I need ideas!

Hi! Sooo I’m trying to redo my phone and tablet wallpapers because it’s been awhile! But I’m struggling to find some to do! My current theme is Miku!
Some stuff I like
Sanrio
Polka dots
Gyaru
Yellow
Pink
Blue
Basically anything cute or has cute aesthetic!!

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u/Vegetable_Media_36 — 3 days ago
▲ 2 r/AdoptMeRBX+1 crossposts

Doubting this trade I did..

I did it in the moment bc I really wanted the alley cat and seen trades for lamb or ram are pretty decent but maybe should have done it

u/Vegetable_Media_36 — 6 days ago

(^ w ^) what’s you’re favorite activity?

I love roller skating it’s so fun! But I have to be careful because I don’t wanna get ouchies :c

But what do you like to do!?

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u/Vegetable_Media_36 — 11 days ago

Need some advice!

!don’t read when little!

>!I’m not looking for one, but I’m wondering is it appropriate for me to have/ find a caregiver? I’m 16f but trying 17 next month. I have autism and everyday is a struggle, i struggle to remember or have the motivation to do some basic like brush my teeth, drink water, or shower (usually a day or two). Some days i wake up and im really sad and paranoid something bad will happen to me. Typically every month there will be a week or days that i get pretty depressed or just really sad and stay in bed most of those days wishing to sleep the day away. I want to find one so they can check on me, remind me to brush my teeth or take some time away from screens, cuddle me and spend time with me :(!<

>!So I ask would it be appropriate to look or should I maybe wait till 18, because I know ESPECIALLY online there’s a lot of creeps or people who will just ghost or take advantage of me.!<

Sorry if I labeled this wrong I wasn’t sure if this would be triggering or anything

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u/Vegetable_Media_36 — 12 days ago

Why am I not enough?

Hello! I am a Christian girl (16, I also have high functioning autism, I’m not sure if that’s important to add, but I feel like it might give some context?)

All my life I was raised Christian, but I didn’t really start understanding faith until I was around 7, when my grandmother brought me to my current church (a Baptist church). I’ve been going ever since and have a strong connection with the pastor, his family and the members of the church. also since I’ve been going for years there I haven’t had desire to leave my Baptist church.

My family has always been Christian more Pentecostal but for a few years my mom was away from the church, so we lived more “worldly” as my mother would say, Then in 2024–2025 my grandmother passed away, and it hit our family really hard. My mom returned to a Pentecostal church, the same type of church she was raised in, and now goes there. I’m genuinely happy that shes back in church able to reconnect with god but since shes been going, things have really changed.

I’ve always had a rocky relationship with my mom, but recently it has gotten worse. She only wears dresses now (which is weird to me because it was sudden) and constantly tries to make me wear them, even though I’ve made it clear that I don’t want to.
We can’t listen to our music the “worldly” music because it allows the demons or the spirits to attack her.
Everything and I mean everything has become about god. It was already difficult for me to talk to her about my feelings or opinions before, but now every conversation somehow becomes about Jesus or about her which then leads to arguments we argue often, She says things like “your not trying hard enough” or that “you don’t pray enough, thats why you don’t feel God’s presence” and recently, because I have siblings, she has turned it into a competition of who is more “holy” or more “connected to God”

She has called me the devil or demonic before. She has said she hoped me and my siblings would be “attacked by spirits so you can see how it feels” One time I went to her church and forgot my Bible, and she told me, “Well, you must not love God enough”.One time we were arguing and she said “well I’m trying to raise your younger siblings the right way.” Implying I was raised wrong..

One of our most recent arguments was especially painful because she brought up my grandmother, who I was extremely close with. She told me, “Well, you must not have loved her enough, because she would have told you that you’re a devil too.” She has said other things like that just to hurt me.
I’ve told her that the things she says hurt me. She responds by saying things like, “I was angry,” or “I already asked God for forgiveness”And yeah you asked god for forgiveness but THOSE WORDS HURT ME. NOT GOD.

Today my sister got baptized, and I am happy for her. But I can’t lie I felt envious, because my mom has made this into a competition of who is the “closest to God.” Now she says my sister has “taken the lead.”

I do try. It’s not always easy, especially with my autism, but I love God. I try my best to pray, read the Bible, and go to church. But it feels like no matter what I do, it’s never enough. It feels like since I’ve been labeled “devil” that’s what I am. because I’m not “trying hard enough,” even though I am.
I’ve cried out to God and asked why I have to go through this. I try not to be angry and I try not to let the things she says affect me, but they do.

On top of that, I’ve recently realized I’m gray-asexual and possibly bisexual? Because of past traumatic experiences undeniable feelings towards both genders. But most of my family, including my mom, has strong negative views about LGBTQ+ people, I’m really scared to tell her or anyone besides my friends. And even now being open about my sexuality I fear what if I get rejected by god?

