u/Working-Swan-9944

Hey

Just need to vent as I dont have anyone else to talk to about this...

Im a part-time creator, and since losing my instagram only promote on NSFW sites rather than mainstream, so my growth is slower...however I do have a loyal band of subscribers.

So, I've had a whale for the past 3 years. He is very particular about his fetish and would tip heavily when I would dress a certain way and not if I didn't.

So naturally, I would skew my content towards what I know he would like to get those big tips.

Recently, I've branched out doing what I want rather than chase tips.

I think he may have noticed this and decided to unsub, although he is still on my free page and tipped yesterday 🤷🏾‍♀️

Anyways im kinda glad he is gone so I can just make content I feel like doing rather than what I know he likes.

Sending locked content geared towards him didn't work unless it was a sexting session he initiated

I'll miss the money, but it's a weight off my shoulders. Plus, there are some tippers who like stuff more aligned with what I like who can hopefully fill the vacuum 😁

I have a whale that pays a lot.

Basically, he keeps me afloat. But he has very specific tastes, and most of my content skews towards him and what he likes...I understand it pays the bills and that should always be the main focus, but I made some content I know he wouldnt necessarily like (again I know what he doesnt like just as much as what he does) and my other subs commented and interacted in a way I hadnt seen before.

Yeah its not really a big deal, and im grateful to have a whale at all, but like a band that has to play songs that cater to their audience rather than what they feel like playing, im kinda bored just catering to this guy.

Thanxx for listening 😊