▲ 10 r/arcane

Who I think should play ambessa if there was a live action

As much as I love arcane, ik there won't be a live action and it would probably ruin the magic of the show. After watching a ballad of songbirds and snakes tho, I couldn't be more convinced that viola Davis would genuinely make an excellent ambessa like she is literally giving ambessa in this movie😂

Edit: The movie I'm talking about is the hunger games one with Rachel zegler

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Am in the wrong for cutting off a friend of ten years

Long one so let's lock in here gang.

I (14m) recently blocked a guy ( also 14m) who I have known since primary, I'll explain why.

So this started around a year ago when Charlie Kirk died and we were talking about it. I said I thought he was a terrible person but didn't deserve to die, because ofc no one deserves that. He asked me why I didn't like Charlie and when I gave him the reasons ( e.g homophobic sexist etc) he started on a rant telling me he'd never said any of those things and when I told him some racist quotes he said it must have "context". I was pissed and left him on read for 2 hours, he sent me 40 messages in this time however he did this weird thing where he switched between "sowwwyyy🥺" and yes with that emoji and "I am genuinely really sorry" multiple times like trying to guilt trip me. I texted him saying I needed space and he agreed, my plan was to text him in a couple of days. He texted me the next day saying "hey when do you want to hang out" along with a tiktok like everything was perfectly normal. We eventually got through this.

I have more but throughout all of this he also constantly tried to convert me to Christianity, despite me saying multiple times that it was my choice to be Christian and that I have no problem with his religion it's just not for me. This happened around ten separate times

Okay and then more recently I sent him a video of a guy saying how terrible being gay was ( I'm gay) and how gay content should never be shown to children and how having a gay friend is like having a friend that does drugs. In hindsight I should've had more sensitivity and not sent it to him howeverrr he sent me a massive paragraph having a go at me saying how it was the man's personal beliefs and I should respect that

I realised not long after this that it was no longer worth being friends with him and tried to phase him out, not answering his messages for ages and being short and abrupt when messaging him. Politics aside he was a shitty person in general who treated me as a therapist and never respected me even when talking irl about unrelated things.

The straw that broke the camels back was when he decided to send me ANOTHER massive paragraph about how god will make my life better and how I need to stop spinning. I just blocked him then as he clearly can't respect my boundaries, obviously I wouldn't just block someone outright over that kind of thing however I just needed a reason to get him out of my life.

So Reddit, am I in the wrong?

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u/WatercressHoliday137 — 3 days ago

AITA for cutting off a friend of ten years?

Long one so let's lock in here gang.

I (14m) recently blocked a guy ( also 14m) who I have known since primary, I'll explain why.

So this started around a year ago when Charlie Kirk died and we were talking about it. I said I thought he was a terrible person but didn't deserve to die, because ofc no one deserves that. He asked me why I didn't like Charlie and when I gave him the reasons ( e.g homophobic sexist etc) he started on a rant telling me he'd never said any of those things and when I told him some racist quotes he said it must have "context". I was pissed and left him on read for 2 hours, he sent me 40 messages in this time however he did this weird thing where he switched between "sowwwyyy🥺" and yes with that emoji and "I am genuinely really sorry" multiple times like trying to guilt trip me. I texted him saying I needed space and he agreed, my plan was to text him in a couple of days. He texted me the next day saying "hey when do you want to hang out" along with a tiktok like everything was perfectly normal. We eventually got through this.

I have more but throughout all of this he also constantly tried to convert me to Christianity, despite me saying multiple times that it was my choice to be Christian and that I have no problem with his religion it's just not for me. This happened around ten separate times

Okay and then more recently I sent him a video of a guy saying how terrible being gay was ( I'm gay) and how gay content should never be shown to children and how having a gay friend is like having a friend that does drugs. In hindsight I should've had more sensitivity and not sent it to him howeverrr he sent me a massive paragraph having a go at me saying how it was the man's personal beliefs and I should respect that

I realised not long after this that it was no longer worth being friends with him and tried to phase him out, not answering his messages for ages and being short and abrupt when messaging him. Politics aside he was a shitty person in general who treated me as a therapist and never respected me even when talking irl about unrelated things.

The straw that broke the camels back was when he decided to send me ANOTHER massive paragraph about how god will make my life better and how I need to stop spinning. I just blocked him then as he clearly can't respect my boundaries, obviously I wouldn't just block someone outright over that kind of thing however I just needed a reason to get him out of my life.

So Reddit, AITA?

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u/WatercressHoliday137 — 3 days ago
▲ 7 r/ADHDUK

Do I have ADHD or am I just lazy?

Before I start, I understand that you can't diagnose yourself online and I don't want to be disrespectful to anyone on here I just don't have anywhere else to go. I'm just going to list all the things I experience

I'm a teenage boy in highschool as well btw. When I have a really important test coming up I want to revise, like really, really want to. But no matter how hard I try it feels like it's physically impossible for me to do it, I could be on my phone or just lying on the sofa and it feels like I'm chained to the spot and no matter how hard I try I cannot do it, it's so frustrating because doing things that interest me are so much easier as well. I'm also very bad at homework and I've gotten quite a few detentions because I leave my homework to the last minute because even though I know the answers it feels impossible to open my computer and do it.

I very frequently get obsessed with something for about a week and it'll be all I think and talk about yet after that week or so, I no longer care, and as much as I want to like it again I can't do it . When I'm revising/ doing any sort of work the only thing that helps is listening to loud music because it sort of blocks out all the outside noise and stimulates my brain enough to get on with what I'm doing. It isn't just schoolwork either, just doing anything around the house takes so much effort.

Idk if this is just me or an ADHD thing but a lot of the time I might say something to someone and not register it as weird until later and then be panicking for the rest of the day over whether I've upset them. I struggle concentrating in conversation as well and tend to zone out even though I don't mean to. I'm very well behaved in school and score highly on tests so I'm worried that no one will take me seriously *if* I have it.

Maybe I do maybe I don't. In sorry if I'm being disrespectful and I don't have ADHD but I just need to unload this somewhere.

Edit: not being able to do things sometimes applies to stuff i love as well. I do lots of clubs but find myself missing them because it feels like the 'effort' of even going to them is difficult

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u/WatercressHoliday137 — 5 days ago

What is the age rating?

Im 14 and im planning on buying it, mentioned it to my mum ( first mistake lol) and she asked what age it is, I bullshitted and said 15 but does anyone know the actual rating? It's been weirdly conflicting online

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u/WatercressHoliday137 — 7 days ago

What's the tsaritsas role looking like?

I'm bad at following leaks, does anyone know so far what she actually does? I've heard that she might not be stellar related with vodyanitsas leaked kit being weird

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u/WatercressHoliday137 — 7 days ago

Who to go for in Vesna teams?

Okay so basically now that Vesna is leaked, is vodyanitsa or Odette better for her? I much prefer odette so will probably take her over vodyanitsa but does anyone know if it's a massive damage fall off?

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u/WatercressHoliday137 — 7 days ago