My Conflict avoidance keeps me from leaving

I’m in a relationship that I desperately want out of but I’m really conflict avoidant and it’s stops me from leaving. The person I’m with is very verbally abusive and is very controlling like to the point where I can’t go or do anything without her being there including riding to my work and sleeping in the car. I want out of this 4 year relationship but I just can’t pull the trigger on doing it I can’t do seemingly anything without it causing her to cuss me out or just making my life difficult. She’s cheated on me as well multiple times but I just stay to avoid the conflict. I need advice on what I can do to help with this thanks.

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u/Wrong-Bridge6448 — 11 days ago

Conflict avoidance

I’m in a relationship that I desperately want out of but I’m really conflict avoidant and it’s stops me from leaving. The person I’m with is very verbally abusive and is very controlling like to the point where I can’t go or do anything without her being there including riding to my work and sleeping in the car. I want out of this 4 year relationship but I just can’t pull the trigger on doing it I can’t do seemingly anything without it causing her to cuss me out or just making my life difficult. She’s cheated on me as well multiple times but I just stay to avoid the conflict. I need advice on what I can do to help with this thanks.

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u/Wrong-Bridge6448 — 11 days ago

My girlfriend is in a controlling relationship with her girlfriend of 4 years

My girlfriend is in a controlling relationship with her girlfriend of 4 years. I met her 3 months ago and started dating 2 months ago and she’s been in a very controlling and emotionally abusive relationship with her girlfriend for a while and she’s been wanting out for a long time now But she feels stuck and doesn’t know how to handle it. They live together at my girlfriend’s grandmas house and the girl doesn’t have a job a car nothing to her name. The girl follows her everywhere including work where she stays in her car so she never has time for herself or anywhere she can go to get away. Needing some advice if possible

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u/Wrong-Bridge6448 — 2 months ago

My girlfriend is in a controlling relationship with her girlfriend of 4 years.

My girlfriend is in a controlling relationship with her girlfriend of 4 years. I met her 3 months ago and started dating 2 months ago and she’s been in a very controlling and emotionally abusive relationship with her girlfriend for a while and she’s been wanting out for a long time now But she feels stuck and doesn’t know how to handle it. They live together at my girlfriend’s grandmas house and the girl doesn’t have a job a car nothing to her name. The girl follows her everywhere including work where she stays in her car so she never has time for herself or anywhere she can go to get away. Needing some advice if possible

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u/Wrong-Bridge6448 — 2 months ago

Controlling relationships

My girlfriend is in a controlling relationship with her girlfriend of 4 years. I met her 3 months ago and started dating 2 months ago and she’s been in a very controlling and emotionally abusive relationship with her girlfriend for a while and she’s been wanting out for a long time now But she feels stuck and doesn’t know how to handle it. They live together at my girlfriend’s grandmas house and the girl doesn’t have a job a car nothing to her name. The girl follows her everywhere including work where she stays in her car so she never has time for herself or anywhere she can go to get away. Needing some advice if possible

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u/Wrong-Bridge6448 — 2 months ago