u/Wise_Resolve_8556

For context, we were in a haram relationship for 1 year, but we had intentions to make it halal however it was too late when we started arguing and losing each others trust to the point where she says she "hates" me and blocked me. It really is more bad then it seems I really messed up a lot with her trust and everything. And deep down I really do care for this person and eager to marry them one day so it really hits me when I ask this but:

I know du'a' can change qadr/destiny and I 100% believe it definitely can happen for us to reunite one day; however I don't want to be in that stage where I make dua for them and it doesnt end up working for what ever reason that Allah is leading me too but at the same time I really like this person and hope to be theirs one day. We are still young, so I know its going to take alot of Tawakkul and Sabr

I appreciate any advice Jazakullah Khair

As-salamu alaykum

I am an 18-year-old guy who needs help with reconciling with a loved one I have talked to prior. For context, I was the one who messed up in the relationship and now she doesnt like me. I really wanted to make it halal but I messed up and now she wont talk to me. She has really good characteristics and I value her alot so I really wanted to make it halal to marry her in the future. I really pray that she comes back into my life and especially since I was planning to get married soon I really need help. We met in a haram way, but I really want to make it halal with her. She is really someone I admire.

Will anyone give me some advice and maybe some duas to recite for me her to come back into my life? I really want to be in good terms with her before I try asking for her to marry me. Thank you so much Jazakullah Khair

My local college is offering a research opportunity where kids will engage in hands on research and later present a final research report in the career i am interested in. However, they say there is a $575 for lab fee and materials. Idk if its a scam or not but I am wondering if I should do it, as it would be an excellent add-on to my college apps before the common app opens. I appreciate any advice

Demographics: Male, Pakistani, NYC, Public school, No hooks, Second gen

Intended major(s): Biology (Pre-med track)

Academics:

• SAT: 1410
• Class rank: N/A
• UW/W GPA: 97 W, 2 C's (8th grade HS Classes) , 3 B's, Rest A's
• Coursework: 9 AP Classes, 4 Honors Classes
• Awards: The College Board National Recognition Program

Extracurriculars:

1. Community Passion Project (11,12)
2. Hospital Volunteering (12)
3. Marching Band (9,10,11)
4. AMC Job (11,12)
5. Research @ Local University (12)

Demographics: Male, Pakistani, NYC, Public school, No hooks, Second gen

Intended major(s): Biology (Pre-med track)

Academics:

• SAT: 1410
• Class rank: N/A
• UW/W GPA: 97 W, 2 C's (8th grade HS Classes) , 3 B's, Rest A's
• Coursework: 9 AP Classes, 4 Honors Classes
• Awards: The College Board National Recognition Program

Extracurriculars:

1. Community Passion Project (11,12)
2. Hospital Volunteering (12)
3. Marching Band (9,10,11)
4. AMC Job (11,12)
5. Research @ Local University (12)

Schools:

• Binghamton University EA
• Stonybrook Univeristy
• Baruch College
• University of Buffalo
• Rutgers University