I don’t know exactly what I’m looking for. I think I just needed to vent and maybe hear some opinions. And since this whole sub is about LGBTQ+ so if someone can help me understand the bibles text on the gay topics, it would be much appreciated.

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u/Vegetable_Media_36 — 15 days ago

This just happened!

OMG!! SO FOR AWHILE I BEEN COLLECTING ADMIN ABUSE EGGS TO TRY GETTING THE SUSHI PENGUIN AND….

u/Vegetable_Media_36 — 19 days ago

Seriously..?

I don’t wanna be rude, and ik those pets are my LFs.. but seriously..? I love my strawberry bat dragon and I wouldn’t trade it unless it was more than what they offered.. again not try to be rude but idk…

u/Vegetable_Media_36 — 20 days ago

Should I text my ex…

(PLEASE RESPOND IMMEDIATELY)

Hi, so me and my ex have ended on decent terms months ago (we both had a conversation and apologized and went our ways) and everything’s been okay, but on Thursday, me and my friend who is also friends with my ex was telling me how, he’s in a really dark place, is depressed and has dropped out of community college, so I asked her “oh have you tried to encourage him” because he might need that considering his current state and she kinda gave this look and was like “that’s not my job, that his life” and I was just kinda surprised…

So I’m wondering if I should text him just to say “hey Ik it’s not any of my business, but I heard what’s happened and I just want you to know I’m here if anything” and basically just try to be encouraging?

I’m just really worried for him and although we are ex’s I still care, so should I text him?

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u/Vegetable_Media_36 — 21 days ago

Feel like a failure

So my first appointment for my permit test had to be rescheduled to today and I was really nervous but somewhat confident that I would pass… I did not.. I had I missed by two questions. And because of that it’s made me feel like a failure, sure it’s not that big a deal for most but 60 bucks has now went down the drain (this test cost 30 and my mother paid for me to do it from home so another 30) I’ve been on and off crying because I don’t wanna continue to be a burden of asking for rides and asking to do this permit test so more money goes.. and not only that I still have finals so my mind is all over the place trying to study and maintain grades. Again it might not be a big deal but it’s just made me really sad that I didn’t pass

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u/Vegetable_Media_36 — 23 days ago

Need advice on what to do!

Hey! So I (16F) was on and off with this guy (17M), during my freshman and sophomore year, I’m currently in junior year. Out family’s are friends but don’t really talk manly at events or such. But we were on and off while he was in high school, he graduated last year and once that happened thats when our relationship fell apart, we ended up having a conversation or somewhat of an argument where I basically said

I’m tired of you not talking to me about OUR issues and instead going to our mutual friend
And asking for her advice rather than talking to me, which my friend atp was fed up with constantly being in the middle of our problems. And even when we were previously talking their was quiet some back and forth on some issues with my old friend group, miscommunications, and false accusations from my old friend group.

Now our relationship definitely has really good times but we had our bad times, mainly with bad communication on both ends and for me especially unsure feelings of what I wanted. This year i found out im Grey Ace (Grey asexual- low or lack of desire for or wanting intimacy) but i never told him because we eventually stoped talking so I never told him.

It was hard letting go and trying to move on I had a lot of regrets, feeling awful and constantly thinking about him and the “if we had been together how it would have actually gone”. But I got through it with prayer and surrounding myself with family and friends and such.

A few months ago he messaged me in the middle of the night, which was weird because before I had seen the message I was dreaming that me and him were at his house apologizing to each other for our faults. So when I seen that I was surprised but also a bit conflicted. I forgave him and he forgave me, not that I ever had ill feeling towards him or even hated him, but it was nice knowing he seen his faults but also helped me to confront mine. After the apology I tried to talk a little more but he said “I don’t think I could handle being friends with my first love”. Which Is completely understand especially since we had been on and off and it seems like maybe it would happen again if we started talking.

But after that conversation I started having those thoughts of what if, or maybe this is a sign. So I was praying so hard to god basically asking
“If it’s not meant to be please remove him from my life”
“please help me to not think about him and focus on me and you’re relationship lord”
“give me a sign of what you want me to do” etc. but every single time I’ve done those prayers or even thought about him he starts popping up in person, my church (which he had stopped going when we stopped talking and I also don’t have an issue because our relationship shouldn’t effects his with the lord), when I was out with my mom in town, the mall, and literally today AT THE DMV!

I was there because I was going to do my permit test but didn’t end up doing it because of paper related issues, so I was walking with my mom to the printers they have there and I was kinda distracted. But I was looking ahead and when I looked I seen someone staring at me. I don’t realize at first until I got closer, It was HIM the minute he noticed I was looking he looked away. And now since then those feelings of what could have been, is this another sign, maybe this is a sign this is the person god want me to be with.

I bring god into this because I have always struggled with my relationship with the lord but right now I’m in a semi good place with him. But with that I’m trying to stay on the path of which the lord wants me on which obviously includes who he wants me to be with. Like I said every time I’ve done those prayers or asked god to help me to move on or remove those thoughts of him, it seemed like I always see my ex a day or a few days after them!

