u/Zealousideal-Ship712

Men are so fucking dumb I can’t take it anymore. Ever since I started posting here I get DMs from men that show interest. No clue why they lurk this subreddit, thinking we’re easy women who just lack dick and need dick in their lives. This is the problem with men, their egos. They want to fuck every woman they see, take any opportunity that presents itself, they think every woman wants them. If I wanted dick I’d go on tinder and post the ugliest photo of my hyperpigmented asscrack and there’s men who’d still dive up in this pussy, finding dick isn’t the fucking problem so fuck off lurkers. it’s just predatory asf to see women complaining about their romantic/sexual problems and taking advantage of that and sliding into their DMs

If it’s not a horny DM, it’s a man being like “all of us men aren’t the same, you must’ve been hurt before. You poor thing.” I don’t want your pity, and like these men are attention seeking and have a savior complex, I’m not open minded to anything a man says

I can’t go a single scroll on social media without seeing soft core porn and bullshit. I mean Pornhub wasn’t enough for men, they need it in social media, video games, cartoons and movies, literally even Reddit. They’re so pathetic they PAY for it, 3.99$ a month to see the same shit you’d see on xvideos. Their dopamine receptors are fried and they constantly crave sexual novelty, it’s like they genuinely cannot think about us women in a way that isn’t sexual. I thought my day couldn’t get worse I saw a video of a man saying “I prefer women’s bodies to their face. If she doesn’t have a fat ass or fat tits, I can’t do it.” And it’s like, why do these men feel entitled to the top 1% of women. Most men are fucking average, most men aren’t over 6’2, most men don’t have abs, most men don’t have a 8 inch penis, most men don’t have a pretty face, most men aren’t fit and are overweight pieces of slop demanding all women should live in accordance to giving them an erection. We have to have cute face, cute feet, cute waist, cute body. It’s genuinely considered immoral to males for a woman to live by her own standards, like there’s this video of this girl in a bikini who didn’t shave her pubes and men got extremely disgusted and of course the porn addicted men with fried dopamine receptors fetishized it too, like PUBIC HAIR a NORMAL thing on us women, is a fucking fetish, and to the majority of these men it was just disgusting. They think everything is about them. And even if they do decide to date down, and get with ugly chicks they’re still beating to hot chicks and secretly preferring and getting aroused by them. Men aren’t monogamous by nature; it’s genuinely impossible to them. They need sexual novelty, need to spread their seed to as much women as desire. It’s like their brain is in their penis, why do you think Inceldom exists, they consider it immoral if a woman doesn’t want to fuck them, they naturally feel entitled to every woman’s sexual desire

I’m 20F and still, it’s like the goal post always moves. You have to all these traits JUST for a lick of another person’s time and respect. But I’m not trying to complain. I fixed social anxiety, I can initiate conversation, I can make small talk. Why is making friends still so hard? I spent an entire year at my community college friendless, even though I put myself out there, talked to my classmates and stuff, but no one reciprocated. Yet, I see classmates pairing up all the time, studying together after class or walking together to their cars and stuff.

I’m enrolling into university this year during the Fall as a transient student at Georgia State University, I honestly don’t think that would make a difference, because how does someone go a whole year without making a single friend. I just want to know why no one gives me a chance. I really appreciate for any response, and if anyone’s going through the same, what are you doing and how are you doing. I just want to know I’m not alone, any advice, any response is seriously appreciated

Im unsure if this is the right subreddit and flair but,

I’m really big on sexual energy. I send my bf nudes every day by my own choice, I always prefer wearing revealing outfits in the house with him, not only cuz it’s comfortable but makes me feel sexy to him. I express sexual desire to him very often saying how he looks good and how he turns me on, there’s no awkwardness around it for me lol. During sex I’m very vocal and passionate because I just love to do it. And there wasn’t a single time I’ve said “no” to when my bf initiates sex, I stopped initiating myself the past few months because , I get turned down quite often. So I don’t mind just waiting for him to get in the mood.

For some reason, I’ve just been feeling shame about my sexuality as of recent. I feel like I am being “too much” or “too promiscuous” and I don’t know if it’s more attractive to be a girl who isn’t open about her sexual desire, or a girl who’s more “coy” and not so “out there”

I already asked my bf how he feels about it, I’m just waiting for him to respond, but I also want an outside perspective to and maybe some reassurance