Can’t properly walk, but cooking still works great: vegan bolognese
I broke my foot so walking is a bit iffy for the moment, but that will pass and the bolognese tastes amazing… :3 meow
u/Vetnoma — 10 hours ago
Vegan pizza evening
And I am telling all you lovely people I am not tripping with the pesto as a cheese substitute
Also I got a madame from a random old dude in front of me when picking up my new id (with my actual name) and I am gonna ride on this wave for the rest of the week…
u/Vetnoma — 6 days ago
▲ 484 r/traaaaaaaaaaaansbians
Definitely not self projecting here…
In my case probably more cats than wolves but meh…
Also yes I should probably build more of a support network and make more friends before I start dating, but I just yearn for a girlfriend…. :3 meow
u/Vetnoma — 22 days ago
Heartwarming: trans woman has a depressive episode but not because of dysphoria…
but because she is caught by the problems she has run away from for years due to dysphoria being more prevalent
/uj since starting HRT I already have that weird four week cycle of productive -> yearning -> depressed -> normal and now with me being in the depressed episode plus me realizing how utterly fucked my social life actually is, because dysphoria is less present day to day, and with me not really getting how I actually make friends at queer events (and not just having a nice chat and then never something again outside of maybe the next meeting), let alone people I could potentially have more than a friendship with (for which the pool probably couldn’t be smaller based on my identity)
/rj well is this male male brained cause I have no social skills or fem brained because I blame myself and not women?
u/Vetnoma — 23 days ago
Breakfast bowl (?) with self made granola
Actually found a vegan yogurt that I like („vly“ if anyone is interested. Idk if you can get it outside of germany).
Also beginning of pride month has definitely NOT helped my yearning…
(PS: this is not my regular breakfast, normally I would just throw oatmeal, granola and oatmilk together and call it a day, but today I had time for a bit more and it came out nice and tasty)
u/Vetnoma — 1 month ago
Vegetables pan with pasta and tofu (vegan)
Wanted to post something for the cuties on here, but don’t plan on making something fancy in the next time, so here enjoy one a probably more everyday dish
Also I had my endo appointment and have now increased my dosage from the complete underdosage that I had till now (tho I didn’t get the official ok from the doctor yet), because I am no longer worried about my values being screwed up by increasing it. Hasn’t helped with the yearning or how hard I crush on that one trans girl tho… (actually probably even worsen it)
u/Vetnoma — 2 months ago
▲ 59 r/Weibsvolk
Wie lerne ich damit umzugehen?
For context ich bin trans. Bis vor gestern hatte och zwar auch schon fem Kleidung an, aber halt mit Hose und Pulli welche, die man auch noch als “männlich“ lesen konnte (und das wahrscheinlich auch getan wurde).
Jetzt war gestern gutes Wetter und ich bin das erste Mal mit Shorts und Top raus zu nem queeren Treffen und das war crazy schön und befreiend.
Jetzt zum weniger schönen Teil. Danach bin ich noch einkaufen gegangen, laufe im Supermarkt an nem 60 jährigen Typen vorbei und bemerke wieder der mir einfach im vorbeigehen ULTRA auf den Arsch glotzt (also mit Kopf drehen und allem). Und idk aber das fühlt sich einfach immernoch unfassbar unangenehm an und ich fühle mich auch so ein bisschen schmutzig (idk ob das Sinn ergibt). Wie zur Hölle lerne ich damit umzugehen und nicht wegen so einem Mist am Ende mich selbst einzuschränken? Weil ich glaub jetzt nicht, dass das das letzte Mal war oder das extremste was ich so in Zukunft wahrscheinlich abbekommen werde.
u/Vetnoma — 2 months ago