u/Willing_Value1396

Non fate come me, non attivate Edison Wi-Fi.

Durante la vendita mi hanno detto che non avrei pagato l'attivazione, e in un certo senso non hanno strettamente parlando mentito. E' che il costo di attivazione di CENTONOVANTADUE euro è rateizzato in 24 rate da 8 euro, ma allo stesso tempo c'è una promozione per l'attivazione che ti sconta esattamente 8 euro al mese per i primi due anni.

Quindi no, non c'è nessuna durata minima del contratto, tecnicamente! E no, non paghi l'attivazione, tecnicamente!

Certo poi metti che la attivi, e su 10 giorni la rete è stata inutilizzabile per 5 di questi... vabbè è un peccato, se te ne vuoi andare non ti ferma nessuno ovviamente. Dovrai solo pagare tutte le rate rimanenti del costo di attivazione, più 30 euro di disattivazione come inculata finale. 220 euro per disdire una linea internet che manco funziona.

220 euro di lezione per imparare che devo sempre leggere il contratto, indipendentemente da cosa mi abbia detto il venditore.

Pretty much the title. I don't know if you noticed too, but if you open your puzzle dashboard there is a radar graph showing your performance in various types of puzzles.

The scale is quite off IMHO, though. The range of the graph spans from the lowest-performing category to the best. I suppose the goal is to give more visibility to your strengths and weaknesses, but it can result in very unbalanced spikes, like this:

https://preview.redd.it/11nph38v0j1h1.png?width=964&format=png&auto=webp&s=31faf4674faeae9b0503c9771a3b2d1f8d162429

I understand that if the range was from 0 to the max that would likely result in a much more squashed graph. In fact I tried it and I will spare you the screenshot, it's basically just the whole radar filled and no difference is visible.

I tried a few options and IMHO it looks better when you change the range to be from 95% of the minimum score to the max score, like this:

https://preview.redd.it/ucm1xztu2j1h1.png?width=1294&format=png&auto=webp&s=44759fa2a0b7863a0cfba990a8a8a621178bd796

What do you think?

I am NOT OOP, OOP is u/Disastrous_Wash8968

Originally posted to r/AITAH

AITAH for telling my coworker I can’t babysit her daughter anymore

Trigger Warnings: >!animal deaths, neglect!<

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Original Post: April 18, 2026

I (f20) am very close with one of my coworkers (f31). She has a very sweet 9 year old daughter. I babysit this daughter most weekends, for free.

I also have a lot of pets. Including several fish tanks. My coworker’s daughter has always been super interested in my pets. Wanting to hold, feed, and watch them.

One day I noticed a bad smell coming from one of the tanks. I looked around and noticed several dead fish on the floor behind the tank. My tanks have floating plants that keep the fish from jumping out, not to mention the amount of them that had come out was very odd. I have cameras in my house, mostly to watch my pets while I’m at work. I looked to see if there was anything odd captured on the camera closest to the fish tank and saw something disturbing.

My coworkers kid has stuck her hand in the tank, held it there (I’m assuming until one of the fish swam near it), pulled it out, toss it behind the tank, then repeated this several more times. Then she walked away, leaving the fish to die.

As soon as I saw that I got very angry and called my coworker and told her that her daughter was not allowed back to my place. I explained what happened, expecting her to be disgusted and apologize for her daughter’s actions. Instead she got mad at me. I had called her on Friday and was supposed to watch her daughter the next day while she worked. I explained that I wouldn’t put my animals in harm’s way by letting her come back to my house. She said some stupid shit about people making mistakes and that her daughter is young. This pissed me off even more and I told her that this is how serial killers are made and that her daughter needed therapy before she decided killing animals was boring and moved on to humans, then hung up on her.

It’s been a few days I’m feeling very conflicted. I love this kid. I’ve been babysitting her since I was 17 and she was 6. She’s a very sweet and quiet girl, and from what I’ve personally observed she loves my animals. But I have video evidence of her killing my fish. I don’t want her to try and go for one of my other pets, or kill any more of my fish. I genuinely can’t think of a reason she would have done this that doesn’t involve her just wanting to kill the fish.

Am I the asshole for not letting her come back to my house

Edit: I feel like I need to clarify some things

I’m using babysitting loosely here. For the most part we would watch tv together or she would watch me play games in the living room. She would hang out with the cats and dogs and sometimes help me with my other animals, something she would ask me to do. I wouldn’t follow her around the house, especially the past year, because I trusted her to make good decisions, and I have cameras that send me notifications for loud noises. I assure you all that she was receiving attention. If this was something she did for attention then why do it now and not in the three years I’ve been babysitting her?

