I’m so sick and tired of being a parent.
I’m coming close to 40, and I’m just so done. The back talk, the constant excuses, and the victim blaming is just getting so old. To having to remind them that you can’t do this, that this is bad, that you can’t say that specifically at your age. I spent my whole life trying to avoid this. Yet I’m forced to do it till either I pass or they do. I don’t want to do it. I’m done.
I can’t get it through their thick skull. All the gentle talking and all the ways of showing them it’s wrong , just makes me a bad guy time and time again. No one ever prepped me for this. I wasn’t ever told I’d have to do this. I never wanted this is the first place. It wasn’t like this when I was growing up. I never saw my parents doing what I’ve had to do.
I want to quit, go for a gallon of milk and never look back.
Though. I love my mother, she would be homeless and dead with out me. I chose a childless life just to be saddled with and take care of the biggest child I know. My mom. I hate this woman man, and love her.
I can’t imagine how many Millennials are facing what I am cause their parents did nothing but fuck all to depend on their kid.