And honestly I feel like deep inside I never truly let go of those feelings and was hoping he would come back, we would talk things out and try to have a real relationship (we had never really made our previous attempts official). And since then I’ve been deep in my thoughts and feel uncertainty and I guess longing for him again. I’ve tried talking to other dudes, trying to get into relationships again but my thoughts always drift back to him.

Am I overthinking this or is there maybe a possibility of me and him getting back together because maybe it’s gods intent I’m really sorry I just need more opinions. :(

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u/Vegetable_Media_36 — 25 days ago

Conflicted feelings over ex

Hey! So I (16F) was on and off with this guy (17M), during my freshman and sophomore year, I’m currently in junior year. Out family’s are friends but don’t really talk manly at events or such. But we were on and off while he was in high school, he graduated last year and once that happened thats when our relationship fell apart, we ended up having a conversation or somewhat of an argument where I basically said

I’m tired of you not talking to me about OUR issues and instead going to our mutual friend
And asking for her advice rather than talking to me, which my friend atp was fed up with constantly being in the middle of our problems. And even when we were previously talking their was quiet some back and forth on some issues with my old friend group, miscommunications, and false accusations from my old friend group.

Now our relationship definitely has really good times but we had our bad times, mainly with bad communication on both ends and for me especially unsure feelings of what I wanted. This year i found out im Grey Ace (Grey asexual- low or lack of desire for or wanting intimacy) but i never told him because we eventually stoped talking.

It was hard letting go and trying to m move on I had a lot of regrets, feeling awful and constantly thinking about him and the “if we had been together how it would have actually gone”. But I got through it with prayer and surrounding myself with family and friends and such.

A few months ago he messaged me in the middle of the night, which was weird because before I had see the message I was dreaming that me and him were at his house apologizing to each other for our faults. So when I seen that I was surprised but also a bit conflicted. I forgave him and he forgave me, not that I ever had ill feeling towards him or even hated him, but it was nice knowing he seen his faults but also helped me to confront mine. After the apology I tried to talk a little more but he said “I don’t think I could handle being friends with my first love”. Which Is completely understand especially since we had been on and off and it seems like maybe it would happen again if we started talking.

But after that conversation I started having But after that conversation I started having those thoughts of what if, or maybe this is a sign. So I was praying so hard to god basically asking
“If it’s not meant to be please remove him from my life”
“please help me to not think about him and focus on anything else”
“give me a sign of what you want me to do” etc. but every single time I’ve done those prayers or even thought about him he starts popping up in person, my church (which he had stopped going when we stopped talking and I also don’t have an issue because our relationship shouldn’t effects his with the lord), when I was out with my mom in town, the mall, and literally today AT THE DMV!

I was there because I was going to do my permit test but didn’t end up doing it because of paper related issues, so I was walking with my mom to the printers they have there and I was kinda distracted. But I was looking ahead and when I looked I seen someone staring at me. I don’t realize at first until I got closer, It was HIM the minute he noticed I was looking he looked away. And now since then those feelings of what could have been, is this another sign, maybe this is a sign this is the person god want me to be with.

And honestly I feel like deep inside I never truly let go of those feelings and was hoping he would come back, we would talk things out and try to have a real relationship (we had never really made our previous attempts official). And since then I’ve been deep in my thoughts and feel uncertainty and I guess longing for him again. I’ve tried talking to other dudes, trying to get into relationships again but my thoughts always drift back to him.

Am I overthinking this or is there maybe a possibility of me and him getting back together? I’m really sorry I just need more opinions. :(

Summary: me and my ex were on and off during high school he graduated and had an argument which caused us to stop talking. Had a hard time moving on, which led to lots of prayer and personal improvement. After those prayers or thoughts of him those old feelings came back. I seen ex today which brought back conflicted feelings that I thought were left in the past.

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u/Vegetable_Media_36 — 26 days ago

What should I do?

Hey! So I got a fly ride strawberry bat dragon awhile ago and the last time I checked the value for it was 28.75 but now it’s 29! So I’m wondering should I wait awhile before trying to trade it in case the value increases or should I trade it now? (I might not bc I love this cutiee sm) but I wanna know what should I doooo

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u/Vegetable_Media_36 — 29 days ago

Any spare duckies!

Looking for as many duckies as possible although they were very easy to get, I would like some more especially if people are looking to get rid of them! Please respond if interested in giving your duckies

u/Vegetable_Media_36 — 30 days ago

Lf unicorns!

Trying to make a neon, would anyone wanna do this trade? The other two pets would just be add ons so the trade is fair but please then me know!

u/Vegetable_Media_36 — 1 month ago

Looking for chicken!!

I’m looking for a chicken! Regular preferably, I don’t rlly have much offers but I’m offering
Neon bee
Milk chocolate bunny
Dark chocolate bunny
Tan chow chow

You can pick from this or we can negotiate!!!

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u/Vegetable_Media_36 — 1 month ago