u/WritingSudden362

Okay hear me out. Ik this market is veryyy saturated in pakistan islamabad but. I SEE NO COFFEE SHOPS IN H SECTORS. The H sectors has the most number of students esp uni going students. I always found it very hard to grab a cup of coffee when i used to go to uni.
I wanna start my own business and i was thinking abt opening a small coffee shop maybe with work/study spaces. Let me know if this could ever be a thing?

Okay hear me out. Ik this market is veryyy saturated in pakistan islamabad but. I SEE NO COFFEE SHOPS IN H SECTORS. The H sectors has the most number of students esp uni going students. I always found it very hard to grab a cup of coffee when i used to go to uni.
I wanna start my own business and i was thinking abt opening a small coffee shop maybe with work/study spaces. Let me know if this could ever be a thing?

Okay hear me out. Ik this market is veryyy saturated in pakistan islamabad but. I SEE NO COFFEE SHOPS IN H SECTORS. The H sectors has the most number of students esp uni going students. I always found it very hard to grab a cup of coffee when i used to go to uni.
I wanna start my own business and i was thinking abt opening a small coffee shop maybe with work/study spaces. Let me know if this could ever be a thing?

I(21F) and my bf (23) have been together for 8 years. High school sweethearts and whatever. Relationship has been great for the 8 years. He is a very respectful guy and has helped me a lot through the worst phases of my life. We have had a very mellow relationship. No big fights no drama. Any issue I have had during those 8 years he has solved those issues for me and has been there for me. I have actually seen that guy become a better version of himself for me. Prior to what I am going to tell below there has not been any red flag whatsoever.

A week ago i stumbled upon 2 cards one was addressed to him and the other was addressed to a girl. The cards included as you expect some lovey dovey texts. I immediately knew the girl who these were written to and I know they had been in contact as friends as the girl was going through some hard time and he was there for her. Which I absolutely did not mind as I am okay with female friends and just general female acquaintances. There was a whole blow up he confessed that yes there was some flirting and that he actually never gave the card to her he just wrote it and he stopped in due time.

I went through his texts, couldn’t find anything really suspicious but there were hints that something had happened between them. What I could gather from the texts was that nothing physical happened( I believe this) , but some flirting did happen as he confessed. There is no way for me to know the full extent of the cheating, considering he might have deleted the texts.

He has apologised profusely. Emails, texts,calls from different numbers because I blocked him. Swears on his mother, god, kabah that this will not happen again and that he will spend his life making it better. Asks me not leave him as the only good thing in his life is me. He has been going through a rough patch in his life, career and family( mother is not feeling well )wise and begs me that I am the only stable thing in his life.

He says he will arrange a call between his mother, sister and friend (both of which ‘apparently’ knew all about this before me). I asked him for space as all these calls and constant hysteria induced begging was making me mad, he is giving me that space now. He talked to my friend( the one posting this) and did sound calm on thatcall and and kept checking up on me and says that he will not text me, but will always hope that I text him back.

If things didn’t go down this path, I was going to tell my parents about him this year. We do have a sect issue so the marriage part wasn’t going to be easy as well.

Should I forgive him?

I 21F and my bf 23M have been together for 8 years. High school sweethearts and whatever. Relationship has been great for the 8 years. He is a very respectful guy and has helped me a lot through the worst phases of my life. We have had a very mellow relationship. No big fights no drama. Any issue I have had during those 8 years he has solved those issues for me and has been there for me. I have actually seen that guy become a better version of himself for me. Prior to what I am going to tell below there has not been any red flag whatsoever.

A week ago i stumbled upon 2 cards one was addressed to him and the other was addressed to a girl. The cards included as you expect some lovey dovey texts. I immediately knew the girl who these were written to and I know they had been in contact as friends as the girl was going through some hard time and he was there for her. Which I absolutely did not mind as I am okay with female friends and just general female acquaintances. There was a whole blow up he confessed that yes there was some flirting and that he actually never gave the card to her he just wrote it and he stopped in due time.

I went through his texts, couldn’t find anything really suspicious but there were hints that something had happened between them. What I could gather from the texts was that nothing physical happened( I believe this) , but some flirting did happen as he confessed. There is no way for me to know the full extent of the cheating, considering he might have deleted the texts.

He has apologised profusely. Emails, texts,calls from different numbers because I blocked him. Swears on his mother, god, kabah that this will not happen again and that he will spend his life making it better. Asks me not leave him as the only good thing in his life is me. He has been going through a rough patch in his life, career and family( mother is not feeling well )wise and begs me that I am the only stable thing in his life.

He says he will arrange a call between his mother, sister and friend (both of which ‘apparently’ knew all about this before me). I asked him for space as all these calls and constant hysteria induced begging was making me mad, he is giving me that space now. He talked to my friend( the one posting this) and did sound calm on thatcall and and kept checking up on me and says that he will not text me, but will always hope that I text him back.

If things didn’t go down this path, I was going to tell my parents about him this year. We do have a sect issue so the marriage part wasn’t going to be easy as well.

Should I forgive him?