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Banned from Muslim lounge

Just got banned from Muslim lounge because I said that a fully grown adult should not be marrying a 17 year old girl. Like how can people justify it. And to get banned for calling them out shows the mentality of the moderators on that group. Has to be some sickos who encourage it.

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u/Various-Turn2491 — 1 day ago

Recommendations

I've finished watching Brooklyn nine nine and really enjoyed it. Not sure what to watch any recommendations please.

Ive also watched the following and enjoyed them: •Rookie • s.w.a.t •law and order svu

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u/Various-Turn2491 — 1 day ago
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Water pumps

I'm wanting to donate a water pump and would like to add a plaque on it with a name. What are the most reliable charities that do this.

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u/Various-Turn2491 — 6 days ago

Under eyes darkness and fine lines

So I'm starting to notice quite a few fine lines under my eyes and they look alot darker. What can I use to reduce the lines and brighten the area.

I've tried retinol by roc. But think it's what's made it worse. And I'm 29F. Any recommendations please

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u/Various-Turn2491 — 1 month ago
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Remember me in your duas, especially with the day of arafat approac

As-salamu alaykum

I just wanted to share something I’ve been going through and ask if anyone could please keep me in their duas, especially for Arafah.

I’ve started liking someone recently, and honestly I’ve never liked anyone the way I like him. What feels different is that he seems good in his Deen too, and that’s something I don’t usually find, so I think that’s part of why I feel this connection. Alhamdulillah I’ve kept things halal and haven’t crossed any boundaries.

He’s younger than me, which sometimes makes me doubt whether he would ever take things forward. I’d genuinely be really happy if he proposed, but at the same time I’m trying to trust whatever Allah has written for me.

If he is good for my dunya and akhirah, please make dua that Allah places love, clarity, and courage in his heart and makes it easy for him to come forward in a halal way. And if he’s not meant for me, then Allah removes this attachment gently and replaces it with someone better ،someone who will be the coolness of my eyes and a righteous spouse.

I’m also making dua for a righteous marriage this year, insha’Allah. I’m in my late twenties and sometimes I do feel anxious about delays, but I’m trying to stay patient and trust Allah’s timing.

If you’re reading this, even as a stranger, I’d really appreciate your duas. I’ve heard that a stranger’s dua is accepted, so it means a lot 🤍

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u/Various-Turn2491 — 1 month ago
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Compatability in Deen and duas needed

As-salamu alaykum

I just wanted to share something I’ve been going through and ask if anyone could please keep me in their duas, especially for Arafah.

I’ve started liking someone recently, and honestly I’ve never liked anyone the way I like him. What feels different is that he seems good in his Deen too, and that’s something I don’t usually find, so I think that’s part of why I feel this connection. Alhamdulillah I’ve kept things halal and haven’t crossed any boundaries.

He’s younger than me, which sometimes makes me doubt whether he would ever take things forward. I’d genuinely be really happy if he proposed, but at the same time I’m trying to trust whatever Allah has written for me.

If he is good for my dunya and akhirah, please make dua that Allah places love, clarity, and courage in his heart and makes it easy for him to come forward in a halal way. And if he’s not meant for me, then Allah removes this attachment gently and replaces it with someone better ،someone who will be the coolness of my eyes and a righteous spouse.

I’m also making dua for a righteous marriage this year, insha’Allah. I’m in my late twenties and sometimes I do feel anxious about delays, but I’m trying to stay patient and trust Allah’s timing.

If you’re reading this, even as a stranger, I’d really appreciate your duas. I’ve heard that a stranger’s dua is accepted, so it means a lot 🤍

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u/Various-Turn2491 — 1 month ago

Compability in deen

As-salamu alaykum ,

I just wanted to share something and ask if everyone could please keep me in their duas, especially for Arafah.

I’ve started liking someone recently, and honestly I’ve never liked anyone the way I like him. What feels different is that he seems good in his Deen too, and that’s something I don’t usually find, so I think that’s part of why I feel this connection. Alhamdulillah I’ve kept things halal and haven’t crossed any boundaries.

He’s younger than me, which sometimes makes me doubt whether he would ever take things forward. I’d genuinely be really happy if he proposed, but at the same time I’m trying to trust whatever Allah has written for me.

If he is good for my dunya and akhirah, please make dua that Allah places love, clarity, and courage in his heart and makes it easy for him to come forward in a halal way. And if he’s not meant for me, then Allah removes this attachment gently and replaces it with someone better ،someone who will be the coolness of my eyes and a righteous spouse.

I’m also making dua for a righteous marriage this year, insha’Allah. I’m 29 and sometimes I do feel anxious about delays, but I’m trying to stay patient and trust Allah’s timing.

If you’re reading this, even as a stranger, I’d really appreciate your duas. I’ve heard that a stranger’s dua is accepted, so it means a lot 🤍

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u/Various-Turn2491 — 1 month ago

Day of arafat

Compatibility in deen

As-salamu alaykum 💛

I just wanted to share something I’ve been going through and ask if anyone could please keep me in their duas, especially for Arafah.

