u/Vast_Temporary4013

Why not move on ?

I'm manifesting my SP, but lately I admit I'm struggling. I wonder if I'm wasting my time manifesting that person and remaining obsessed with him when I could be using this time to forget about him. I feel like I'm going crazy sometimes, and in denial about this whole manifesting thing, I don't know why. I even wonder if just trying to find someone else wouldn't be easier in the end.
Does this happen to you too? What did you choose? How do you manage to stay motivated? Any advice ?

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u/Vast_Temporary4013 — 1 day ago

Why are random guys suddenly coming back while I’m manifesting my SP?

I don't know if it's related, but I've been manifesting my SP lately, and a lot of guys have been DMing me on Instagram. These are men who've messaged me a long time ago, and I didn't reply, but I don't know what's going on, like they're all coming back to DM me within a few days of each other.

Most of them say they saw me at the bar i usually go, even though I haven't been out for a month because I have exams

I'm pretty discreet on Instagram with a private account and very few followers, so I don't often get DMs, especially since I had no mutual followers with these guys, but oh well

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u/Vast_Temporary4013 — 13 days ago

What do you think about stalking his SP on social media, like checking if he's posted, his followers… Do you think that has an impact on our manifestation ?

I admit I really want to do it, but I'm holding myself back from checking his Instagram profile (knowing he blocked me…)

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u/Vast_Temporary4013 — 20 days ago

My SP (situationship) ignored me and didn't reply to my messages 2 days after we saw eachother, so I blocked him on Instagram for a week, then unblocked him. It's been three weeks since we've had any contact. We don't follow each other on Instagram, and I saw that he made his account public. He stayed that way for a while, then made it private and immediately blocked me and my friend on Instagram. I admit I don't really understand anymore.

Unfortunately, even though I know he'll come back, I reacted and sent an apology message to his number because I said some hurtful things the last time we saw each other, and so did he, but I didn't apologize when he did. I thought he wasn't upset because we parted on good terms at first, with a kiss and a hug, but then he ghosted me( and I’m not even sure if that’s the reason) and three weeks later he went public and then blocked me. I saw that he was in another country, so I don't know if he saw my message or not, but I know he'll come back, I'm sure of it.

Honestly, I take it as a sign that I'm achieving my goals because it's still progress. For me that means that he’s still thinking about me I guess 🤣🤣. Hope he didn’t block my number too.

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u/Vast_Temporary4013 — 23 days ago

I was stalking my ex and I saw that he had switched to a private account. I refreshed the page and saw that I was blocked. So I switched to my real account, knowing that I am logged in on the same device, and I searched for his Instagram account and saw that I was blocked. My fake Instagram account have a different email address of my real so I don't understand. Okay, I stalked it, but I didn't interact with it my fake. I don't know how my two accounts with different email addresses can be blocked? Another account with a different email address is on my tablet; that account works. It's really on my phone that I'm blocked.

Do you think he blocked my account or my fake one? Even though I looked at his stuff, I don't think I interacted with anything that would send him a notification.

If he blocked me with the fake account and I deleted it, knowing that it's not the same email address as my main one, will my real account still be blocked? Will it add my account to the blocked list?

We tested it with a friend who also has two accounts on her device, and when I blocked one, the other wasn't blocked. I don't understand, can you tell me which account he blocked, in your opinion?

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u/Vast_Temporary4013 — 24 days ago

I was stalking my ex and I saw that he had switched to a private account. I refreshed the page and saw that I was blocked. So I switched to my real account, knowing that I am logged in on the same device, and I searched for his Instagram account and saw that I was blocked. My fake Instagram account have a different email address of my real so I don't understand. Okay, I stalked it, but I didn't interact with it my fake. I don't know how my two accounts with different email addresses can be blocked? Another account with a different email address is on my tablet; that account works. It's really on my phone that I'm blocked.

Do you think he blocked my account or my fake one? Even though I looked at his stuff, I don't think I interacted with anything that would send him a notification.

If he blocked me with the fake account and I deleted it, knowing that it's not the same email address as my main one, will my real account still be blocked? Will it add my account to the blocked list?

We tested it with a friend who also has two accounts on her device, and when I blocked one, the other wasn't blocked. I don't understand, can you tell me which account he blocked, in your opinion?

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u/Vast_Temporary4013 — 24 days ago

I was stalking my ex and I saw that he had switched to a private account. I refreshed the page and saw that I was blocked. So I switched to my real account, knowing that I am logged in on the same device, and I searched for his Instagram account and saw that I was blocked. My fake Instagram account have a different email address of my real so I don't understand. Okay, I stalked it, but I didn't interact with it my fake. I don't know how my two accounts with different email addresses can be blocked? Another account with a different email address is on my tablet; that account works. It's really on my phone that I'm blocked.

Do you think he blocked my account or my fake one? Even though I looked at his stuff, I don't think I interacted with anything that would send him a notification.

If he blocked me with the fake account and I deleted it, knowing that it's not the same email address as my main one, will my real account still be blocked? Will it add my account to the blocked list?

We tested it with a friend who also has two accounts on her device, and when I blocked one, the other wasn't blocked. I don't understand, can you tell me which account he blocked, in your opinion?

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u/Vast_Temporary4013 — 24 days ago