u/Western_Cabinet4755

Isn’t the debrief supposed to be for them to breakdown each episode? Why am I seeing Tina and Tommy AGAIN when they’ve already been on aftersun 🙄 it’s so boring like please

During her rocky relationship with Rez and after they break up she is completely charmed by him, grinning like a Cheshire Cat just from him throwing her some typical flirty lines every now and then, like he does with EVERY girl he comes into contact with, especially if they’re taken.

Like he did with Emily too, he seems to be overly flattering to their face, then when it’s confirmed the girl likes him back and/or he gets them into bed… the inconsistent chase is over & he’s done. Think he keeps all these female friends around him just incase one day he might get laid - then gets satisfaction out of getting to discard them once he’s got what he wanted.

I don’t get the attraction to Miles at all! He’s not bad looking, but I find his pattern of behaviour so see through, repetitive and boring which makes him overall quite unattractive

For context my sister and I are very close in age. I do not care about this man, I care about the constant betrayal from my sister.

So over 10 years ago, I had my first boyfriend. It was my first serious relationship and lasted around 2 years. I also had been pregnant to him and didn’t have the baby. I found out he had been texting an ex so I dumped him and he started going on a rampage of trying to get with anyone close to me, every single one of my friends and eventually.. Come to find out my sister had started sleeping with him after we broke up. She literally came home at 3am where I was, wearing his hoodie.

At the time I was gaslighted by her and made to feel
Dramatic / like I was genuinely crazy for caring about this at all. I moved out and didn’t speak to her for years but over the years I did choose to forgive her as she’s my sister. Despite her bringing it up in arguments saying things like “it was more than you think it was” and she even told me once that he had said TO her “im in love with your sister” yet she still continued going there with him.

Fast forward, she has recently broke up with her abusive ex and I was being super supportive with her going above and beyond trying to get her away from this abusive man she was with, constantly supporting her and being the best sister I could be. I even offered her to live with me when she had no where to go.

She’s now posting herself on social media and I commented on one of her posts, shortly after, my ex likes her photo of herself. So not only do I realise they still follow each other.. she is seeing his name pop up on her phone and clearly getting some sort of ego hit from him to this day, even after everything.

(He has also been stalking me for years. I saw him out when I was on a date and he followed us around all night, staring at me from across a room. The next morning he tried following me on instagram. I’ve seen him a couple times outside my house - can only take a guess how he knows where I live, he turned his views on and views my tik tok account trying to get some sort of reaction out of me - and I have told my sister ALL of these things too. There was also a time where I was in a bad place mentally and he drove past me staring at me and I went over to my mums house where she was and I was crying because I had been seen in a really bad way and was just feeling vulnerable, and my sister started almost smirking and said something like “he wouldn’t tell anyone, hes not like that” and I was like excuse me?)

I genuinely don’t know what to do, I feel betrayed all over again. This man is a sicko and she clearly does not have the loyalty to me that I constantly show for her and I feel done. Am I insane?

JP’s behaviour is not talked about enough. Not only is he talking down to Binky all of the time, season 12 during his conversation with Ollie he immediately started shouting and going bright red and turned very aggressive very quickly. Then later he tries to get Binky to doubt her friendship with Ollie when all Ollie is trying to do is protect her from JP worming his way back in and destroying her self worth again.

He is by far the biggest red flag on this show! I am re watching as an adult and I remember disliking him when it first came out but wow he was even worse than I remember him being

I matched with a guy on hinge a couple years ago, we had an on and off thing for a while.. I recently learned he was completely swindling me the whole time I knew him, telling me lies, manipulating me and trying to use me for a hook up etc. Before I even knew this was happening, I sensed something was off about him so I started ignoring his messages (on text) and 2 days after I did that I was banned from hinge, I tried to appeal but they said they had looked into it and decided to keep my ban and they couldn’t offer any details on who reported me.

He maliciously reported me because I rejected him and he couldn’t handle me having other options. I’ve emailed hinge again to tell them I believe I was reported under malicious intent. Is it possible to get my account back? I find it insane how I’ve been banned just because 1 person reported me with a false made up reason that I don’t know of?