What do you think the sound is?

What do you think this sound is caused by and how do I fix it? It only rattles like this when I have the car in reverse or drive and I am stationary with my foot on the break. It does not happen in park or while I am moving in gear. 2019 TRD ORP

u/YukonCornelius-Colt — 1 day ago

Separation verse divorce

As a 40yr male who is thinking about divorcing his spouse, can someone give me a better understanding on what the true differences between separation and divorce. Some of the nuance differences that I’m not fully grasping.

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u/YukonCornelius-Colt — 16 days ago
▲ 13 r/Divorce

I’m so lost and just can’t pull the trigger on divorce. Should I stay or go?

I’m 40M. My wife is 39. She has suffered from an eating disorder and exercise addiction for 20yrs. We have been married for just under 10yrs and have two kids. They are my entire life. I’m emotionally at my lowest I’ve ever been bc of how her mental health is just destroying our lives. And my greatest fear is the negative impact it will have on our kids. I’m contemplating divorce but I just can’t bring myself to do it to the kids. And I also fear the financial toll it will have on me. What should I do and what made you pull the trigger after months/years of debating divorce?

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u/YukonCornelius-Colt — 2 months ago

Separation first and then divorce? Is this the better way?

Please give me some guidance as I’m thinking of asking my wife to leave the house and begin a separation. Which in my mind will be the begin steps towards divorce. I was thinking of asking her to leave due to mental illness that is slowly impacting the kids. I was going to get her an apartment and then over time begin the divorce process. During this period I was going to suggest she doesn’t come to the house but we will have agreed time w the kids. And then as time goes we begin the divorce process. Has anyone done anything similar??

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u/YukonCornelius-Colt — 2 months ago

New car, purchase and divorce?

I am contemplating divorcing my wife in the next six months. Murphy’s Law she had a car accident last week and totaled the car so now we need to get a new car immediately. What is the best way to purchase a car in this situation? Should I lease it finance it or buy it outright?

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u/YukonCornelius-Colt — 2 months ago
▲ 10 r/Divorce

High income earn. Surviving after divorce.

For those who are high income W-2 earners how did you all make out with both child support and alimony? And then taking care of yourself. I ran some rough numbers on ChatGPT. It looks realllll ugly for myself. It’s a big reason why I’m hesitant to even go through the divorce process. Can you share some guidance/positivity if there is any

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u/YukonCornelius-Colt — 3 months ago

First grade drills. Any suggestions.

Looking for a few new fun drills to add to my first grade practices. Any suggestions. Was going to try the three cup game but w ground balls.

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u/YukonCornelius-Colt — 3 months ago
▲ 5 r/bjj

I love BJJ

I’ve been an athlete my entire life. Now 40. DI athlete. Ironman triathlete. I’ve surfed skied and mtn biked all over the world and I just want to say. I LOVE BJJ.

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u/YukonCornelius-Colt — 3 months ago

For men who got divorced and has a wife that was a SAHM. Did she have to go back to work full time post divorce? Or did you have to pay alimony?

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u/YukonCornelius-Colt — 4 months ago