u/Weekly_Rough_1284

Hi! I have an opportunity to move to Munich from California, and people keep telling me I’m crazy for doing that. But honestly, I feel like the “American Dream” doesn’t really exist anymore, and people who don’t live in the U.S. may not fully understand that.

I know the U.S. is more advanced in many ways, less bureaucratic than Germany, and people are generally friendlier. But I also really love the European lifestyle and the work-life balance, which feels almost nonexistent in the U.S. where everyone seems focused only on work.

I also like the idea of being able to take weekend trips to places like Switzerland, Austria, or Prague, and how easy it is to travel around Europe in general.

I feel like I might actually be happier in Europe.

Honestly, I would prefer living in Southern Europe, but sadly it seems much harder to find jobs there.

Germany feels like the only European country where it’s realistically possible to get a good job and move from the U.S. without too much difficulty.

Still, I’m confused and would love to hear your opinions. Thanks!

I feel disappointed and lost about getting a job. I do not need anyone to feel sorry for me and I am not asking for anything or looking for advice. I already know what people usually say and it is always the same words that never really help or change anything.

I am only writing this to express what I feel so I do not explode inside.

I even considered moving to Canada or the EU since I have the option but I do not think it would make any difference. The US is supposed to be the best market but I do not know anymore.

I cannot even find another field that would take me at an entry level so I can at least have a normal office job.

I am grateful for having a good family that supports me otherwise I would probably be working at McDonalds or something.

This life sucks.

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