed things all the time.

If you've used Muzz (or similar apps), what was your experience like? Did you meet someone serious? Any red flags or advice you'd give?

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Just curious and also terrified, I really want to meet a decent guy. Matchmakers and my parents keep showing me profiles but they don't align.

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u/VanillaMascara — 16 days ago

The search has been overwhelming to say the least.

Hey guys, so I had something which I felt most of us are going through.

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Whether it's through family or friends or rishta aunties, I've felt finding the right match has been overwhelming.

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Made an account on Muzz with a proper bio and information, I got like 500-600 likes in the first few hours.

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I don't think guys or even girls bother to read the profile. And some of them can't even hold a proper conversation.

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Alhamdulillah for my parents,work, and my friends. They have been really supportive and I feel like it's a blessing itself.

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May Allah grant us all with amazing spouses, and make it easier for everyone.

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Hold on to your hopes and Tawakkul.

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u/VanillaMascara — 17 days ago