Also to clarify why I did it for free. My coworker is a very busy woman and a single mother who works two jobs. She’s also very helpful at work and often is the one who covers shifts when needed. I also didn’t mind having her daughter around because she would offer to help clean up while she’s here. She’s also a very quiet kid, very willing to sit and watch tv for hours at a time. It never felt particularly like a job, and I didn’t want to make her mother pay for another thing on top of everything she already pays for.

AITAH has no consensus bot, OOP was NTA, but YTA for letting her co-worker use her as a free babysitter

Relevant Comments

Commenter 1: NTA. She knows she’s killing the fish.

But also, you’re 20 and why are you spending every weekend babysitting for free?

Even without the very disturbing fish situation, please enjoy your free time. You are not obligated to be someone else’s free childcare.

> OOP: My idea of enjoying my free time is watching tv or playing video games lol. Both of which I can do while babysitting. That’s also why I did it for free, I wasn’t a super high effort babysitter, mostly just let her come over so she wasn’t alone at her house.

Commenter 2: NTA. But why were you ever doing free babysitting for anyone? And why are you still describing this child as sweet when you have video evidence of her killing your fish? She's not 2 or 3 where she may not understand what she's doing. She's 9.

> OOP: Before this I would have described her as an angel. It’s hard to wrap my head around the fact she would even do something like this.

Downvoted Commenter: It doesn't make sense why a little girl who needs a babysitter is alone at your house and not at her mother's place.

> OOP: She’s not alone at my place. The tank is not in the living room, where we would stay while she was at my place, so I didn’t see her do this. She’s 9 so I didn’t feel the need to watch her every move.

Commenter 3: So your meant to be babysitting and a nine year old was unsupervised enough to do that. Kinda on you there, not the kid. The kid could have really hurt herself there

> OOP: Hurt herself? She’s 9, not 2. I’m also using babysitting pretty loosely here. She’s a very well behaved kid who just watched tv with me while her mom works. I don’t follow her around because I assumed she knows what not to do. This isn’t something I, or anyone, would expect a child to do, but other than this she hasn’t done anything wrong in the three years I’ve been watching her. I had a lot of trust in her.

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Update: April 21, 2026 (three days later)

Update: AITAH for telling my coworker I can’t babysit her daughter anymore

A couple days ago I posted about my coworkers 9 year old daughter killing my fish, causing me to not let her back at my house.

I finally talked to the daughter. I allowed her to come over on Sunday. I asked her if she knew why I was upset and she told me she hadn’t known I was upset. Her mother lied to her and said the reason I wouldn’t let her come over last weekend and Saturday was because I was busy. I then showed her the video and explained why I was upset.

First here’s some more context. The fish she killed were guppies. If you know anything about guppies you know they breed like nothing else. You can go from having two to having 50 in a month. It’s insane, and something I complained about often. Every couple of months I give some of my guppies to a local fish store. I refer to this as getting rid of the babies.

My coworkers daughter told me that she thought she was helping me. That she got rid of the fish for me. She said she knew that I didn’t like having to many of them and had noticed that there were a lot and thought she’d help get rid of some. I then explained that I give the fish back to the pet store when theirs to many, not kill them. I also explained that killing animals, no matter how small is wrong, especially in the way she did it, leaving them to suffer. She apologized profusely, continuing to say she thought she was helping. I asked why she hadn’t told me about it or asked before she did it and she didn’t have much of an explanation, just kept apologizing. She was very upset, so I dropped the subject.

I’m not sure how to feel about this explanation. She seemed sincere when she said it. I want to believe her, but I’m still confused on why she hadn’t told me about it.

Relevant / Top Comments

Commenter 1: I’m more concerned that almost every single person commented on your first post to stop babysitting and take a step back, and you didn’t. We can’t help you if you don’t want to help yourself

> OOP (downvoted): I wanted to talk to her about why she did what she did. It didn’t feel right not having an explanation from her

Commenter 2: I'm more concerned about why her mom lied to her.

Commenter 3: Throwing them behind the tank indicates she knows she was doing wrong. End of conversation.

Commenter 4: I would still be concerned as well. At nine, she should have some awareness that it's wrong to kill animals unless you're actually planning to eat them. And maybe don't mention that or she might think guppie stew is a good idea.

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