I’ve started liking someone recently, and honestly I’ve never liked anyone the way I like him. What feels different is that he seems good in his Deen too, and that’s something I don’t usually find, so I think that’s part of why I feel this connection. Alhamdulillah I’ve kept things halal and haven’t crossed any boundaries.

He’s younger than me, which sometimes makes me doubt whether he would ever take things forward. I’d genuinely be really happy if he proposed, but at the same time I’m trying to trust whatever Allah has written for me.

If he is good for my dunya and akhirah, please make dua that Allah places love, clarity, and courage in his heart and makes it easy for him to come forward in a halal way. And if he’s not meant for me, then Allah removes this attachment gently and replaces it with someone better ،someone who will be the coolness of my eyes and a righteous spouse.

I’m also making dua for a righteous marriage this year, insha’Allah. I’m 29 and sometimes I do feel anxious about delays, but I’m trying to stay patient and trust Allah’s timing.

If you’re reading this, even as a stranger, I’d really appreciate your duas. I’ve heard that a stranger’s dua is accepted, so it means a lot 🤍

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u/Various-Turn2491 — 1 month ago
▲ 11 r/Hijabis

Day of arafat

Compatibility in deen

As-salamu alaykum 💛

I just wanted to share something I’ve been going through and ask if anyone could please keep me in their duas, especially for Arafah.

I’ve started liking someone recently, and honestly I’ve never liked anyone the way I like him. What feels different is that he seems good in his Deen too, and that’s something I don’t usually find, so I think that’s part of why I feel this connection. Alhamdulillah I’ve kept things halal and haven’t crossed any boundaries.

He’s younger than me, which sometimes makes me doubt whether he would ever take things forward. I’d genuinely be really happy if he proposed, but at the same time I’m trying to trust whatever Allah has written for me.

If he is good for my dunya and akhirah, please make dua that Allah places love, clarity, and courage in his heart and makes it easy for him to come forward in a halal way. And if he’s not meant for me, then Allah removes this attachment gently and replaces it with someone better ،someone who will be the coolness of my eyes and a righteous spouse.

I’m also making dua for a righteous marriage this year, insha’Allah. I’m 29 and sometimes I do feel anxious about delays, but I’m trying to stay patient and trust Allah’s timing.

If you’re reading this, even as a stranger, I’d really appreciate your duas. I’ve heard that a stranger’s dua is accepted, so it means a lot 🤍

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u/Various-Turn2491 — 1 month ago

Compatibility in deen

As-salamu alaykum 💛

I just wanted to share something I’ve been going through and ask if anyone could please keep me in their duas, especially for Arafah.

I’ve started liking someone recently, and honestly I’ve never liked anyone the way I like him. What feels different is that he seems good in his Deen too, and that’s something I don’t usually find, so I think that’s part of why I feel this connection. Alhamdulillah I’ve kept things halal and haven’t crossed any boundaries.

He’s younger than me, which sometimes makes me doubt whether he would ever take things forward. I’d genuinely be really happy if he proposed, but at the same time I’m trying to trust whatever Allah has written for me.

If he is good for my dunya and akhirah, please make dua that Allah places love, clarity, and courage in his heart and makes it easy for him to come forward in a halal way. And if he’s not meant for me, then Allah removes this attachment gently and replaces it with someone better ،someone who will be the coolness of my eyes and a righteous spouse.

I’m also making dua for a righteous marriage this year, insha’Allah. I’m 29 and sometimes I do feel anxious about delays, but I’m trying to stay patient and trust Allah’s timing.

If you’re reading this, even as a stranger, I’d really appreciate your duas. I’ve heard that a stranger’s dua is accepted, so it means a lot 🤍

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u/Various-Turn2491 — 1 month ago

What's everyones thoughts on this, Garnier SPF 50 glow. I apply it in the morning but nothing else with it. Not sure if Im on the right track or not

u/Various-Turn2491 — 2 months ago
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Unsure what to do

So I recently got a proposal from a family friend from my mum's side. I'm from England and he's here from Pakistan on work visa. Apparently he will get his stay in a year or two. Our families told us to exchange numbers to get to know each other. We spoke and I asked questions that I had concerns about. Trying to keep it halal as possible. He asked to have a conversation through phone call, I said no. As I didn't feel comfortable. He rang once and I ignore it, which he then apologized for saying it was a accident.but he did it again a few other times, on different days. He asked for my pic which I denied, as he had seen me before. And don't feel comfortable sharing my pic. He asked me that three times. He started messaging me everyday and if I didn't reply he would start putting question marks. And when I said we'll talk later he'd start to question why and what I was gonna be doing. It came to a point where it got to much for me, and I told him I wasn't fond of the idea of talking to much before nikah. He then took the hint and calmed down.

Now he has a lot of the qualities that I was wanting , e.g hes ok with me working. Willing to buy a house separately and close to my family. Hes always spoke kindly to me, showing that he understands my views. And saying how he already likes me etc. But I feel no attraction to him. Ive never been attracted to anyone before ( I'm straight) and always thought nikah has strength.

But now I'm thinking what if I don't feel attracted to him later, what if I'm unfair to him and can't give him the love and care a wife should be giving.

I don't know what I'm supposed to do, sorry for the long rant and any advice is appreciated

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u/Various-Turn2491 — 7 months ago