When someone has "yes please" for nsfw pictures, that should be reserved for relatively tasteful nudes
Not a picture of a gaping ass, a mouth full of cum, an obviously dirty dick, or something unhinged like that. Like you're just jumping off the deep end right away.
I just got an opening message from a 70 year old man (I'm 32) offering to suck my dick. He included a close up picture of his toothless mouth, open, and full of cum. I don't think I want any sex for at least a month. I just don't understand the reasoning. Why do I even bother to make my nudes look good?